Damn We Grown
Damn We Grown

Damn We Grown

Mike + Tiff

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Looking for an authentic Black marriage podcast that's 100 percent authentic? Damn... We Grown! features married duo Mike and Tiff—two creatives who crashed into their 40s and lived to tell the tale. This podcast explores the intersection of creative life, millennial parenting, and relationship growth. Whether they’re discussing the "grown man game," family dynamics, or the hilarity of mid-life, Mike and Tiff deliver candid conversations and infectious laughter. If you’re a fan of relatable stories and authentic adulting, hit play and join the family.

Recent Episodes

Expat Dreams, Parenting Teens, & Rapid-Fire Q&A
MAY 20, 2026
Expat Dreams, Parenting Teens, & Rapid-Fire Q&A
Welcome back to Episode 255 of Damn We Grown! This week, Mike and Tiff sit down for a cozy and candid conversation about navigating adulthood, parenting, and the realities of modern life.The episode kicks off with a relaxing weekend recap, featuring a successful yard sale hunt for a bamboo circle chair and a trip to the local farmer's market for fresh fruit, Mediterranean dips, and garlic spread. The conversation then shifts to a review of the movie Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die, sparking a thoughtful discussion on parenting and the societal double standards of showing violence versus intimacy to teenagers.Later, the discussion moves to the music industry, touching on recent releases from Drake and Kanye, and whether legacy artists like Andre 3000 are aging gracefully by transitioning into new genres like instrumental flute music. Digging into real-world news, the hosts analyze Census Bureau data showing a rise in Americans leaving the U.S. due to the high cost of living, exploring the appeal of the expat life and moving to places like Thailand.To wrap things up, Mike and Tiff test their dynamic with a hilarious rapid-fire Q&A. They debate beach vacations versus snowy cabins, reveal their biggest pet peeves, and reminisce about their first date in Santa Monica.Episode Highlights:Weekend Recap: Yard sale wins, a free Mid-City LA music festival, and artisanal farmer's market finds.Parenting in the Modern Age: Navigating appropriate movie choices for tweens and teens.Hip-Hop & Getting Older: Thoughts on Kanye, Drake, and Andre 3000's evolving music styles.The American Exodus: Discussing the rising cost of living and the reality of moving abroad.Couples Rapid-Fire: A fun Q&A covering relationship habits, favorite features, and everyday preferences.
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69 MIN
Mother’s Day Surprises: Kauai, Connections, and the Ethics of Love
MAY 13, 2026
Mother’s Day Surprises: Kauai, Connections, and the Ethics of Love
On this week’s episode of the Damn We Grown podcast, Mike and Tiff are slapping some soul onto your Wednesday with a much-needed, post-Mother’s Day catch-up.Tiff shares all the wild and beautiful details from her tropical girls' trip to Kauai, Hawaii. Her island adventures included dodging rogue feral chickens and getting stopped by airport security because her jewelry collection was mistaken for a weapon. Meanwhile, Mike held it down at home, creating new memories with the munchkin, trying viral sushi, and reviewing the new Zazie Beetz action movie, They Will Kill You.But it wouldn't be Damn We Grown without some real talk about marriage and growing older. The duo celebrates their ultimate "grown moment" of the week: hitting a new level of romance by getting their cholesterol and bloodwork done together. Things get deep—and incredibly comedic—when Mike and Tiff break down a viral quote about love being ethical before it is emotional. They dissect the truth about what it really means to be a "high-value man," the lack of effort in modern dating, and why certain intimate things absolutely do not count as a holiday gift.From crazy stories about tourists catching $50,000 fines for messing with Hawaiian wildlife to dropping absolute gems on long-term relationship survival, this episode has everything you need to get through the week. Put down that weird discount root beer, turn up the volume, and tune in to the realest marriage podcast on the internet!
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68 MIN
Finding Your Tribe in Your 40s
MAY 10, 2026
Finding Your Tribe in Your 40s
What is up, y'all! Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday. Mike and Tiff are in the building, and this week we’re getting into the real, hilarious, and sometimes exhausting realities of being grown. From aging parents and careers to raising kids who are way better at sports than we ever were, we are covering it all.Grab your coffee (or your wine, no judgment), sit back, and let’s talk about what happens when you finally realize you can't just do whatever you want anymore—because you got bills!🎧 What We’re Getting Into This Episode:Volleyball Glow-Ups: Maddie is killing it on her club team! We talk about the realities of being club sports parents and watching your kid genuinely level up.The Biopic Debate: Tiff reviews The Bride and we debate the Mount Rushmore of musical biopics (Are we putting the Jackson 5 over Bohemian Rhapsody? Let’s argue).Gas Prices & Politics: LA gas is touching $6 and flirting with $8. We’re ranting about inflation, the "Frat Boy" political cabinet, and the wild news cycle we are all trapped in.Making Friends in Your 40s: Let's get real—why is making new friends as an adult so awkward? We talk about outgrowing your 20s friend group, the "Blue Zones" (shoutout to Loma Linda!), the "Melanin on the Mountain" hiking crew, and why we are not the parents trying to play with other people's kids at the indoor playground.🤎 The Soulful Moment: We pulled a card from the "Rethink Conversation Starters," and things got deep: What was the moment you knew you were in love with me? Mike takes us back to the early days, living check-to-check and beat-to-beat in Riverside, and the exact moment he knew Tiff was the one.Tap in, drop a comment, and let us know: How are y'all making friends out here in these adult streets?
