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In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Drew Moldenhauer, an international speaker, leadership trainer, and founder of Blue Ethos Specialized Training, to explore what it takes to communicate, lead, and perform effectively when the pressure is highest. Drawing from nearly two decades in law enforcement, higher education, and leadership development, Drew shares how high-performing teams build trust, navigate conflict, and stay composed in high-stress situations. He explains why communication can either escalate or de-escalate tension within seconds and why emotional control is often the foundation of effective leadership. Throughout the conversation, Drew discusses the concept of "high stakes teamwork" and why psychological safety, empathy, and accountability must coexist for teams to thrive. He also shares practical strategies leaders can use immediately to strengthen communication, build trust, and help teams stay calm and focused under pressure. Drew's message is especially relevant in today's world, where stress, conflict, and uncertainty can easily pull teams apart instead of bringing them together. His approach reminds us that leadership is not just about authority—it's about human connection, self-regulation, and creating environments where people feel seen, heard, and supported. This episode is a powerful reminder that the best leaders are not those who avoid pressure, but those who learn to lead themselves and others effectively through it. You'll Learn: • What "high stakes teamwork" really means and why it matters • Common communication mistakes people make under stress • Why emotional control is critical for leadership and performance • How empathy and accountability work together in strong teams • Practical ways to stay calm and think clearly under pressure • How leaders can build trust and psychological safety immediately • Why resilience and self-awareness shape effective leadership Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Drew Moldenhauer: https://drewthespeaker.com/ Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ Register for the Mental Performance Summit: https://mentalperformancesummit.org/ Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: https://freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ Download the Confidence Research Study: https://confidencestudy.com/

In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff explores how your self-talk impacts your confidence, resilience, and performance. Inspired by a recent coaching conversation, she shares why high performers often struggle with harsh self-criticism—and how self-compassion actually helps you improve faster. You'll learn: The difference between your inner critic and inner coach What self-critical thinking does to your brain Why self-compassion builds resilience under pressure A simple tool to shift your mindset in the moment The 3 Ns: Notice your self-talk Name it Next best thought Power Phrase: "I choose to be my own coach, not my own critic." To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos

In this episode, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff shares the story behind Hank's Hope, a project inspired by her father's 51-day fight in the ICU and the "win wall" her family created to capture small victories each day. Cindra explores why celebrating small wins is essential for building confidence, resilience, and hope. Drawing from performance psychology and confidence research, she explains how focusing on progress—not perfection—helps train your brain to recognize growth and build belief in yourself. In This Episode: Why small wins matter The difference between "the gap" and "the gain" How celebrating progress builds confidence Simple ways to track your daily wins Power Phrase: "Confidence grows when we acknowledge our progress, not just our perfection." Learn more about Hank's Hope at Mentally Strong Kids: mentallystrongkids.org/hanks-hope/

In this episode of The High Performance Mindset, Dr. Cindra Kamphoff sits down with Dr. Armin McCrea-Dastur—leadership and performance consultant, Founder of Diamond Consulting, and expert in both business and sport psychology—to explore what it takes to perform at a high level across every environment. Drawing from more than 30 years of experience in leadership development, organizational performance, and sport psychology, Armin shares a unique perspective on how the skills developed in athletics directly translate into success in business and life. From working with global brands like Ray-Ban, Kraft Foods, and Cadbury to supporting elite athletes and teams—including the University of North Carolina Men's Basketball program during their 2005 championship season—Armin explains how mindset, identity, and self-trust shape performance in critical moments. You'll also hear practical strategies to manage second-guessing in the moment, build confidence in unfamiliar situations, and recognize the competitive advantage athletes already possess. Armin also reflects on her own journey stepping away from competitive skating and how that experience shaped her passion for helping others navigate performance, transition, and leadership with greater clarity. This episode is a powerful reminder that the mindset skills built through sport don't end when competition does—they become the foundation for thriving in every arena of life. You'll Learn: How performance principles apply across sport, business, and leadership Why athletes often struggle with identity after sport How to stop overthinking and trust yourself under pressure What separates high performers in unfamiliar environments Why self-awareness and adaptability are critical for long-term success Episode Resources & Links Learn more about Diamond Consulting: https://www.diamondconsultingcorp.biz/ Learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ Request a Free Mental Breakthrough Call with Dr. Cindra or her team: https://freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ Download the Confidence Research Study: https://confidencestudy.com/

"Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do." – Benjamin Spock What if the biggest thing holding you back… isn't your ability, but your trust in it? In this episode, we dive into a powerful question high performers face all the time: "Have I done enough, and can I trust it when it matters most?" You'll hear a real story from an elite athlete preparing for a major moment, and the simple shift that changed everything. We explore: Why self-trust is a skill (not something you're born with) How hesitation and overthinking quietly sabotage performance The surprising truth: confidence doesn't come before action, it comes from it Plus, a few simple mindset shifts you can start using immediately: How to act before you feel ready A better way to respond when doubt creeps in The one question that builds real belief fast Why your inner voice might be the key to everything If you've ever second-guessed yourself, overthought a decision, or wondered if you're truly ready—this episode is for you. Power Phrase: "I train my trust. I act with belief, even before I feel it." To download our full study report, visit: confidencestudy.com To Request a Free Breakthrough Call with a Mentally Strong Coach, visit: http://www.freementalbreakthroughcall.com/ To learn more about the Mentally Strong Institute, visit: https://mentallystronginstitute.com/ To learn about Dr. Cindra Kamphoff's speaking and coaching, visit: https://cindrakamphoff.com/ To follow Dr. Cindra on Instagram, visit: Cindra Kamphoff, PhD (@cindrakamphoff) • Instagram photos and videos