The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast
The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast

The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast

With Rebekah Hargraves

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The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast (Formerly the Home and Hearth Podcast) is a weekly show hosted by Rebekah Hargraves and all about edifying, equipping, and encouraging women in their journey of living life in light of the gospel. If there is an issue that pertains to a woman's life, you will find it discussed here! We'll be covering everything from topics pertaining to marriage, motherhood, homemaking, and the Christian walk, to issues of health and fitness, infertility, adoption, chronic illness, and current event issues in the church and culture. It is our prayer that you will find an episode here which speaks directly to what you are going through right at this very moment and that you will receive the encouragement you need for your daily life.

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226: “Cultivating a Life of Passion, Productivity, and Rest” with Karen Ehman
JAN 4, 2025
226: “Cultivating a Life of Passion, Productivity, and Rest” with Karen Ehman
<p><a target="_blank" href="https://substack.com/profile/127747398-karen-ehman">Karen Ehman</a> is a wife, mom of grown children, author of numerous books, and Bible teacher who is passionate about writing and speaking to encourage women to live their priorities and display the gospel to the watching world. Our prayer is that you would come away from this episode feeling equipped and encouraged to cultivate a life of passion, productivity, and rest this new year!</p><p></p><p>What We Chat About on This Episode:</p><p></p><p>~The new book Karen co-authored with Ruth Schwenk, what readers can expect, and what led to this being their next work</p><p>~The deep joy that can come even in the hardest of life’s circumstances; the practices Karen and Ruth have put in place which enable them to experience this joy</p><p>~The four sections of the workbook and what led them to set it up that way</p><p>~Assessing whether or not what we are spending our time in is lining up with the priorities we say we have</p><p>~Assessing what God-given passions you have that go along with His call on your life</p><p>~Tips, tricks, and tools that help you find your follow through on your passions and priorities</p><p>~Advice for how to live your everyday with forethought, planning, and intentionality</p><p>~The crucial importance of making prayer a priority</p><p>~Teaching people how to treat you by your behavior and boundaries</p><p>~The happiness we find when we invest our hearts, souls, minds, and strength in the right things</p><p>~Having boundaries in place for our phone usage</p><p>~Cultivating a life-giving routine of both productivity and rest</p><p>~The power of taking several minutes a day to sit in silence and think nothing</p><p>~A few important questions to ask yourself at the end of the day to prepare yourself well for the next day</p><p>~Assessing everything that is currently on your plate and whether or not it is time to do some plate-scraping</p><p>~What it takes to obtain wisdom</p><p>~The important part the fear of the Lord has to play in all this</p><p>~And more!</p><p>Inspiring Quotes to Remember:</p><p>“We wrote this book on enjoying your life in a season of very hard circumstances for each of us. To look at our circumstances, you wouldn’t have thought we would be happy. But it wasn’t situational happiness that we were experiencing. It was deep joy in knowing that none of what we were going through surprised God. He knew we would go through it, and He promised to be with us. Despite some pretty dire circumstances, we were still seeing these pockets of joy.”</p><p>“We started to ask ourselves what it was we had put in place, what we had done, what God had taught us over the years as adults, that had positioned us to still feel like life was worth living and to still discover joy despite the circumstances all around us. That is what led to the writing of this book.”</p><p>“When it comes to living our priorities, all of us have two things in our lives: we have relationships and we have responsibilities, or people and projects. We tend to lean to one or the other extreme, so finding the proper perspective and learning to manage that tension is what we address in the first section of the book.”</p><p>“God has wired you with passions, with interests and talent and spiritual gifts. He has a calling on your life, something that you should be doing and could be doing for the Kingdom.”</p><p>“We need to be praying about our days, saying, ‘Lord, there are going to be times today when I need to get work done, times when I instead need to tend to a human being. Would You please help me to order my day in such a way that I get my work done without neglecting my people? And would You tap me on the heart if I need to stop what I am doing and tend to a person and also nudge me when I need to ignore that text message and get my work done instead?’”