The Wet Seat Podcast

Cruising. Ancient practice or current reality? For the season 2 finale episode, Ashley and Susannah are joined by a familiar voice and a new friend to tackle what "cruising" means in 2019. We love each and every listener and are so thankful that you've invited us into your headphones or car speakers.  Topics include:  What is cruising? Are we all cruising? AM I CRUISING RIGHT NOW? Cruising "spots" -- etiquette, advice, and...power tools "The Look" A basement in NYC with an incredible set of consensual rules for your sexual pleasure "Flagging" your sexual preference, via things like the handkerchief code and buttons/stickers Does the "old" version of cruising still exist (i.e. are we still rolling up on people in cars)? "Cruising" on grindr Sex toys for penis-owners and vibrating cell phone apps Cruising as a part of queer history - is it an intrinsic part of the experience or is it just a result of oppression and secrecy (maybe both?!)   If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

Online dating. Ya heard of it? Ashley's best friend for over a DECADE finally sits in the wet seat to talk grindr, tinder, okcupid, and whatever the kids are up to these days. In addition to classic swipe-right horror stories, buckle up to hear more about:  Queer vs. hetero online dating  Fishing for secondary partners (and forgetting to break the news about your open relationship) Using online dating as a way to fill the self-esteem gap Arguments for and against downloading any apps at all Navigating that bittersweet moment when someone is obsessed with you...a lil too soon "I ended up going home with him" regrets  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

If you have seen a birthing video, raise your hand! We dive into what "official" and unofficial Singapore sex education looked like for our guest, Mehr before discussing her experience with vaginismus. Along the way we cover a multitude of topics including:  Sex education from an asian/indian perspective - from health class to Bollywood movies to parents  Googling in preparation for your "1st time"  How being "too tight" for penetration turned into a vaginismus diagnosis The magic of shower heads and pillows (indirect and direct clitoral stimulation)  The incredible power of foreplay (and why it gets ignored)  The Vampire Diaries teaching you sex?! Vaginismus Definition: involuntary contraction of muscles around the opening of the vagina in women with no abnormalities in the genital organs. When a person has vaginismus, the vagina's muscles squeeze or spasm when something is entering it, like a tampon or a penis. If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

CW: Brief conversation about sexual assault What does your life look like through the lens of your sexual experiences? This episode, our lovely guest breaks down all of her sexual milestones for our podcast listening pleasure - from sex birth to now. We talk how our development as people can be intimately linked to our sexual experiences. And we also learn more about the hymen than we ever thought possible.  Topics include:  When your first sexual experience was assault (and how the perception of that assault can change over time)  Queer identity over time  First partners The addictive quality of feeling adored (even if you don't like them)  Understanding "virginity" over time  Cumming in pants First Vibrators  Discovering the Clitoris + Getting a tampon stuck in your hymen?!   If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat

You're in for a treat. We unearthed a previously trashed episode from 2017 about jealousy and non-monogamy and decided it deserved a bit of modern day commentary. This audio was never meant to see the light of day, yet here you are. Listen for a dynamic conversation about the messy, ever-changing feelings around jealousy, polyamory, open relationships, and more with our beloved guest Emily. Hear 2017 Ashley struggle with her new open relationship and what 2019 Ashley has to say about it. This episode is a testament to the fact that our feelings can change drastically when it comes to sex and relationships in a matter of weeks, months, or years. It's important to continue challenging ourselves! Do it! It feels good!  How does one slide into a new non-monogamous situation? Is jealousy a secret way to understand the shadows of your inner self? What's polyamory like? How do you manage jealousy in any kind of relationship, (or do you really need to)? Why don't we challenge jealousy more? All this and more.  If you love our new *music* please check out the artist responsible (Bishop Scully on YouTube) Submit anonymous questions, rebuttals, or stories through the link at the top of our website: thewetseatpodcast.podbean.com If you'd like to pick up some swag you can do that through our Red Bubble store: www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat