If you've ever frozen mid-conversation, overthought what to say, or replayed a moment 500 times in your head… this episode for you.
You'll learn a 4-step framework—borrowed from a literal fighter pilot—that'll help you stop second-guessing and start speaking up.
You don't need a new personality. You don't need to be the loudest person in the room. You need a system that keeps you present and moving forward.
This is that system.
Let's go.
NEXT STEP:
QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
PRIVATE COACHING
Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.
SOCIAL ACCELERATOR: SELF PACED + GROUP COACHING
Are you putting in effort to get better socially... but still feel stuck?
If you're an overthinker, this might sound familiar:
👉 You're applying effort—but not seeing the results you want. 👉 You feel like you're doing the right things—but progress is slow. 👉 You're trying—but something's not clicking.
That's not a sign you should give up. It's a sign that your effort might be getting stalled in one of five traps that slow down your progress:
✅ You're not practicing often enough ✅ You're practicing in places that don't challenge you ✅ You're focusing on the wrong skills ✅ You're using the right skills in the wrong situations ✅ You're doing the right things—but your beliefs are secretly holding you back
In this podcast episode, I walk through each of these five effort mistakes—and give you simple, specific ways to fix them.
🎯 So if you've been frustrated with slow progress… 🎯 Or if you want to finally start seeing results you feel in real conversations…
Go listen now. This one's for you.
NEXT STEP:
QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
PRIVATE COACHING
Become more socially confident with private coaching.
SOCIAL ACCELERATOR: SELF PACED + GROUP COACHING
Quick question for you: How can you jump into a conversation without feeling awkward?
Ever find yourself hesitating to join a group, fearing you'll disrupt their flow?
You're not alone! It's normal to fear that awkward silence that hits when you walk over.
But don't worry, I've got some tips to help you start more conversations in your day-to-day life.
In this episode of the BMC podcast I cover…
✅ A mindset shift that will help you take action instead of hesitating. ✅ Why you should stop trying to think of the perfect thing to say and what to do instead. ✅ How to stay socially warm throughout your day so that you are always ready to start a conversation.
NEXT STEP:
QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
PRIVATE COACHING
Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.
SOCIAL ACCELERATOR: SELF PACED + GROUP COACHING
Belief you need to unlearn: Everyone is constantly judging you.
Unlearning this can make you more socially successful, a better communicator and help you stop overthinking social situations.
Why is this important? Believing everyone is judging you can paralyze you in social situations, making you hesitant to speak up in meetings, approach new people, or share your ideas.
Letting go of this belief can unlock new opportunities—leading to better relationships, increased confidence, and less overthinking.
In this episode of the BMC podcast, I'll help you unlearn this belief.
You'll learn...
✅ People are too focused on themselves to notice you. ✅ Why ocial mishaps are quickly forgotten by others. ✅ Consistent practice builds confidence and helps you push through fear.
NEXT STEP:
QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
PRIVATE COACHING
Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.
SOCIAL ACCELERATOR: SELF PACED + GROUP COACHING
Do you have to step out of your comfort zone to be interesting?
Yes, but shattering your comfort zone isn't the answer, do this instead.
Let's dig in.
Good things happen outside your comfort zone. If we all stayed within our comfort zones, we'd be on the couch watching Reels all day. While that's safe and low-risk, it means missing out on opportunities for growth.
Stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to meeting new people, starting relationships, finding new job opportunities, and discovering new hobbies. All these experiences help you grow and become more interesting.
I cover more on the latest BMC podcast episode…
NEXT STEP:
QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
PRIVATE COACHING
Become more socially confident in 12 weeks with private coaching.
SOCIAL ACCELERATOR: SELF PACED + GROUP COACHING