</p><p>“You teach people how to treat you. You teach them by what you allow and what you don't allow. We want to love and serve people, but we can’t be at everybody’s beck and call. We really need to have boundaries in place, best practices, and ways to free up time for the things that really matter.”</p><p>“We so often think happiness comes from money, notoriety, possessions, position, or popularly. But research shows that it comes more from feeling like, a the end of the day, we invested in something that mattered. But so often we are just spending our time on things that don’t matter - like scrolling our phones. If we do not have time limits on that scrolling, we will waste countless hours each week on meaningless content.”</p><p>“What really makes our lives enriched is investing into things that matter, investing our hearts, minds, souls, and strength into making someone else’s life better. Listening to that neighbor who just lost their spouse and encouraging and doing something nice for them rather than just ingesting fluff all day long goes a long way.”</p><p>“We don’t rest because we’re tired and we deserve a break. We rest so that we can refocus, we can relax, and then we can reconnect and be rekindled in a way that we can then go back and tackle life.”</p><p>“I heard a brain expert on a podcast say that we need 17 minutes a day of silence where we think nothing. I have made that my practice now and find that having that 17 minutes of silence a day with a clear brain has really helped me to be able to then jump back into my day with a different perspective now that I have literally had a brain break.”</p><p>“I would encourage people to make sure that the things that are on their plates are either a relationship or a responsibility that God has placed there. And, if they aren’t, you’ll need to do some major plate-scraping.”</p><p>“If we really want to properly live out our priorities, we first need to obtain wisdom. And the first step in obtaining wisdom is to fear the Lord. Our success begins with understanding the fear of the Lord and living it out daily and returning to it when we stray. It doesn’t depend on applying all the latest time management techniques we can find, even though those can be helpful. Our success begins with understanding the fear of the Lord that leads to wisdom.”</p><p>“Wisdom helps us to make choices in our day and in our relationships and in our responsibilities that help us to live our priorities and love our life.”</p><p></p><p>Resources Mentioned:</p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Your-Life-Project-Prioritize/dp/0764242970/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3FN1HJY66DF40&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.JpFXm9UzRHdgfNTYY5R_8Lr3kg60wAJHMK775ZvbkKuuVNy2w-_8PeomBV_Ap2QXmXAWb5ew-P8tR1BSOY283JOPNm22Bpi0vQ2fM_zLa4Eo8buu9zFFo7DsPu1p-ZHCzZVdHIyiwVgxLTN7q77ptOZqltdm94gCeSxEHtpMSafqHaG2kAfHrGlImW_UXxCll48Dm69vfA6U6rppj0hFzm3SCLsZwJyZs1760BgyFME._HlUhwrTs7AKinKWgch9iROSr-821bO1Nsr3FsOxDcM&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=love+your+life+project&#38;qid=1735962553&#38;sprefix=love+your+life%2Caps%2C134&#38;sr=8-1https://www.amazon.com/Love-Your-Life-Project-Prioritize/dp/0764242970/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3FN1HJY66DF40&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.JpFXm9UzRHdgfNTYY5R_8Lr3kg60wAJHMK775ZvbkKuuVNy2w-_8PeomBV_Ap2QXmXAWb5ew-P8tR1BSOY283JOPNm22Bpi0vQ2fM_zLa4Eo8buu9zFFo7DsPu1p-ZHCzZVdHIyiwVgxLTN7q77ptOZqltdm94gCeSxEHtpMSafqHaG2kAfHrGlImW_UXxCll48Dm69vfA6U6rppj0hFzm3SCLsZwJyZs1760BgyFME._HlUhwrTs7AKinKWgch9iROSr-821bO1Nsr3FsOxDcM&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=love+your+life+project&#38;qid=1735962553&#38;sprefix=love+your+life%2Caps%2C134&#38;sr=8-1">“The Love Your Life Project: 40 Days to Prioritize Your Passions, Cultivate Productive Habits, and Refuel with Times of Rest</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Why-Am-Like-This-Restore/dp/0785296425/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2FU44EG866QI3&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.5EvfG8v-yQPvifvK81m67xmE5R-RUQZDxVufV2RGkG64ZoFZ6hKilE5Usp9BtlccAf9z6e50rZmcHlnik5eTlVQUv9awL3pLUbZsnEqIgVjSwloXb-ROSAqX6DIODgi06_g6vrKDhX1XRD3D_oIN05x-O7y493DXJLusvj6x-vf6qzL6ZG6xK4NGtpTDmhmAHZGZ2NnDuko55OMRS3a4HLZKzrWyE3T3Bw9fNA8SzjY.lLtw2YSNYjBG0aI4vrs46ZuZrJnCRpBzguVFj0OgvyQ&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=why+am+i+like+this&#38;qid=1735962651&#38;sprefix=why+am+i+ike+this%2Caps%2C95&#38;sr=8-2">“Why am I like This?: How to Break Cycles, Heal from Trauma, and Restore Your Faith” by Kobe Campbell</a></p><p>Where You Can Find Karen:</p><p>Substack: <a target="_blank" href="https://karenehman.com">KarenEhman.com</a></p><p>Twitter: <a target="_blank" href="https://x.com/karen_ehman">@karen_ehman</a></p><p>Pinterest: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.pinterest.com/karenehmanofficial/">@karenehmanofficial</a></p><p>Facebook: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.facebook.com/OfficialKarenEhman">Karen Ehman</a></p><p>Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/karenehman">@karenehman</a></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Beyond the Boxes at <a href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe</a>
