<br />This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”<br /><br />We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere)<br />• Why communication is not “being nosy”<br />• New men in elevators &amp; unexpected meet-cutes<br />• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats<br />• Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories &amp; deconstructed pies<br />• What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional<br /><br />🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL<br />2 oz vodka<br />1 oz fresh lemon juice<br />0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup<br />Splash of cranberry juice<br />2–3 cucumber slices<br />Club soda to top<br />Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist<br /><br />How to make it:<br /><br />Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!<br /><br />FOLLOW US:<br />@COCKTALESPOD<br />@KIKISAIDSO<br />@COFFEEBEANDEAN<br /><br />For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: <a href="https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads</a><br /><br />Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  <a href="https://5ae06f57-73d3-4314-974d-0bc34569e2bc.pipedrive.email/c/zyrnq8mqz4/j4n52p6e54/j4n7rq1xk7/3?redirectUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fbeducate.me%2Fbg2549-cocktales&amp;hash=ZjZzD9W3v1pwaumWcaux-iJuYFtxHIDegOZAKktcuFA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales</a>  #BEDUCATED #getbeducated<br /><br />If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to <a href="http://viia.co/COCKTALES" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">viia.co/COCKTALES</a> and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter<br /><br /> Contact Us!<br />Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.com<br />Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com<br />Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com<br />Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com<br />Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com<br />Get Your Merch &amp; Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at<a href="https://www.imcurioustoknow.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.imcurioustoknow.com </a><br />Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki<a href="https://www.klassybaste.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.klassybaste.com</a><br />Join Kiki's  Book Club<a href="https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.patreon.com/kikisaidso</a><br />Travel With Medinah! <a href="https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe</a><br />Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support</a>.

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’

DEC 11, 202565 MIN
CockTales: Dirty Discussions

The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’

DEC 11, 202565 MIN

Description

<br />This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”<br /><br />We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere)<br />• Why communication is not “being nosy”<br />• New men in elevators &amp; unexpected meet-cutes<br />• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats<br />• Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories &amp; deconstructed pies<br />• What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional<br /><br />🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL<br />2 oz vodka<br />1 oz fresh lemon juice<br />0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup<br />Splash of cranberry juice<br />2–3 cucumber slices<br />Club soda to top<br />Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist<br /><br />How to make it:<br /><br />Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!<br /><br />FOLLOW US:<br />@COCKTALESPOD<br />@KIKISAIDSO<br />@COFFEEBEANDEAN<br /><br />For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: <a href="https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads</a><br /><br />Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  <a href="https://5ae06f57-73d3-4314-974d-0bc34569e2bc.pipedrive.email/c/zyrnq8mqz4/j4n52p6e54/j4n7rq1xk7/3?redirectUrl=https%3A%2F%2Fbeducate.me%2Fbg2549-cocktales&amp;hash=ZjZzD9W3v1pwaumWcaux-iJuYFtxHIDegOZAKktcuFA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales</a>  #BEDUCATED #getbeducated<br /><br />If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to <a href="http://viia.co/COCKTALES" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">viia.co/COCKTALES</a> and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter<br /><br /> Contact Us!<br />Advice:  [email protected]<br />Cocktales: [email protected]<br />Weird Sex: [email protected]<br />Live Show Sponsorship: [email protected]<br />Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected]<br />Get Your Merch &amp; Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at<a href="https://www.imcurioustoknow.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.imcurioustoknow.com </a><br />Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki<a href="https://www.klassybaste.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.klassybaste.com</a><br />Join Kiki's  Book Club<a href="https://www.patreon.com/kikisaidso" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> www.patreon.com/kikisaidso</a><br />Travel With Medinah! <a href="https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe</a><br />Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] today!<br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support</a>.