Sharpen 2.0: The Podcast for Professionals

In this episode, Kirby shares a deceptively simple “secret” that changes everything: pause before you react. Most messes aren’t caused by hard circumstances, they’re caused by fast reactions. The pause helps you respond with wisdom instead of panic.Key talking pointsThe “don’t freak out” principle (aka: the power of pausing)Why quick reactions often create bigger problems than the original momentThe thermostat vs. thermometer metaphor: set the tone, don’t just reflect itHow pausing can prevent regret (words, emails, impulsive decisions)Sharpen Question of the DayWhere in your life do you need to pause instead of panicking or reacting?

In Part 4, we close out this mini-series with a leadership lesson shaped by unconditional love: the power of a “thick skin, soft heart.”This episode explores how special needs parenting can form a quiet strength—resilient enough to handle pressure, and compassionate enough to lead with empathy. It’s not weakness; it’s fortitude with humanity.

In Part 3, we talk about the perspective shift that comes when life trains you in resilience. When you’re raising a child with special needs, the problems that used to feel overwhelming can become far more “figureoutable.”This episode is about bringing that calm, grounded problem-solving mindset into your workplace—without arrogance, and with real confidence.

In Part 2, we redefine “grit” beyond hype and hero stories. This episode reframes grit as steady patience, showing up day after day in ordinary, unglamorous ways.Whether you’re raising a child with special needs or simply carrying a heavy season at work, this is a reminder to play the long game and keep going.

In Part 1 of this Sharpen 2.0 mini-series, we talk about a reality many professionals face: the “death of a dream”—when life turns and the future you pictured changes dramatically. From the perspective of a working parent raising a child with special needs, this episode explores grieving what you imagined while also holding yourself accountable to dream again.Because the end of one dream doesn’t mean the end of dreaming—it means the dream is different.