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59 MIN
225: "Mary's Contemplative Nature" with Rebekah Hargraves
DEC 21, 2024
225: "Mary's Contemplative Nature" with Rebekah Hargraves
<p></p><p></p><p>I am delighted to be joining you on the show for an episode I have wanted to record for a while now! Today we will be covering the important and timely Advent topic of “Mary’s Contemplative Nature”. May you come away from this episode inspired and encouraged for the busy days ahead!</p><p></p><p>What I Cover on this Episode:</p><p>~The glimpse Luke 2:19 gives us into Mary’s contemplative nature</p><p>~The striking comparison and connection between the content of Mary’s Magnificat in Luke 1 and what we observe her doing in Luke 2:19</p><p>~12 reflection questions for you to contemplate and prayerfully process through this Advent</p><p>~The many blessings of the contemplative life</p><p>~Why it’s so important to follow Mary’s example in cultivating a life of slowness, stillness, awareness, contemplation, and processing with the Lord</p><p>~The context surrounding Luke 2:19 and what stands out about it</p><p>~Mary’s example of making time for contemplation even in the middle of an incredibly stretching and full season</p><p>~Where Mary’s theological depth of insight came from</p><p>~How we hear the still small voice of God </p><p>~How the contemplative life leads to faith-building ebenezer stones of remembrance </p><p>~The sense of peace and calm which the contemplative life gives us </p><p>~How the contemplative life equips us to fight back against spiritual warfare </p><p>~The contemplative life as an example to the watching world</p><p>~And More!</p><p><p>Beyond the Boxes is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></p><p></p><p>Resources Mentioned:</p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/publish/post/151720110">My Substack</a></p><p>Quotes to Remember:</p><p>“What we read in Luke 2:19 about Mary ‘treasuring all these things in her heart and meditating on them’ goes along incredibly well with the content of her Magnificat in Luke 1. The connection is striking. What was she treasuring? What was she meditating on? Based on the context, she’s thinking about what God has just done in and for and through the shepherds. And if we know anything about shepherds during this time in history, we know they were the lowly despised ones, the outcasts. And it was to these very people that God chose to reveal Christ’s birth. And it was people precisely like the lowly shepherds that Mary praises God for raising up. In Luke 1, she praises Him for his hear for the lowly, and in Luke 2 she is contemplating what she has just seen God do in real time proof of His heart for the lowly. I find that to be so strikingly beautiful.”</p><p><p>Thanks for reading Beyond the Boxes! This post is public so feel free to share it.</p></p><p>“What I want us to understand about Mary’s contemplative nature is that as all of these things are literally happening in, to, and around her, she is not checking out. So much has and is happening to her, but she is not checking out. She is not rushing through. She is actually stopping and entering fully into each present moment as they come. She’s taking everything in. She’s noticing all of it and not forgetting a bit of it. She’s pondering what God is doing. She is seeing and taking it in and then going a step further to actually meditating on what He is doing. In the midst of the busyness, in the midst of full days that are full of earth-shattering miracles, she is stopping to treasure these things and to mediate on them.”</p><p></p><p>“Mary is clearly a contemplative at heart, which I would say could explain her theological depth of insight that we see in her Magnificat - after all, there are so many blessings of the contemplative life, not the least of which are depth of theological insight and a close, daily relationship with God.”</p><p></p><p>“The contemplative life enables us to actually hear from God. God does not shout. His is a still-small voice. He whispers to our hearts, minds, and souls. That is how He speaks to us. And in order to hear from Him, we have to slow down, get quiet, and be still and know. We have to have a contemplative life to truly hear from Him, to take the time to be in the Word, to take the time for prayer, to take the time to hear from Him.”</p><p></p><p>“The contemplative life enables us to actually be able to notice, to be aware of, and to remember what God is doing. When we are rushing through life so fast, at breakneck speeds, and we don’t have time to sit, to be still and know, to cultivate quiet, to sit in the stillness with the Lord, when we are hurried and harried, overwhelmed and stressed going from one thing to another all day long, every week, every month, we are unable to notice, to be aware of, and to remember what God is doing.”</p><p></p><p>“It is only through seeing and remembering what God is doing and has done that our faith is built as we are made aware of Him and how active He truly is in our lives.”</p><p></p><p>“The contemplative life also enables us to proclaim to others what God is doing and thereby watch there faith be built up, too.”