Anatomy of Us
Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Us

Anatomy of Us

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A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.

Recent Episodes

Your Triggers Might be WRONG! Rethinking what your triggers REALLY mean.
JUN 12, 2024
Your Triggers Might be WRONG! Rethinking what your triggers REALLY mean.
Welcome back to Anatomy of Us! πŸŽ™οΈ Today, Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive deep into a hot topic: triggers. Ever feel like you're constantly on edge, blaming others for how you react? This episode's insightful discussion is for you! πŸ™Œ Here's what you'll learn: Redefining Triggers: Melanie breaks down why the term "trigger" is overused and often misapplied. Discover what really constitutes a legitimate trigger. Personal Insight: Hear Melanie's powerful story of overcoming trauma from a severe childhood car accident and what true triggers look like. Analogy: Meet Zinga, Melanie's mini Australian Shepherd, whose past experiences cause her to misinterpret friendly intentions. This analogy will change how you see your own triggers! Client Case Study: Learn about a client who mistakenly blames his partner for his emotional reactions. Could you be doing the same? Transformative Moment: An inspiring story about Zinga learning to trust and how changing your perspective can lead to healthier relationships. Join Melanie as she challenges you to rethink what your triggers really mean. Change your mindset, transform your relationships, and build a stronger, more resilient you! πŸ’ͺ✨ πŸ‘‰ Want to dive deeper? Check out our coaching at anatomyofus.com. We love helping you create the life and marriage you want! πŸ‘«πŸ’¬ Thanks for listening, you're amazing! Peace! ✌️ πŸ”— Links and Resources We have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources πŸ‘₯ Connect with Us: Subscribe to our show for more insightful episodes. TikTok @anatomyofuspod IG @anatomyofuspod Facebook @anatomyofus Website anatomyofus.com Thank you to our sponsors! πŸ“Œ Keywords: Empowerment, Intentional Living, Proactive Preparedness, Emotional Regulation, Life Challenges, Relationship Advice, Marriage Tips, Personal Growth, Stability, Behavior Standards, Mental Resilience, Triggers #AnatomyOfUs #Empowerment #IntentionalLiving #EmotionalRegulation #AnatomyOfUs #Triggers #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #MarriageAdvice #MindsetShift Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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16 MIN
Take Life by the Horns!
JUN 6, 2024
Take Life by the Horns!
πŸŽ™οΈ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! πŸŽ™οΈ In today’s special mini-episode, Melanie takes the reins solo to share some transformative insights that have been floating around in her mind. πŸ’­ She dives deep into the empowering concept of Taking Life by the Horns and how you can direct your path with intention and strength. πŸ”Ή Empowerment through Choice: Learn how to make deliberate choices about your reactions, instead of letting life push you around. πŸ”Ή Proactive Preparedness: Discover the power of deciding in advance how you'll handle life’s challenges to maintain stability and reduce stress. πŸ”Ή Consistent Behavior Standards: Find out why making declarations about your behavior in relationships can transform how you interact with your loved ones. πŸ”Ή Emotional Regulation: Melanie shares tips on staying calm and regulated, even when those around you are not. πŸ”Ή Intentional Living: Embrace intentional living by choosing your responses and actions, shaping your future with proactive and thoughtful decisions. Tune in for practical advice and powerful strategies to help you navigate life’s ups and downs with confidence and purpose. Let’s take life by the horns together! πŸ‚βœ¨ πŸ‘‰ Want to dive deeper? Check out our coaching at anatomyofus.com. We love helping you create the life and marriage you want! πŸ‘«πŸ’¬ Thanks for llistening, you're amazing! Peace! ✌️ πŸ”— Links and Resources We have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources πŸ‘₯ Connect with Us: Subscribe to our show for more insightful episodes. TikTok @anatomyofuspod IG @anatomyofuspod Facebook @anatomyofus Website anatomyofus.com Thank you to our sponsors! πŸ“Œ Keywords: Empowerment, Intentional Living, Proactive Preparedness, Emotional Regulation, Life Challenges, Relationship Advice, Marriage Tips, Personal Growth, Stability, Behavior Standards, Mental Resilience #AnatomyOfUs #TakeLifeByTheHorns #Empowerment #IntentionalLiving #ProactivePreparedness #EmotionalRegulation #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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11 MIN
Is this Anxiety REALLY Mine?! Examining Inherited Anxiety
MAY 29, 2024
Is this Anxiety REALLY Mine?! Examining Inherited Anxiety
