Today's episode is sparked by Host Steve V's new app, Connect & Confidence. Download it and get 20% Off now through Black Friday: Studio.com/stevev/connect In queer dating, do we overvalue chemistry and undervalue compatibility The hosts share what was at play when they met their partners...chemistry, compatibility or both... The hosts share when chemistry played the only factor and how that worked out for them Why queer men often confuse sexual magnetism with relational potential. Have you ever felt chemistry with someone who wasn’t good for you at all? Chemistry can grow with emotional connection, trust, vulnerability, and quality time. Hot Topic: Kevin Spacey says he's struggling financially post allegations of sexual assault... Hot Topic: The Queen of Versailles with Kristin Chenoweth is closing amid awful reviews and the community turning against her... Hot Topic: Matt Rogers hard launches new relationship with a Bravolebrity at Bravocon and getting some undo backlash from the gays... Advice: We're sharing our favorite ways to ask a guy out...Follow Stevie on IG: @iam_stevevFollow Jeremy on IG: @jrosslopez Follow Lincoln on IG: @madlincoln Follow Protein Bakery on IG: @proteinbakery Rate and Review us!Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.