</p><p></p><p>“Another blessing of the contemplative life is that it provides us with a peace that we can take with us into our daily life with all of its ups and downs. There is a sense of peace and stillness of soul and quietness of heart and mind that we can only experience when we slow down enough to get quiet with the Lord, to give our hearts and minds and bodies time and space to contemplate, to meditate, to treasure the things of God in our hearts.”</p><p></p><p></p><p>“In the book of Philippians we are told that peace passes all understanding and that it guards our hearts and minds in Christ. Peace only comes when we cast our cares on Him, when we are anxious for nothing, when in everything, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, we make our requests known to God. In other words, if you want peace, you don’t get it by not praying. You don’t get it by rushing through life, not hearing from God, and not slowing down enough to contemplate what He is doing. You get that peace that you can take with you into your daily life and hold firmly to not matter what happens in the ups and downs of life by being in communication with the God of the universe. And that requires us to be still and know, to slow down, to get quiet, and to live this contemplative life.”</p><p></p><p></p><p>“This contemplative life deepens your relationship and intimacy with God. Your relationship is strengthened which then helps to fortify you against spiritual warfare.”</p><p></p><p>“The contemplative life serves as an example to the watching world of the different pace that is possible for followers of God. The peace-filled pace, the pace that calms the spirit, that does bring peace, that slows us down, that quiets our minds, that ceases the overwhelm.”</p><p></p><p>“I have 12 reflection questions for you to contemplate today. The first one is: ‘What am I carrying this Advent that is weighing heavily on my heart?’”</p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Beyond the Boxes at <a href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe</a>
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32 MIN
224: "When God Leaves Something Out" with Jill Atogwe
DEC 14, 2024
224: "When God Leaves Something Out" with Jill Atogwe
<p></p><p></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://jillatogwe.substack.com">Jill Atogwe</a> is a wife, mom of 4, writer, and author of a brand new children’s book, <a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Left-Out-Believing-Story-Glory/dp/1430088508/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T8R2MDMC6ZIW&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Pt9iwaNWiWiRUntBGJvAJCcoJBf_xuxwBDRsKW8bUjWJV5cUuSyseswYoVlRACfRZJ1Cx40S9-NelV82zREB1g.fIW9SkkR23_ZppA6OpEXfolRibWcZdl-TD2GaRf9diU&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=left+out+jill+atogwe&#38;qid=1734137615&#38;sprefix=left+out+atog%2Caps%2C416&#38;sr=8-1">“Left Out: Believing My Story is for God’s Glory”</a>. She is passionate about encouraging others with the truth of the goodness and wisdom of God’s plan - even when it doesn’t look like we want it to. Our prayer is that you would come away from this episode deeply encouraged and better equipped to walk the path of your own unique and challenging life story.</p><p></p><p>What We Chat About on This Episode:</p><p>~Jill’s new children’s book, <a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Left-Out-Believing-Story-Glory/dp/1430088508/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T8R2MDMC6ZIW&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Pt9iwaNWiWiRUntBGJvAJCcoJBf_xuxwBDRsKW8bUjWJV5cUuSyseswYoVlRACfRZJ1Cx40S9-NelV82zREB1g.fIW9SkkR23_ZppA6OpEXfolRibWcZdl-TD2GaRf9diU&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=left+out+jill+atogwe&#38;qid=1734137615&#38;sprefix=left+out+atog%2Caps%2C416&#38;sr=8-1">Left Out</a>, what led her to write it, and what readers can expect</p><p>~The things we feel like God left out when He made us and how that part of our story is for our good and His glory</p><p>~The reality that this book is for our hearts as adults just as much as it is for kids; how its message ministered to my own heart personally on a difficult path I am walking myself </p><p>~How Jill has come to discover for herself that what God left out is part of her story, for her good, and God’s glory; how she has helped her kids understand this truth for themselves</p><p>~How Jill has helped her kids to embrace their own uniqueness and differences</p><p>~Jill’s advice for parents who want to know how to foster a positive self-image and confidence in their kids </p><p>~Teaching kids to be noticers </p><p>~Getting our kids to think for themselves </p><p>~Helping parents to understand how they can address more sensitive topics with their kids in a way that is inclusive and respectful </p><p>~Training our kids to be both curious and kind</p><p>~How to help kids who are dealing with anxiety; Jill’s own experience with OCD</p><p>~The power of memorizing Scripture with our kids</p><p>~Choosing our kids and their wellbeing, even when it’s hard and exhausting</p><p>~Understanding that if God left something out of our story, that thing He left out would not have been good for us (even if it’s something we really wanted!)