<description>&lt;p&gt;Sean and Kyle dive into &lt;strong&gt;“the responsibility of achievement”&lt;/strong&gt;—what happens when your personal wins start to carry weight for other people.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sean shares a story from a recent all-inclusive trip to Mexico, where resort staff pointed out that the &lt;em&gt;two wheelchair guys&lt;/em&gt; were the most consistent tippers. That sparks a conversation about why they often feel responsible to “represent” disabled folks well in situations like Uber, airlines, and travel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From there, they unpack:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Doing big, visible challenges (bike rides, India, the Niesen Stairway) without feeling like you &lt;em&gt;owe&lt;/em&gt; the world the “next big thing.”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How seeing someone else go big can give you &lt;strong&gt;permission&lt;/strong&gt; to aim higher in your own way—even if your version looks totally different.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The tension between honest vulnerability, toxic positivity, and the risk of sharing hard moments online when you &lt;em&gt;don’t&lt;/em&gt; control how people react.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;They wrap with a reminder: you don’t owe anyone perfection or constant upward momentum, but you &lt;em&gt;do&lt;/em&gt; have influence—and you get to decide what you want to do with it. Plus, thank-you notes to a teammate who made a dry training fun and a longtime friend who opened the door to Sean’s career at Nugget Markets.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Two Disabled Dudes

The Dudes

284 - What Achievement Asks Of Us

DEC 9, 202553 MIN
Two Disabled Dudes

284 - What Achievement Asks Of Us

DEC 9, 202553 MIN

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Sean and Kyle dive into “the responsibility of achievement”—what happens when your personal wins start to carry weight for other people.Sean shares a story from a recent all-inclusive trip to Mexico, where resort staff pointed out that the two wheelchair guys were the most consistent tippers. That sparks a conversation about why they often feel responsible to “represent” disabled folks well in situations like Uber, airlines, and travel.From there, they unpack:Doing big, visible challenges (bike rides, India, the Niesen Stairway) without feeling like you owe the world the “next big thing.”How seeing someone else go big can give you permission to aim higher in your own way—even if your version looks totally different.The tension between honest vulnerability, toxic positivity, and the risk of sharing hard moments online when you don’t control how people react.They wrap with a reminder: you don’t owe anyone perfection or constant upward momentum, but you do have influence—and you get to decide what you want to do with it. Plus, thank-you notes to a teammate who made a dry training fun and a longtime friend who opened the door to Sean’s career at Nugget Markets.