<description>&lt;p&gt;Are we in an intimacy and loneliness crisis? And if so, what's so bad about that? A lot more than you might think. Dr. Justin Garcia's new book &lt;a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/119227/9780316594035"&gt;The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love&lt;/a&gt; details why intimacy is VITAL for survival in the human species. We are social animals, and that's not something the digital age can get around. Join DB for this BRILLIANT conversation with Dr. Justin Garcia all about what intimacy is, how it works, and why we need it.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GUEST DETAILS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span data-sheets-root= "1"&gt;Dr. Justin Garcia is an evolutionary biologist and international authority on the science of sex and relationships. Since 2019, he has served as the Executive Director of the world-renowned Kinsey Institute, where he is also a Senior Scientist and Ruth N. Halls Professor in the College of Arts and Sciences at Indiana University. His latest book, The Intimate Animal, explores the science behind why we live for love and is available now for purchase.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href= "https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html"&gt; https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a href= "https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/intimate-animal.html"&gt;https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/intimate-animal.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a href= "https://www.instagram.com/kinseyinstitute"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/kinseyinstitute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a href= "https://www.instagram.com/drjustingarcia/"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/drjustingarcia/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/company/kinsey-institute/"&gt;https://www.linkedin.com/company/kinsey-institute/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a href= "https://x.com/kinseyinstitute"&gt;https://x.com/kinseyinstitute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;a class="in-cell-link" href="https://x.com/DrJustinGarcia" target= "_blank" rel= "noopener"&gt;https://x.com/DrJustinGarcia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FIND DR. JUSTIN GARCIA'S BOOK HERE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;span data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;a href= "https://bookshop.org/a/119227/9780316594035"&gt;The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love&lt;/a&gt; (This is an affiliate link to our Bookshop.org shop! We'll receive a percentage back if you buy with our link -- and we hope you will!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span data-sheets-root="1"&gt;AND FIND THE FULL VERSION OF THIS EPISODE ON OUR NEWSLETTER SOON!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;span data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;a href= "https://sexedwithdb.substack.com"&gt;Subscribers to our paid tier (THE SLEEPOVER) on our newsletter&lt;/a&gt; will get an extended version of this episode -- AND our monthly premium-only editions with TRUE sexy stories, questions from listeners, product recommendations, deep dives, and more!!! sexedwithdb.substack.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;ARTICLES ON THE "MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;a href= "https://www.thequill.ca/community/2026/1/28/why-are-women-leaving-and-men-are-calling-it-loneliness"&gt; "Why Are Women Leaving – And Men Are Calling It 'Loneliness'"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;a href= "https://zenkind.co.uk/why-the-male-loneliness-epidemic-is-largely-down-to-men-themselves/"&gt; "Why the 'Male Loneliness Epidemic' Is Largely Down to Men Themselves"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;&lt;a href= "https://theappalachianonline.com/opinion-the-male-loneliness-epidemic-is-severely-misleading/"&gt; "OPINION: The male loneliness epidemic is severely misleading"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;" data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;"&gt;TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZ&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;" data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;"&gt;Find your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;" data-sheets-root="1"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-family: Arial; font-style: normal;"&gt;Take the quiz here: &lt;a href= "https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz"&gt;https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;ABOUT SEASON 13&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. 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Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expert

Hardwired for Connection: Intimacy, Pleasure, and Survival with Dr. Justin Garcia

FEB 11, 202651 MIN
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

Hardwired for Connection: Intimacy, Pleasure, and Survival with Dr. Justin Garcia

FEB 11, 202651 MIN

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Are we in an intimacy and loneliness crisis? And if so, what's so bad about that? A lot more than you might think. Dr. Justin Garcia's new book The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love details why intimacy is VITAL for survival in the human species. We are social animals, and that's not something the digital age can get around. Join DB for this BRILLIANT conversation with Dr. Justin Garcia all about what intimacy is, how it works, and why we need it. GUEST DETAILSDr. Justin Garcia is an evolutionary biologist and international authority on the science of sex and relationships. Since 2019, he has served as the Executive Director of the world-renowned Kinsey Institute, where he is also a Senior Scientist and Ruth N. Halls Professor in the College of Arts and Sciences at Indiana University. His latest book, The Intimate Animal, explores the science behind why we live for love and is available now for purchase. https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/intimate-animal.html https://www.instagram.com/kinseyinstitute https://www.instagram.com/drjustingarcia/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/kinsey-institute/ https://x.com/kinseyinstitute https://x.com/DrJustinGarcia FIND DR. JUSTIN GARCIA'S BOOK HERE The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love (This is an affiliate link to our Bookshop.org shop! We'll receive a percentage back if you buy with our link -- and we hope you will!) AND FIND THE FULL VERSION OF THIS EPISODE ON OUR NEWSLETTER SOON! Subscribers to our paid tier (THE SLEEPOVER) on our newsletter will get an extended version of this episode -- AND our monthly premium-only editions with TRUE sexy stories, questions from listeners, product recommendations, deep dives, and more!!! sexedwithdb.substack.com ARTICLES ON THE "MALE LONELINESS EPIDEMIC" "Why Are Women Leaving – And Men Are Calling It 'Loneliness'" "Why the 'Male Loneliness Epidemic' Is Largely Down to Men Themselves" "OPINION: The male loneliness epidemic is severely misleading" TAKE OUR SMUT QUIZFind your page-turning turn-on with our new SMUT QUIZ! In just 5 questions, you'll get right to the good stuff with curated pages, poems, and audios. No slow burn. No fluff. Just pleasure. Take the quiz here: https://sexedwithdb.fillout.com/smutquiz ABOUT SEASON 13 Season 13 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies -- you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH USInstagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast X: @sexedwithdbYouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 SPONSORS Uberlube, Magic Wand, LELO, and Happy V. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: [email protected] to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education — delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 13 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer and Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) Social Media Content Creator: Iva Markicevic Daley (she/her) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!