</p><p>~Delighting in the Lord and not in what we think we want </p><p>~Being encouraged during hard times of trial by heroes of the faith </p><p>~What Jill has learned from hard trials she has gone through and trials she has watched loved ones experience </p><p>~Comforting others with the comfort we have received </p><p>~The good that comes from trials </p><p>~Learning alongside our kids </p><p>~And more!</p><p></p><p>Inspiring Quotes to Remember:</p><p></p><p>“The things we feel were left out when God made us are the things that can make us feel left out as we grow. And the heart of the book is that what God left out is part of our story - it’s all for our good and all for His glory.”</p><p></p><p>“It’s a blessing for us to be different, not just us set apart singularly, but for all of us from one another, that God is so creative that He made so many different things happen to serve a purpose. It would be so boring if we were all exactly alike.”</p><p></p><p>“When stuck in fear and anxiety, it can be so helpful to expose our children to the Word daily, to have special hymns to go through together that are comforting, and to read stories of a real God who created us in a special way and did not make any mistakes. This is how we help our kids and ourselves to learn to trust Him.” </p><p></p><p>“We can look back on our life and see big capital T Trials and moments of deep struggle and see how God transformed us through them and used those moments for His glory. So when I’m in the thick of it, that is what I look to. I also look to heroes of the faith and to people in the Word like Paul and David. I look to people who have gone before me and am encouraged and comforted by their examples.”</p><p></p><p>“This won’t be forever. The brokenness of this world and the brokenness of our bodies is not forever. But while we are here, we need to be honest with our friends and loved ones so we can all walk in this together and be lifted up by those around us, trusting that the Lord will comfort us in our time of need so that we can comfort others.” </p><p></p><p>“Psalm 119:17 stands out to me, where the Psalmist says it is good for him to be afflicted so that he might learn God’s decrees. He goes on to say that the law from God’s mouth is more precious to him than a thousand pieces of silver and gold. I can always look back and see (though I can almost never think it in the moment when it’s so painful) that it was good that I had to walk down hard paths. Hindsight is a gift.”</p><p></p><p>“It’s difficult to train our kids in something that we’re battling ourselves. Sometimes we can feel hypocritical and end up avoiding things like that with them. Or maybe we feel it is tender to train our kids in a subject that we are struggling with. But I would encourage parents to lean into it. We can learn things right alongside our children. We don’t have to have things perfected in our minds in order to train our children up in the way they should go.”</p><p></p><p>Resources Mentioned:</p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Left-Out-Believing-Story-Glory/dp/1430088508/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3T8R2MDMC6ZIW&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Pt9iwaNWiWiRUntBGJvAJCcoJBf_xuxwBDRsKW8bUjWJV5cUuSyseswYoVlRACfRZJ1Cx40S9-NelV82zREB1g.fIW9SkkR23_ZppA6OpEXfolRibWcZdl-TD2GaRf9diU&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=left+out+jill+atogwe&#38;qid=1734137615&#38;sprefix=left+out+atog%2Caps%2C416&#38;sr=8-1">Left Out: Believing My Story is for God’s Glory</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Beartown-Novel-Fredrik-Backman/dp/150116077X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3043V7IVJ61N3&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ekuffNcwSrnoFDM3vO8_UxBn3DWBetPFM5LQ9fjgbTwjCm3GLb1G0-61Njblg_5xQCODuBZqpN1V4fcbuI7XXjBSNvZmmzOBOxd7K-WWCwIolUCSzLbebiEMbkhk0X9co9qb6EOhw8Ug7O9V07OoKHkE8aDR3MxshUImnAPzuFJrsBkxtSOHpSY7ow6tOlFqIiItfb64BGcjCaYK4MEnm5T0qyB859aICnoroKjoKfY.bnOZ0b_czSWf1t3UCGG0vFaE1F-Yqq7mr2lsnBTxywU&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=Bear+Town&#38;qid=1734137688&#38;sprefix=bear+town+%2Caps%2C165&#38;sr=8-1">BearTown by Fredrick Backman</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-People-Novel-Fredrik-Backman/dp/1501160842/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3ABAW5688LK87&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.IpBjWuQhOmv_MX7E1P3YCQzCxUsIVO02boheDSvc7soHFJO1crFWAq_lFMmDJNuNVOLwT5O7jhefNWwxWXdpw1Q3wduzIdY48e7gm6hxrgvTATi2X0mxXizk7FTgJgly1LSz9pM2-VOCxHkFcBp106AYvCbTiDUfHf9Sj-kTNp-UI4tlaiqHvBLOpmAtLCAdm1qizFSu0_Gqdc9ka1x1vLezlfbUY9fpykzjS-24rVU.auKaG44VfODZCU0XEk6UEegQgz4yo0mNi0sP5olThVE&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=anxious+people+by+fredrik+backman&#38;qid=1734137718&#38;sprefix=anxi%2Caps%2C246&#38;sr=8-1">Anxious People by Fredrick Backman</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Man-Called-Ove-Novel/dp/1476738025/ref=sr_1_1?crid=19OQ8Y4SE2VDF&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.GuRFWGPX3epIlVlOXHR_3S1fwcTjDI1WsOyGlDd-bmdhFjJ_BXXayEGD3RoxK-xH_YjTfQvdF8FGJYFvk1oKk4ahJ1hLOsNdHi4nxgBO4sViQbkqWec6CoiUuRW581uLJSGJO_ZW1yX1Ge_B8oXIr_gIbT13Uz80QC0R8dIZhmPaCqyOAY5We7GXFPMF7_bhUfQdpRjDagC23ExUzr6EIfminpa2kpFJcE-4ZoqDjpg.0RZK4KGxfNW7bsXXXGo3Zz5BO7cDDkGIY0Qli88ksBY&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=a+man+called+ove+by+fredrik+backman&#38;qid=1734137749&#38;sprefix=a+man+ca%2Caps%2C498&#38;sr=8-1">A Man Called Ove by Fredrick Backman</a></p><p></p><p>Where You Can Find Jill:</p><p>Substack: <a target="_blank" href="https://jillatogwe.substack.com">The Gold Standard</a></p><p>Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/jillatogwe/">@jillatogwe</a></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Beyond the Boxes at <a href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe</a>