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58 MIN
Finding Your Tribe in Your 40s
APR 29, 2026
Finding Your Tribe in Your 40s
What is up, y'all! Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday. Mike and Tiff are in the building, and this week we’re getting into the real, hilarious, and sometimes exhausting realities of being grown. From aging parents and careers to raising kids who are way better at sports than we ever were, we are covering it all.Grab your coffee (or your wine, no judgment), sit back, and let’s talk about what happens when you finally realize you can't just do whatever you want anymore—because you got bills!🎧 What We’re Getting Into This Episode:Volleyball Glow-Ups: Maddie is killing it on her club team! We talk about the realities of being club sports parents and watching your kid genuinely level up.The Biopic Debate: Tiff reviews The Bride and we debate the Mount Rushmore of musical biopics (Are we putting the Jackson 5 over Bohemian Rhapsody? Let’s argue).Gas Prices & Politics: LA gas is touching $6 and flirting with $8. We’re ranting about inflation, the "Frat Boy" political cabinet, and the wild news cycle we are all trapped in.Making Friends in Your 40s: Let's get real—why is making new friends as an adult so awkward? We talk about outgrowing your 20s friend group, the "Blue Zones" (shoutout to Loma Linda!), the "Melanin on the Mountain" hiking crew, and why we are not the parents trying to play with other people's kids at the indoor playground.🤎 The Soulful Moment: We pulled a card from the "Rethink Conversation Starters," and things got deep: What was the moment you knew you were in love with me? Mike takes us back to the early days, living check-to-check and beat-to-beat in Riverside, and the exact moment he knew Tiff was the one.Tap in, drop a comment, and let us know: How are y'all making friends out here in these adult streets?
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58 MIN
Soul, Struggles, and the "Grown Man" Grind 🎙️✨
APR 23, 2026
Soul, Struggles, and the "Grown Man" Grind 🎙️✨
The latest episode of "Damn We Grown" is officially here, and y’all, it’s a whole mood. Tiff and Mike are back on the couch, bringing you that straight-from-the-heart soul as they navigate the beautiful, chaotic, and sometimes painful reality of being an actual adult.The episode kicks off with that universal realization: you wake up, the bills are due, you can't just run to mom and dad's house anymore, and suddenly your back decides it’s retired before you are.The Infamous Tire Incident: Mike shares the "soul-crushing" story of how he went to put air in his tire and his 45-year-old back said, "Absolutely not."The Struggle is Real: Mike spent the days leading up to their family cruise unable to even bend over to tie his shoes. As he puts it: "Either you're getting old or you're dying."Despite Mike's back betrayal, the family made it onto their Royal Caribbean cruise to Catalina and Ensenada.Maddie’s Best Life: Their 12-year-old daughter, Maddie, was living like a VIP with a 1:00 AM curfew and a room card she used to hit the buffets with her friends.Tiff’s First-Day Fail: Tiff, who usually has "sea legs," got taken out by motion sickness on the first night after a long day of packing the car (because Mike couldn't lift anything!) and forgetting to eat.The duo dives into the recent Coachella madness, from "Dust Storms" that sent tents flying like birds to the wild scams hitting the desert.The $20,000 Bait-and-Switch: They discuss the "alleged" Airbnb scams where hosts cancel bookings last minute only to relist the same house for double the price.The "Poor" Section: Tiff and Mike laugh about how their past "car camping" experiences would officially put them in the "Hunger Games/Poor" category of Coachella today.The episode gets deep as they discuss the rising cost of... well, everything.The Grocery Store Blues: From $7 orange juice to $9 sausage packs, Tiff breaks down how a $100 grocery run now only lasts a few days. Even the struggle-meal staple, Ramen, has jumped from 10-packs for $1 to 67 cents a package!The Strategy: They discuss the necessity of side hustles, investing, and "adapting to evolve" in a world where AI is starting to replace traditional jobs."We don't die, we multiply."Whether you’re dealing with a locked-up back, overpriced cilantro, or just trying to figure out how to retire before the robots take over, this episode is the soulful companion you need.Catch the full episode on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts! 🎧How are you adapting to these "grown folks" prices lately?The "Grown Man" Reality Check 😫Cruising with the Crew (and Motion Sickness) 🚢🤢Coachella Chaos & Airbnb Scams 🎡🌵The Real Talk: Inflation and Innovation 💸🤖
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41 MIN