Marc & Teresa Hildebrand
Growth can be loud on Instagram and quiet in real life. We open our new series, What Growth Really Looks Like, by naming the truth most of us avoid: progress often feels like you’re going backwards. The rhythm gets messy, confidence dips, and your brain tells you to bail. Instead of treating that as failure, we show how discomfort, doubt, and confusion are the exact markers that you’re expanding.
We walk through familiar moments—your first client, your first launch, the first time you share your work—and unpack why they feel like spinning your wheels even when you’re doing the right things. You’ll hear how unlearning precedes improvement, why the mind mistakes slowness for regression, and how to measure progress with behaviors and consistency rather than mood. We also share the quote anchoring this series—feeling lost doesn’t mean you’re off track, it means you’re expanding—and apply it directly to coaching and leadership. If you’ve ever messaged “I’m stuck,” you’ll recognize the pattern that often signals a breakthrough is near.
From there, we get practical. We talk about staying calm when coaches panic, spotting the edge of a breakthrough, and using one reliable hack: surrounding yourself with people who are willing to grow, get uncomfortable, and think differently. Community normalizes the messy middle and gives you the feedback loops to keep moving. We close by teeing up the next step in the journey: how to walk into new rooms without wasting time, money, or energy, and how to know which rooms are right for your season.
If the work feels awkward, you’re not broken—you’re building. Press play, share this with a friend who’s on the edge of something new, and leave a review with one uncomfortable action you’re taking this week.
Interested in monthly coaching that helps you elevate how you think, act, and lead?
ELEVATE by Modern Leadership Coaching gives you the structure and support to turn intention into real momentum.
Join a community of people who are choosing to lead themselves, right now:
https://www.modernleadership.us/elevate