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Re-Release: "Cultivating a Spirit-Led Holiday Season" with Rebekah Hargraves
DEC 6, 2024
Re-Release: "Cultivating a Spirit-Led Holiday Season" with Rebekah Hargraves
<p></p><p></p><p>This week on the show I am re-releasing a previously-recorded episode on cultivating a Spirit-led holiday season. I hope it is an encouragement to your heart this week!</p><p></p><p>What I Cover on this Episode:</p><p></p><p>~How to go from the holiday season being a stressful, hurried time to one of peace as you are led by the Spirit and walking in step with Him</p><p>~Listening to God rather than man this holiday season</p><p>~Prayer as the first step in walking by the Spirit </p><p>~God’s desire to be our help this Christmas</p><p>~The importance of considering only the glory of God, the unique needs and desires of your own family, and the good of others in your community whom you could minister to this season when deciding what to plan for your holidays this year</p><p>~Getting in the Word as the second step in walking by the Spirit</p><p>~Reading the Word and being in prayer as being the only surefire ways we can go about assessing our true priorities and responsibilities this season</p><p></p><p></p><p>~Reading the OT Messianic prophecies as a great way to grow our Christmas spirit this season</p><p>~Priotizing what makes Christmas special for our own unique families and letting everything else go</p><p>~The importance of staying in our own lane this Christmas </p><p>~What our mission this Christmas is - and what it isn’t</p><p>~7 steps for walking by the Spirit in the midst of family disagreements during holiday get-togethers </p><p>~The importance of being teachable and the power of humility, love, and kindness when seeking to win hearts to Christ </p><p><p>Beyond the Boxes is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></p><p></p><p>Quotes to Remember:</p><p></p><p>“So many of us are used to the holiday season being a time of stress, extreme busyness, and overwhelm. We wonder how any other option would be possible. How would we put an end to the stress and overwhelm of the season? The answer comes neither through just getting a good planner or simply not filling December’s calendar with anything at all. There is only one sure-fire way to reach this goal, and that is by listening to the Lord rather than man during the holiday season.”</p><p></p><p>“The first step in cultivating a Spirit-led holiday season is taking time for prayer. Instead of scouring Pinterest for the best Christmas ideas or seeking the advice of Google’s experts on how to have a peaceful season, there is truly one answer to the restlessness faced by many of us this time of year: to walk by the Spirit, communing with the Lord in prayer and listening for His answers.”</p><p></p><p>“The truth is that our loving, compassionate Father God is intimately intimately involved in our daily lives, even down to the most minute of details, and He wants to be our help today and everyday. So as we are in the busiest time of the year, we can get our holiday season off to a great start by seeking the Lord’s wisdom and direction for the weeks ahead.”</p><p></p><p>“Only consider the glory of God, the unique needs and desires of your own family, and the good of others in your community whom you could minister to this season when deciding what to plan for your holidays this year. In other words, do not worry about impressing others, stuffing the calendar, scouring Pinterest tirelessly, or trying to top everyone else’s Christmas plans. Instead, walk by the Spirit.”</p><p></p><p>“The second step is to get in the Word. I’m not talking about devotional books or Bible studies. Those are great, and they do serve a purpose. But we have more important business to attend to first - and that is that we need to dig our noses deep into the actual Word of God itself. Reading the Word and being in prayer are the only surefire ways we can go about assessing our true priorities and responsibilities this season.”</p><p><p>Thanks for reading Beyond the Boxes! This post is public so feel free to share it.</p></p><p></p><p>“Reminding yourself of the Messianic prophecies in the Old Testament is a great way to grow your Christmas spirit this season. Discover the hope, joy, peace, and love that are brought to us by the long-awaited fulfillment of those prophecies. Read of Elizabeth’s joy, Mary’s praise, the shepherds’ amazement, the wise mens’ gifts. Think on the actual reason for the beautiful Christmas holiday. Doing so can go a long way towards being able to exchange a hurried and harried, overly busy, stressed out, overwhelming holiday season for a more restful, joyful, peaceful, purposeful, and Spirit-filled one.”</p><p></p><p>“To cut down on the stress and overwhelm and yet still cultivate a truly meaningful Christmas, ask your family what events or practices mean the most to them. If you prioritize those things and let everything else go, your holiday will become both more peaceful and more special.”</p><p></p><p>“Stay in your own lane. God never once called us to be cookie-cutter versions of one another. And He doesn't want us to run ourselves ragged attempting to imitate each other. He has only ever called us to imitate Him. So, it doesn’t matter what other women are doing this Christmas. Do what He has called you to do.”</p><p></p><p>“Our mission this Christmas is not to impress our neighbors or do all the things. It is to keep our eyes fixed on Christ, to commemorate and remember the incarnation of Christ and the implications of that incarnation, and to love our families and others around us really well. In doing so, we point them to Christ - and that is what this season is all about.”</p><p></p><p>“If you want to be a breath of fresh air this holiday season, if you want to truly walk by the Spirit when dealing with extended family members with whom you disagree, you are going to have to purpose to be - by God’s strength - slow to speak, quick to listen, and slow to become angry.”</p><p></p><p>“Snark and sarcasm are not fruits of the Spirit. It is love, humility, and kindness that change hearts and inspire repentance.”</p><p></p><p><p>Beyond the Boxes is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></p><p></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Beyond the Boxes at <a href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe</a>
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223: "Experiencing a Thrill of Hope This Advent" with Chelsey DeMatteis
NOV 23, 2024
223: "Experiencing a Thrill of Hope This Advent" with Chelsey DeMatteis
<p></p><p><strong>*One little housekeeping note: GarageBand, the platform we use to bring together the intro, interview file, and outro to produce each episode, was not allowing me to import this week’s interview file for some reason. So, unfortunately, all I could do was upload the interview itself here to Substack, without an official intro or outro like we usually have. But you’re really just here to hear from our guest today, anyway, so hopefully that’ll be ok. I appreciate your understanding and am praying GarageBand works for me next time!</strong></p><p></p><p></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com">Chelsey DeMatteis</a> is a wife, mom of two, <a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/podcast">podcast host</a>, and <a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/store-chelseydematteis">author of two books</a>, most recently the new <a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/store-chelseydematteis/p/signed-copy-of-a-thrill-of-hope-advent-devotional">Advent devotional, “A Thrill of Hope”</a>. She is passionate about writing and speaking about Jesus and His life-changing truths. Today she comes on the show to share more about her Advent devotional and to encourage us with a message of the hope and light that are to be found in Christ.</p><p></p><p>What We Chat About on This Episode:</p><p>~Chelsey’s new devotional book, <a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/store-chelseydematteis/p/signed-copy-of-a-thrill-of-hope-advent-devotional">A Thrill of Hope</a>, what led her to write it, and what readers can expect</p><p>~How the book is set up</p><p>~Living with the hope of heaven in the midst of life’s darkest and hardest seasons</p><p>~Jesus as our living Hope</p><p>~The metanarrative of Scripture and pictures of Christ that we see in the OT; why those are so important to see</p><p>~The redemption power of God to take the hard seasons of loss and transform them into something beauty can come from</p><p>~The light of Jesus and how it ministers to our hearts in life’s darkest moments</p><p>~The power of hope and holding onto it even when it’s hard</p><p>~Remembering the truths of Advent all year long</p><p>~The plague of darkness in Exodus and how God continued to give His people light in that time; what that means for us today</p><p>~How Jesus shows up for each of us in unique ways that mean something special to each of us</p><p>~A particular day of the devotional that is extra special to Chelsey</p><p>~Advent as a season of invitation to go deeper with Jesus and to share Him with others</p><p>~Being the hands and feet of Jesus this season</p><p>~What Chelsey’s hope for this Advent book is</p><p>~The burden of chasing the ‘perfect’ aesthetic this Advent and making the choice instead to chase after Christ, where true worth, peace, and joy are found</p><p>~And more!</p><p></p><p>Inspiring Quotes to Remember:</p><p>“Hope, as a believer, is an action. It is literally Jesus in action in my life. Not necessarily me going and doing for the Lord, but the Lord breathing life into me as I place my hope in Him. He is my hope.”