We are possessed by the spirit that never existed. Time to exorcise its imaginary hold and throw away the post-it notes. In this week's dialogue we discuss: predicting and planning versus unfolding, resilience, rolling with the punches, life can knock us down, the detached perspective of the therapist, what it feels like is not how it is imagined, an empowered roadblock of stories, the dunce cap wearing doer, non-doership, the imaginary possession, the post-it note self, a deepening, always living in the future, our innate capabilities.