<b>This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions,the conversation gets real about effort, expectations, and the ongoing struggle of trying to meet people halfway… when they’re barely stepping forward.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>We’re joined by publicist and conflict coach, Adrienne, of the IPY Agency.  We unpack the imbalance that shows up in dating and relationships — from emotional labor to planning, communication, and consistency — and ask: are we asking for too much, or are people just doing too little?</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>The episode dives into what “meeting in the middle” actually looks like, how compromise gets misunderstood, and why so many situationships feel one-sided. Of course, we keep it honest, a little petty, and very relatable.Topics Covered:</b><br /><ul><li>What “meeting in the middle” really means in dating</li><li>Feeling like you’re always the one putting in effort</li><li>Unrealistic expectations vs. bare minimum behavior</li><li>Why compromise shouldn’t feel like sacrifice</li><li>Situationship dynamics and uneven energy</li><li>Emotional labor and communication gaps</li><li>Knowing when to adjust… and when to walk away</li></ul><b><br />Offers From Our Sponsors:</b><br /><b>DRIVE BOOST BY VB HEALTH</b><br /><b>Visit <a href="https://vb.health/discount/cocktales?utm_source=cocktales" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">vb.health</a> and use code COCKTALES for 10% off </b><br /><b><br />Super.com</b><br /><b>Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. </b><br /><b><br />Follow Our Guest</b><br /><b>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/impromotingyou" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @impromotingyou</a></b><br /><b>Adrienne’s Site: <a href="https://www.theipyagency.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Public Relations | The IPY Agency | United States</a></b><br /><b>Purchase Meet Me In the Middle <a href="https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/</a><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales</b><br /><b><br />Get Your Merch &amp; Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com</b><br /><b><br />Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience:<a href="https://booking.luxetribes.com/booking/38d8a57a-050a-447c-a8a7-b5e228585848/customization" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali</a></b><br /><b><br />Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki<a href="https://www.klassybaste.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.klassybaste.com</a></b><br /><b><br />Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper”<a href="https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso</a></b><br /><b><br />Travel With Medinah!<a href="https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe</a></b><br /><b><br />DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA-<a href="https://www.mowatl.org/donations" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.mowatl.org/donations</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>MOWA </b><b>TASTE  May 29, 2026 LINK : <a href="http://onecau.se/_fv6xa1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">onecau.se/_fv6xa1</a></b><br /><b>Dear Lover Girl : <a href="https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&amp;utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&amp;utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist</a></b><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support</a>.<br /><br /><b>CONNECT WITH US</b><br /><i>Follow the...

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Meet Me in the Middle: Effort Is Sexy & Y’all Acting Confused

MAR 26, 202691 MIN
CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Meet Me in the Middle: Effort Is Sexy & Y’all Acting Confused

MAR 26, 202691 MIN

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<b>This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions,the conversation gets real about effort, expectations, and the ongoing struggle of trying to meet people halfway… when they’re barely stepping forward.</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>We’re joined by publicist and conflict coach, Adrienne, of the IPY Agency.  We unpack the imbalance that shows up in dating and relationships — from emotional labor to planning, communication, and consistency — and ask: are we asking for too much, or are people just doing too little?</b><br /><b></b><br /><b>The episode dives into what “meeting in the middle” actually looks like, how compromise gets misunderstood, and why so many situationships feel one-sided. Of course, we keep it honest, a little petty, and very relatable.Topics Covered:</b><br /><ul><li>What “meeting in the middle” really means in dating</li><li>Feeling like you’re always the one putting in effort</li><li>Unrealistic expectations vs. bare minimum behavior</li><li>Why compromise shouldn’t feel like sacrifice</li><li>Situationship dynamics and uneven energy</li><li>Emotional labor and communication gaps</li><li>Knowing when to adjust… and when to walk away</li></ul><b><br />Offers From Our Sponsors:</b><br /><b>DRIVE BOOST BY VB HEALTH</b><br /><b>Visit <a href="https://vb.health/discount/cocktales?utm_source=cocktales" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">vb.health</a> and use code COCKTALES for 10% off </b><br /><b><br />Super.com</b><br /><b>Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. </b><br /><b><br />Follow Our Guest</b><br /><b>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/impromotingyou" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> @impromotingyou</a></b><br /><b>Adrienne’s Site: <a href="https://www.theipyagency.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Public Relations | The IPY Agency | United States</a></b><br /><b>Purchase Meet Me In the Middle <a href="https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/</a><br /></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales</b><br /><b><br />Get Your Merch &amp; Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com</b><br /><b><br />Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience:<a href="https://booking.luxetribes.com/booking/38d8a57a-050a-447c-a8a7-b5e228585848/customization" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali</a></b><br /><b><br />Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki<a href="https://www.klassybaste.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.klassybaste.com</a></b><br /><b><br />Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper”<a href="https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">  www.patreon.com/kikisaidso</a></b><br /><b><br />Travel With Medinah!<a href="https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe</a></b><br /><b><br />DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA-<a href="https://www.mowatl.org/donations" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://www.mowatl.org/donations</a></b><br /><b></b><br /><b>MOWA </b><b>TASTE  May 29, 2026 LINK : <a href="http://onecau.se/_fv6xa1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">onecau.se/_fv6xa1</a></b><br /><b>Dear Lover Girl : <a href="https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&amp;utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&amp;utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist</a></b><br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support</a>.<br /><br /><b>CONNECT WITH US</b><br /><i>Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:</i><br /><br />Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)<br />Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kikisaidso</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://tiktok.com/@kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@kikisaidso</a><br /><br />Medinah Monroe<br />Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/coffeebeandean" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@coffeebeandean</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://tiktok.com/@medinahmonro" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@medinahmonro</a>e<br /><br />CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast<br />Instagram:<a href="https://instagram.com/cocktalespodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@cocktalespodcast</a><br />TikTok: <a href="https://tiktok.com/@cocktalespodcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">@cocktalespodcast</a><br /><br />Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?<br /><br />We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. 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