What if forgiveness isn't the next step? In this deeply honest coaching session, Christine works with Sylvie, who has been trying for years to reach forgiveness after a profound betrayal involving her ex-husband and a longtime friend. Despite therapy, spiritual work, and understanding that "forgiveness is for you," she finds herself stuck. Christine helps Sylvie uncover something powerful: sometimes forgiveness isn't blocked because we're not spiritual enough — it's blocked because we've skipped a step. When betrayal runs deep, especially when it touches childhood wounds of not being seen or valued, forgiveness may not be the first doorway. Confrontation, anger release, and self-advocacy might be. If you've ever tried to forgive but couldn't get there — or felt ashamed that you're still angry — this episode will help you understand why and what may actually need to happen first. transcript Consider / Ask Yourself: Is there someone you feel you "should" forgive but can't? Are you trying to spiritually bypass anger or confrontation? Do you avoid conflict, even when something deeply hurt you? Are you holding onto resentment because speaking up feels harder? Is there a clearing conversation you've been postponing? Key Insights and A-HAs: Forgiveness is not condoning someone's behavior. Forgiveness is about releasing the beliefs and judgments keeping you stuck — not excusing the action. Sometimes the growth edge isn't forgiveness — it's confrontation. Anger is not unspiritual; it's information and energy that must be processed. Avoiding hard conversations can keep betrayal alive in the body. Peace often comes from self-advocacy, not silence. How to Deepen the Work: Ask yourself if there is a conversation that needs to happen before you can move forward. Explore somatic or anger-release work to move stored emotion out of your body. Notice where you are confusing forgiveness with people-pleasing. Practice being a stand for yourself in small ways before having larger confrontations. Shift the goal from "forgiveness" to "peace and acceptance." Free Masterclass: Untangled Christine is hosting a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you break out of childhood patterns and step into who you truly are — especially in this powerful Fire Horse energy cycle. This is an opportunity to create new momentum, untangle old emotional patterns, and strategically step into transformation. Register at:christinehassler.com/untangled Social Media + Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: [email protected] — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!