Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

It's another Friday, where Justin and Kylie look back at the week that was with another 'I'll Do Better Tomorrow' episode. This week, as Justin's new book Boys hit bestseller lists, a parent shared a confronting account of what they're seeing in schools: disrespect, entitlement, harmful behaviour, and a growing concern about the messages many boys are absorbing. In this powerful episode, Justin and Kylie explore why positive masculinity matters more than ever, and why raising boys who make others feel safer, stronger, and valued isn't just important for families—it's essential for society. They also share a heartwarming family story that proves one simple truth: traditions matter more than we realise. KEY POINTS The alarming behaviours some parents and schools are reporting among boys. Why good boys need strong role models and clear guidance. The simple definition of healthy masculinity every parent should know. How family traditions build belonging, resilience, and connection. Why showing up consistently matters more than perfection. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "A healthy man helps the people around him feel safer and stronger." RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Justin Coulson Happy Families resources and podcast ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Create or protect one meaningful family tradition this week. Talk with your sons about what healthy masculinity looks like in everyday life. Highlight examples of men who show kindness, courage, integrity, and respect. Focus on raising boys who contribute, not consume; who give, not take. Make time for regular family connection, even when life gets busy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What helps a boy do the right thing when everyone else is doing the wrong thing? In this episode, Justin shares one of the most important lessons from his new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out. He explores why character matters more than achievement, how resilience is built through challenge, and why choosing the hard path is often what shapes boys into trustworthy, courageous men. From peer pressure and moral courage to embracing life's "hills", this conversation offers practical guidance for parents who want to raise boys with strength, integrity, and the confidence to stand alone when it counts. KEY POINTS Why character is the foundation of trust. The difference between "resume virtues" and "eulogy virtues." How choosing difficult challenges builds resilience and confidence. Why boys need opportunities to struggle, fail, and grow. The importance of helping children reframe obstacles as opportunities. How supportive relationships help young people develop resilience. The powerful question every boy is asking: Do I have what it takes? QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "Rather than asking, 'How can I avoid this difficulty?', your son learns to ask, 'How can I grow through this difficulty?'" RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson The Road to Character by David Brooks ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Resist the urge to solve every problem for your child. When your child is struggling, focus on understanding before advising. Encourage effort, persistence, and courage over comfort. Help your child reflect on what challenges are teaching them. Model a willingness to embrace difficult things in your own life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if one of the biggest challenges facing boys today is something most parents never see? In this fascinating conversation, Dr Justin Coulson explores the concept of "precarious masculinity"—the idea that boys often feel they must continually prove they are "man enough". Drawing on research, real-life stories, and insights from his new book Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out, Justin unpacks the invisible pressures shaping boys' behaviour, friendships, confidence, and sense of self. If you've ever wondered why boys take risks, hide their emotions, or care so deeply about what their mates think, this episode offers a powerful new perspective. KEY POINTS Why boys often define manhood by what it isn't. The surprising research behind "precarious masculinity". How boys learn to seek approval and status from their peers. Why masculinity is often viewed as something that must be earned. The difference between healthy masculinity and harmful stereotypes. What parents need to understand about the pressures boys face today. RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out — Dr Justin Coulson Manhood in the Making — David Gilmore ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Listen for how your son talks about being a boy or a man. Create opportunities for conversations about identity, belonging, and friendship. Celebrate courage, resilience, and kindness equally. Help boys understand their worth isn't based on proving themselves to others. Encourage healthy risk-taking while reinforcing emotional openness. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Boys are struggling—and many parents can feel it. In this special episode, Kylie Coulson turns the tables and interviews Dr Justin Coulson about his brand-new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out. From alarming statistics about boys' education and wellbeing to the growing influence of the manosphere, Justin shares what he discovered after years of research, countless conversations, and one deeply personal loss that changed the direction of the book forever. This is a hopeful, practical conversation about what boys need most, what healthy masculinity really looks like, and how parents can help raise boys who are strong, kind, capable, and connected. KEY POINTS Why Justin felt compelled to write a book about boys The heartbreaking family experience that reshaped the book The confronting statistics every parent should know Why boys are falling behind in education The dangers—and appeal—of online male influencers Why the conversation about "toxic masculinity" isn't helping boys The power of connection over correction How positive male role models can change a boy's future What healthy masculinity actually looks like Justin's definition of a good man QUOTE OF THE EPISODE "You cannot lecture a boy into becoming a good man. Instead of trying to lecture him into it, love him into it." RESOURCES MENTIONED Boys: Building Strong Young Men From the Inside Out by Justin Coulson Happy Families Michelle Mitchell ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Prioritise connection before correction when your child is struggling. Look for opportunities to encourage your son's strengths rather than focusing only on mistakes. Be intentional about surrounding boys with positive male role models. Listen more than you lecture. Help boys develop a healthy understanding of what it means to be a good man. Remember that growth takes time—stay patient, present, and hopeful. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After more than four years of research, writing, and reflection, Justin's new book, Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out, is finally here. In this special launch-week episode, Justin reads from the opening pages of the book and shares the deeply personal experiences that shaped it. From the loss of a beloved nephew to the growing concerns parents have about raising boys today, this episode explores why the conversation about boys matters so much - and why hope matters even more. At the heart of the book is a simple but powerful idea: boys aren't the problem. With the right guidance, they can become men who make the people around them feel safer, stronger, and more supported. KEY POINTS:• Why Justin spent more than four years writing Boys• The personal dedication that made this book especially emotional• The challenges many parents are facing with boys today• Why boys need a positive vision of masculinity• The concept of "surplus value" and the transition from boyhood to manhood• How boys can learn to use their strength to serve rather than dominate QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:"Boys aren't the problem. I think boys are the solution." RESOURCES MENTIONED:• Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out by Dr Justin Coulson• Misconnection by Dr Justin Coulson• The Making of Men by Dr Arne Rubinstein• Happy Families ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:• Consider what messages your son is receiving about what it means to be a man.• Look for opportunities to encourage responsibility, contribution, and service.• Talk about using strength to help others feel safer and stronger.• Model accountability, ownership, and respect in everyday family life.• Celebrate character and contribution as much as achievement.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.