</p><p></p><p>“Whatever it is we are going through, it is always His light that will be able to pull us through. If we do not bury our heads and instead look for His light, we will see such beauty He is bringing in the midst of the hard.”</p><p></p><p>“Hope it what gets us out of bed when things are terrible.”</p><p></p><p>“We need the beautiful, life-giving, joy-filled truths of Advent all year long.”</p><p></p><p>“While Egypt was under the plague of darkness for three days, God continued to give His people light. He led them by light, sustained them in light to foreshadow what Christ would come to do years later.”</p><p></p><p>“Even when we feel like we are in captivity, the Lord’s light is still over my life and literally inside me - I can carry that light with me wherever I go.”</p><p></p><p>“If we just hunker down in Luke 2 during the Advent season and instead trace the light of God from the very beginning all the way to what is coming at the end, it is amazing to see how God shows up through His light and leading people that way. Seeing the big picture perspective during Advent makes it so much more powerful.”</p><p></p><p>“Jesus shows up in our lives in unique ways that mean something special to us individually.”</p><p></p><p>“Advent is not only an invitation for us to go deeper ourselves with the Lord, but also an invitation to notice others, pray for them and love them well, and be the hands and feet of Jesus to them, inviting the light to piece the darkness in their lives. The season of Advent is perfect for that.. It is a season of invitation to go deeper with Jesus and to share Jesus with others.”</p><p></p><p>“Hope has come. Invite people to know that.”</p><p></p><p>“There is no better news to share with others. If we are ready and willing, with our hands open, to deliver a meal, to listen, to pray for someone, to love them tangibly, then we can share the light of Christ with them this Advent.”</p><p></p><p>“Stop chasing the ‘perfect’ aesthetic this Advent. Chase after the Reason for Advent instead. Feel that burden fall off and find your worth and hope in the Lord. A deeper joy and real peace are found there.”</p><p></p><p>“It’s ok to love beauty this Advent. But don’t love it more than Who we’re celebrating.”</p><p></p><p>Resources Mentioned:</p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/store-chelseydematteis/p/signed-copy-of-a-thrill-of-hope-advent-devotional">A Thrill of Hope</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com/store-chelseydematteis/p/signed-copy-more-of-him-less-of-me-52-week-devotional">More of Him, Less of Me</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Matheny-Manifesto-Managers-Old-School-Success/dp/055344672X">The Matheny Manifesto: A Young Manager's Old-School Views on Success in Sports and Life by Mike Matheny</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/publication/fruitful/">Fruitful: Cultivating a Spiritual Harvest That Won't Leave You Empty </a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Lives-Here-Finding-Telling/dp/1433648911/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.dn5a8x5_h9voWT7Nvi2CpYl0F3JgzAXVGqdh3nYV14TGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.Ej4ULobqm96R8GNisJwS-YU01-ai0mKSXC9_TcX21BI&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=Love+Lives+Here+by+Maria+Goff&#38;qid=1732324324&#38;sr=8-1">Love Lives Here: Finding What You Need in a World Telling You What You Want by Maria Goff</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Everybody-Always-Becoming-Setbacks-Difficult/dp/0718078136/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1CE7KAW7IBPJE&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.7AFDqS6AxrhzqRUnXNA9zdsq-lzkOitUM7GxnEGgKpGgyuw1mbzXwCu4LMQMNS2nZBl_vtqD3LLsuYp2g4YG788uAOaXUJEQezoh1YLque4rFKfXEZURW43Dp19EvKhIFF7_WfCu_z_ay5VZS2tLFLIinyp0jsg-Zz6sPugH3rnw-iXFN-9EcBYIpi1c7e0jL9hpBavkU4RI_x_UMSelnT__CdOmMkzA8_UyR68vgGQ.h1nc4L17ks3q9RUvCqgqJNGbgJEQxHTbsdIjFy2qrfI&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=Everybody+Always+by+Bob+Goff&#38;qid=1732324362&#38;sprefix=everybody+always+by+bob+goff%2Caps%2C139&#38;sr=8-1">Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World of Setbacks and Difficult People by Bob Goff</a></p><p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Dream-Giver-Bruce-Wilkinson/dp/159052201X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1XQYBWJ9005L8&#38;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.cnuB69yPynbPm0kW6F8DB0fdO-WiatD5f3XQIuwo6QJzGJCq5ZamRM-GrjJsY8H3pv6acwseqAle4RiU3lC7e9xkafW5i8ecqfD99b9g_j1CrQoaJdyIhTlHStOktroZEGHFBJHfP7bAL9Zwq8Gdhg.qsLDnjuxD4SCLjHkvBqKZBmbZTyYIbPIBwAWf5CvA5Q&#38;dib_tag=se&#38;keywords=The+Dream-Giver+by+Bruce+Wilkerson&#38;qid=1732324402&#38;sprefix=the+dream-giver+by+bruce+wilkerson%2Caps%2C254&#38;sr=8-1">The Dream Giver by Bruce Wilkerson</a></p><p></p><p>Where You Can Find Chelsey:</p><p>Website: <a target="_blank" href="https://chelseydematteis.com">Chelsey DeMatteis</a></p><p>Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/chelseydematteis/">@chelseydematteis</a></p><p></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Beyond the Boxes at <a href="https://rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">rebekahhargraves.substack.com/subscribe</a>
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