<description>&lt;p&gt;I unpack why turning a boy into a grounded, capable man has become so difficult in modern culture. I talk about the loss of initiation, the erasure of strong male role models, and the mistake of trying to repress male aggression instead of teaching men how to master it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We explore why maturity is not about becoming harmless, but about learning to contain and direct a man’s dangerous potential in a healthy way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;SHOW HIGHLIGHTS&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;00:00 Why Masculinity Maturity Matters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;00:36 “Men Are the Problem” Narrative&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;01:23 Feminizing Boys to Fix Society&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;02:56 Fixing Systems vs Fixing Boys&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;03:26 Why It’s Hard to Make a Man&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;04:12 Loss of Initiation and Role Models&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;05:25 Biology vs Social Conditioning&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;06:08 Male Aggression as Biological Reality&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;06:53 Raising Boys Without Sedation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;08:04 The Hellscape of Male Adolescence&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;09:21 You Can’t Socialize the Mammal Out&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;11:09 Learning to Contain Danger&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;13:38 Beauty and the Beast Archetype&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;15:13 Castrating Male Competition&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;16:47 The Cultural Pendulum Swing&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;18:04 Power, Initiation, and Surrender&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;20:55 Warrior in a Garden Principle&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;21:49 Guiding the Next Generation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: &lt;a href="https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: &lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE &lt;a href="https://training.mantalks.com/attachment-guide" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Ultimate Guide To Attachment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Check out some other &lt;strong&gt;free&lt;/strong&gt; resources: &lt;a href="https://training.mantalks.com/Quit" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;How To Quit Porn&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://training.mantalks.com/Anger" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Anger Meditation&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://training.mantalks.com/how-to-lead-in-your-relationship" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;How To Lead In Your Relationship&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out &lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/the-alliance" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;The Alliance&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on&lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/applepodcasts" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Apple Podcasts&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href="https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/the-mantalks-podcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Stitcher&lt;/a&gt;, or&lt;a href="https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/mantalks-podcast-1242514" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Podchaser&lt;/a&gt;. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the&lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; ManTalks Community&lt;/a&gt;, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on&lt;a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mantalks-podcast-inspiring/id1015078747?mt=2" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Apple Podcasts&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/googlepodcasts" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Google Podcasts&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/7pERITPtcg832IOwgZCF6x?si=7cgdOfmNQ8u2rZ4ovTP92A" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Spotify&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more, visit us at &lt;a href="https://mantalks.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;ManTalks.com&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/ManTalks.ca/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt; | &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Instagram&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Is It Hard To Turn A Boy Into A Man?

DEC 18, 202524 MIN
ManTalks Podcast

Is It Hard To Turn A Boy Into A Man?

DEC 18, 202524 MIN

Description

I unpack why turning a boy into a grounded, capable man has become so difficult in modern culture. I talk about the loss of initiation, the erasure of strong male role models, and the mistake of trying to repress male aggression instead of teaching men how to master it. We explore why maturity is not about becoming harmless, but about learning to contain and direct a man’s dangerous potential in a healthy way.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Why Masculinity Maturity Matters00:36 “Men Are the Problem” Narrative01:23 Feminizing Boys to Fix Society02:56 Fixing Systems vs Fixing Boys03:26 Why It’s Hard to Make a Man04:12 Loss of Initiation and Role Models05:25 Biology vs Social Conditioning06:08 Male Aggression as Biological Reality06:53 Raising Boys Without Sedation08:04 The Hellscape of Male Adolescence09:21 You Can’t Socialize the Mammal Out11:09 Learning to Contain Danger13:38 Beauty and the Beast Archetype15:13 Castrating Male Competition16:47 The Cultural Pendulum Swing18:04 Power, Initiation, and Surrender20:55 Warrior in a Garden Principle21:49 Guiding the Next Generation***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram