Church Hurt: The Truth About Toxic Churches & Narcissistic Leaders | w/ Top Theologian Scot McKnight (288)
...and how to heal from them! Their brokenness doesn't have to become yours, but first you must be able to identify if that's where your church hurt and confusion is coming from. If you’ve ever experienced church hurt, felt confused by leadership, or wondered why something felt “off” but you couldn’t explain it—this conversation will likely put words to what you’ve been sensing.In this episode, I sit down with world-renown theologian and author Scot McKnight to talk about toxic church culture, narcissistic leadership, and what it actually looks like to build a healthy, Christ-centered church rooted in goodness.We break down why toxic churches often look healthy on the outside, how power gets misused behind the scenes, and how to recognize the difference between spiritual authority and control.If you’ve been hurt by church, this episode will help you understand what happened—and begin to move forward with peace, comfort and direction. Hit play now, and share with the friend who's been looking for this!⏱️ TIMESTAMPS0:00 The truth about church hurt1:10 Why toxic churches look healthy on the outside4:30 What “Tov” culture actually means8:45 How power gets abused in church leadership14:20 Why you can’t always spot toxicity from the platform19:10 Narcissistic leaders and why they don’t change25:30 How Scripture gets misused in toxic environments31:40 Should you stay or leave a toxic church?38:20 What healthy church leadership actually looks like45:00 How to begin healing from church hurtRESOURCESScot's Book: "A Church Called Tov" and "Pivot"🕊️ Hear God More ClearlyStart your own 30-day journey with my Hearing God’s Voice Journal. 👉 Get it on Amazon💌 Let’s Stay Connected📧 [email protected]📲 IG: @javawithjen | 🎧 Merch Store☕️ Patreon | 💸 Venmo @JavawithJen | 💵 CashApp $JavawithJen💖 Give on PayPalchurch hurt healing, toxic church signs, narcissistic pastor traits, spiritual abuse recovery, unhealthy church leadership, signs of a toxic church, Christian church abuse, church accountability biblical, leaving a toxic church, how to heal from church trauma, church leadership red flags, healthy church culture examples, what is a Tov church, Scot McKnight A Church Called Tov summary, Christian leadership ethics, biblical church leadership, church hurt recovery for Christians, emotional abuse in church, religious trauma Christian perspective, when to leave a church biblically