We know we should study successful people and model their success. But how do you study success?

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Modeling Success

How To Study Millionaires To Build Your Weath

Don't crush your own dreams. The world around you is already trying to do that to you so don't help them out. You need to be an anomaly if you want to make big changes in your life.

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Don't Crush Your Own Dreams

Be An Anomaly

In this episode we talk about how to get unstuck. On your entrepreneur journey, you're going to feel stuck. You're going to feel uncertain about what to do next. So what do you do about it? That's what we discuss in this episode.

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Getting Unstuck

What To Do When You're Feeling Stuck

Pain and struggle is part of growing a business. Eventually, you'll become numb to the pain and keep pushing through the struggle to reach your success

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Pain And Struggle Is Part Of Growing A Business

Pain Is Part Of The Process

Show Notes: Definition of humble:   Having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance   Can you accomplish greatness with that mindset?     Definition of self-esteem   Confidence in one's own worth or abilities; self-respect     Nobody else is responsible for building your self esteem   The world doesn't care about your self esteem   Despite what people post online about 'being nice'     Most of your problems come from a lack of confidence in yourself   You don't do b/c you're not confident in achieving the end result   Uncertainty     Getting bullied - only solution is self esteem   Only hurts when you don't think highly of yourself   Ex: Magic forum cyberbully (thumb gangsters)   You can't get bullied unless you accept THEIR story of you     Your Story vs Their Story   What's the story you tell yourself in your head?   Ex: Can't do something b/c of...(excuse)   Ex: They say you have a big nose... "Uh ok. Is that your fetish?"     Average people want you to lower your self-esteem b/c it makes them feel better   Crabs in a bucket   Mayweather's father didn't tell him to not think he's great   Tiger Woods, Kobe, Jordan, Elon Musk...they told themselves a different story   They will say: "He's arrogant/cocky"   Successful people understand   Ex: Mike Tyson on Deontay Wilder saying he will beat Tyson   Tyson's response: "He has to think like that. I thought that too"     The story in your head vs Story you say out loud   Say it out loud = cocky   Keep it to yourself = humble     Confidence comes from competence   You develop self-esteem by knowing the truth (about you)   Can't tell Tiger Woods he sucks. He knows he doesn't   Don't need to say it...you need to show it   "I'm the greatest" vs "I'm going to be the greatest"   "I'm the greatest" = complacent & don't improve   "Going to be..." = always improving (allows you to stay on top)     Doesn't mean you're cocky   You're aware of what you're good at & not good at   Only real confidence can admit what they're not good at     You have to think highly of yourself to accomplish great things   Allows you to destroy obstacles   Problems, people, anything   Become delusional - "against all odds, you're going to do it"   Elon Musk - they said it can't be done, he said "I'll show"   The only people who WILL do it are the ones who believe they CAN do it     This isn't affirmations   Affirmations is when you're trying to convince yourself of something you're not   Confidence is when you know it to be true (you have reason for believing)   Ex: Ali - "I'm the greatest", part showmanship but also knew the work he put into it   Ex: Elon Musk - he understood the science behind it   They understood they can 'get there' rather than thinking 'I'm already there'     You have to have a chip on your shoulder b/c of what it does to you psychologically   Beliefs are more about what they do to you rather than whether or not they're true   What does the thought do to you?   Ex: Mike Tyson - "I'm going to kill him"   Hit with bad intentions   Believe it's possible = you try   Don't believe? = won't even start     Self esteem = built through competence   Stop accepting the story people create for you   "You're weird"   "You're crazy"   "It's not possible"   "You're too old"     Start creating the story YOU want for YOU   Self esteem allows you to create your story     Stop being so humble. Create YOUR story

<description>Show Notes: Definition of humble:   Having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance   Can you accomplish greatness with that mindset?     Definition of self-esteem   Confidence in one's own worth or abilities; self-respect     Nobody else is responsible for building your self esteem   The world doesn't care about your self esteem   Despite what people post online about 'being nice'     Most of your problems come from a lack of confidence in yourself   You don't do b/c you're not confident in achieving the end result   Uncertainty     Getting bullied - only solution is self esteem   Only hurts when you don't think highly of yourself   Ex: Magic forum cyberbully (thumb gangsters)   You can't get bullied unless you accept THEIR story of you     Your Story vs Their Story   What's the story you tell yourself in your head?   Ex: Can't do something b/c of...(excuse)   Ex: They say you have a big nose... "Uh ok. Is that your fetish?"     Average people want you to lower your self-esteem b/c it makes them feel better   Crabs in a bucket   Mayweather's father didn't tell him to not think he's great   Tiger Woods, Kobe, Jordan, Elon Musk...they told themselves a different story   They will say: "He's arrogant/cocky"   Successful people understand   Ex: Mike Tyson on Deontay Wilder saying he will beat Tyson   Tyson's response: "He has to think like that. I thought that too"     The story in your head vs Story you say out loud   Say it out loud = cocky   Keep it to yourself = humble     Confidence comes from competence   You develop self-esteem by knowing the truth (about you)   Can't tell Tiger Woods he sucks. He knows he doesn't   Don't need to say it...you need to show it   "I'm the greatest" vs "I'm going to be the greatest"   "I'm the greatest" = complacent &amp; don't improve   "Going to be..." = always improving (allows you to stay on top)     Doesn't mean you're cocky   You're aware of what you're good at &amp; not good at   Only real confidence can admit what they're not good at     You have to think highly of yourself to accomplish great things   Allows you to destroy obstacles   Problems, people, anything   Become delusional - "against all odds, you're going to do it"   Elon Musk - they said it can't be done, he said "I'll show"   The only people who WILL do it are the ones who believe they CAN do it     This isn't affirmations   Affirmations is when you're trying to convince yourself of something you're not   Confidence is when you know it to be true (you have reason for believing)   Ex: Ali - "I'm the greatest", part showmanship but also knew the work he put into it   Ex: Elon Musk - he understood the science behind it   They understood they can 'get there' rather than thinking 'I'm already there'     You have to have a chip on your shoulder b/c of what it does to you psychologically   Beliefs are more about what they do to you rather than whether or not they're true   What does the thought do to you?   Ex: Mike Tyson - "I'm going to kill him"   Hit with bad intentions   Believe it's possible = you try   Don't believe? = won't even start     Self esteem = built through competence   Stop accepting the story people create for you   "You're weird"   "You're crazy"   "It's not possible"   "You're too old"     Start creating the story YOU want for YOU   Self esteem allows you to create your story     Stop being so humble. Create YOUR story</description>

Learn To Think Highly Of Yourself

Stop Being So Humble. Boost Your Self-Esteem

How do great business minds think and what are they doing differently? Benji Bruce focuses on what entrepreneurs are really doing and the psychology that goes along with growing a business.

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