Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
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Real men with authentic faith. Legacy Dads is a community of Christian men focusing on issues such as marriage, parenting, and leadership. We equip men who are trying to balance faith, our modern lives, and leading our families to a lasting legacy.

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Find Freedom from Alcohol with a Booze Vacation
NOV 25, 2025
Find Freedom from Alcohol with a Booze Vacation

In this powerful conversation, Dave and Dante sit down with Clifford Stephan, founder of BoozeVacation.com, to talk about the journey of taking a "vacation" from drinking and how intentional breaks from alcohol can transform your faith, family life, health, and leadership.

Clifford shares his personal story, the moment he realized alcohol was holding him back, and why he built a community to help others explore life with less booze — or none at all. This episode encourages men to evaluate their habits, prioritize their spiritual and physical health, and lead their families with clarity and conviction.

Key Topics Discussed
  • Clifford's personal turning point and what inspired BoozeVacation.com

  • The difference between quitting drinking and taking a healthy break

  • Why alcohol has become so normalized in culture — and why men rarely talk about it

  • How a drinking "vacation" can improve sleep, energy, mood, and relationships

  • The spiritual implications of numbing, coping, and self-medicating

  • Rebuilding discipline and mental resilience

  • Being a better husband, father, and leader through sobriety or moderation

  • How community and accountability fuel long-term success

  • Clifford's practical steps for anyone wanting to start a 30-day break

  • What churches, men's ministries, and small groups can do better in this area

Practical Takeaways for Men
  • Identify if alcohol is filling a role that God should fill

  • Notice the patterns: stress drinking, weekend "reward" cycles, or emotional escape

  • Begin with a clear goal — "cut back," "take a break," or "quit"

  • Invite one trusted brother into the process for accountability

  • Replace old routines with healthier rhythms: exercise, prayer, hobbies, service

  • Track how your body, mind, and spiritual life respond during the break

  • Set boundaries around environments that trigger unhealthy habits

Scripture to Reflect On
  • 1 Corinthians 6:12 (ESV) – "All things are lawful for me," but not all things are helpful.

  • Ephesians 5:18 (ESV) – "Do not get drunk with wine… but be filled with the Spirit."

  • Proverbs 25:28 (ESV) – "A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls."

These verses guide men toward living with intentionality, discipline, and spiritual clarity.

About Clifford Stephan & Booze Vacation

Clifford is the founder of BoozeVacation.com, a platform designed to help individuals take meaningful breaks from alcohol through structured challenges, coaching, and community support. His mission is to empower people to rediscover their best selves and experience life without the haze and habits alcohol often brings.

Learn more at BoozeVacation.com.

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When Truth Becomes a Feeling: Moral Relativism and Legacy Dads
NOV 10, 2025
When Truth Becomes a Feeling: Moral Relativism and Legacy Dads
🎧 Episode Description

In this episode, we dive into the latest research from Barna on how Americans view truth and morality. The findings reveal a culture increasingly skeptical of moral absolutes and more reliant on personal feelings and pluralistic sources of truth. As dads who want to pass on a legacy of clarity, conviction, and faith, we'll explore what this means for our families, our faith, and how we model truth for the next generation.

🧭 Key Segments & Topics

1. Setting the Scene – What the Research Says

2. Why This Matters for Dads & Families

  • When truth becomes something you feel rather than something you know or are rooted in, it affects how we model decision-making for our kids.

  • Legacy is about more than providing; it's about imparting a worldview. If that worldview is unstable or shifting with culture, the next generation inherits confusion.

  • The article warns: societies without shared, stable moral references risk becoming fragmented, morally ambiguous or anchored only in emotion. George Barna+1

  • As fathers, we're gatekeepers for our homes: of truth, character, and generational faith. So what do we do when our culture says "each person decides their truth"?

3. Practical Applications – What You Can Do

  • Anchor in a stable source: Encourage family conversations about why you believe what you believe — not just what.

  • Model decision-making: Show your children how you arrive at right vs wrong. Is it "how I feel" or "what is true / what does Scripture say / what is right"?

  • Discuss pluralism & relativism honestly: If our kids are hearing that all truth-views are valid, we need to equip them to think critically and biblically.

  • Create opportunities for reflection: Ask your children (depending on age) "What basis did you use to decide that was okay or not okay?"

  • Teach the big story: Legacy is long-term. Morality isn't just a list of do's and don'ts, but a story of a God who is truth, and lives that flow from that.

4. Conversation Starters for Your Family

  • "What do you believe defines right and wrong?"

  • "Have you ever changed your mind about something because of how you felt? What did you base that on?"

  • "Why do you think some people believe truth depends on the situation?"

  • "If someone says 'that's true for you but not for me,' how would you respond?"

  • "What difference does it make if truth is absolute vs relative?"

5. Legacy Dad Challenge This week: Pick one moral/ethical decision you face (big or small). Walk your child(ren) through how you came to your decision: What basis did you use? Was it simply how you felt? Or did you consult Scripture, your conscience, parental wisdom, cultural norms? After making the decision, revisit it: "Was that the wisest basis? Would I make the same decision next time with what I now know?"

🔍 Recommended Further Reading & Resources
  • The original article on Barna's site: "Survey Finds Americans See Many Sources of Truth—and Reject Moral Absolutes." George Barna

  • Barna's deeper breakdown: "Americans Possess Contradictory and Unbiblical Views about Moral Truth." George Barna

  • "The End of Absolutes: America's New Moral Code" (Barna archive). Barna Group

🎯 Take-Away Points for Listeners
  • The cultural current is moving toward "truth according to me/feelings," rather than fixed moral truth.

  • As fathers wanting to build a legacy, we must choose to anchor our families in something more stable — not just personal preference.

  • Modeling how to live with conviction, how to think about truth, how to navigate moral decisions — that becomes part of our legacy.

  • It's not enough to tell our kids what's right; we show them how we determine right.

  • When the culture says "all truths are valid," the Christian father says: "Let's explore why I believe one truth is true, and how that matters for how we live."

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