Tribe is as rewarding as it is messy. And the mess? That's not a sign something is broken , t's a sign something is real. In Episode 4, Carrie sits with one of the most common and most misunderstood parts of relationship: conflict. What if tension isn't a threat to connection, but an invitation toward it? Drawing from personal experience, author Danny Silk, and research from psychologist John Gottman, this episode reframes what you thought you knew about fighting, confrontation, and what it actually means to stay. Sources: ⁠Book, Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk⁠ The Gottman Institute - Marriage and Couples ResearchBrian S harp Counseling – The Science of Relationship Conflict: Insights from John Gottman (2025)