πŸ‘‹ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! Today Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive into a topic that's been on her mind: Inherited Anxiety. 🌟 In this episode, Melanie explores how we often unknowingly inherit anxieties and fears from our families and claim them as our own. 😲 Join Mel as she breaks down the importance of examining and distinguishing between inherited anxieties and our own true feelings. This concept doesn't just apply to anxiety but to other inherited traits like prejudices and assumptions. 🧠✨ Let's untangle these knots together and transform our lives by identifying what's truly ours. πŸ’ͺ❀️ If you're ready to examine your own anxieties and make a positive change, this episode is for you. Don't forget to like, comment, and share your thoughts! πŸ“Ί Subscribe for more episodes πŸ’¬ Leave us a review and share your experiences! Thanks for listening, you're amazing! Peace! ✌️ πŸ‘‰ Want to dive deeper? Check out our coaching at anatomyofus.com. We love helping you create the life and marriage you want! πŸ‘«πŸ’¬ πŸ”— Links and Resources We have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources πŸ‘₯ Connect with Us: Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes. TikTok @anatomyofuspod IG @anatomyofuspod Facebook @anatomyofus Website anatomyofus.com Thank you to our sponsors! πŸ“Œ Keywords: Anxiety, Mental Health, Stress Management, Family of Origin, Generational Trauma, Self-Care, Personal Growth #AnatomyOfUs #InheritedAnxiety #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #FamilyOfOrigin #AnxietyRelief #MarriageTransformation 4o Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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13 MIN
Building a Non-Anxious Life with Dr. John Delony
MAY 15, 2024
Building a Non-Anxious Life with Dr. John Delony
Welcome to the latest episode of the Anatomy of Us podcast, where Melanie Studley and Seth Studley are joined by special guest and friend, Dr. John Delony, for an enlightening discussion on his new book "Building a Non-Anxious Life." This episode kicks off with a laid-back conversation featuring personal anecdotes and even some pet stories, setting a relatable tone for what follows. Dr. Delony, drawing from his experience as a therapist, delves into the normalization of anxiety and the challenges faced in diagnosing mental health issues. He shares invaluable insights on viewing anxiety as a natural response to stress and emphasizes the importance of being present in managing it. As the conversation unfolds, practical tips for managing anxiety emerge, including the significance of self-care, building support networks, and seeking professional help when needed. Dive into this engaging dialogue for actionable strategies to cultivate a more peaceful and balanced life. πŸ”— Links and Resources We have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources πŸ‘₯ Connect with Us: Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes. TikTok @anatomyofuspod IG @anatomyofuspod Facebook @anatomyofus Website anatomyofus.com πŸ“Œ Keywords: Counseling, Anxiety, Mental Health, Stress Management, Support Network, Non-Anxious Life, Dr. John Delony, Therapy, Self-Care, Personal Growth Thank you to our sponsors! πŸ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes! πŸ’¬ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes. #Therapy #MentalHealth #Coaching #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals πŸ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage. πŸ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast – where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! 🎧✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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67 MIN
HELP, my kid is OUT OF CONTROL! W: Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach Dan Peterson
MAY 1, 2024
HELP, my kid is OUT OF CONTROL! W: Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach Dan Peterson
In today's episode, we sit down with Dan Peterson, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach, to discuss what to do when your kid is out of control! 😩 πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’« 😭 Meet Dan, the Founder of The Compass 4 Life, who brings years of expertise in clinical psychology and the Nurtured Heart Approachβ„’ (NHA) to the table. 🌟 With a Masters degree from Benedictine University and personal training from NHA founder Howard Glasser, Dan is your go-to expert for handling challenging children. In this enlightening conversation, Dan shares valuable insights and strategies to empower parents and caregivers facing similar challenges. πŸ’ͺ🏽 Don't miss out on his 90-day Coaching Program - check it out at https://www.thecompass4life.com/work-with-me βœ… And if you're ready to take the next step, reach out to Dan directly at https://www.thecompass4life.com/contact ❌ Don't struggle for one more day, reach out to Dan and get the help you need to TRANSFORM your relationship with your kid! πŸš€βœ¨ πŸ”— Links and Resources We have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources πŸ‘₯ Connect with Us: Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes. TikTok @anatomyofuspod IG @anatomyofuspod Facebook @anatomyofus Website anatomyofus.com πŸ“Œ Keywords: Marriage Communication, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Counseling, Nurtured Heart Approach, Parenting Techniques, Positive Reinforcement, Recognizing Greatness, Emotional Regulation, Intense Children, Parent-Child Relationship, Transformative Parenting, Setting Boundaries, Building Resilience, Acknowledging Successes, Parenting Workshops, Mindful Parenting, Self-Esteem. Thank you to our sponsors! πŸ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes! πŸ’¬ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes. #MarriageCommunication #EffectiveCommunication #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals #ParentingSupport #NurturedHeartApproach #ParentCoaching #ProblemChild #TransformativeParenting #Boundaries #MindfulParenting πŸ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage. πŸ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast – where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! 🎧✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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53 MIN