The Queer Family Podcast
The Queer Family Podcast

The Queer Family Podcast

Jaimie kelton

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The show all about family; but with gay! Queer mom, Jaimie Kelton, humorously goes in-depth with weekly LGBTQIA+ guests about their families; how they made them, and how they show up in a world that wasn't necessarily designed for them. The mission is to normalize, elevate and celebrate, while confirming that we're just like other parents, trying not to yell at our kids when they still haven't put their shoes on and we're 25 minutes late for school. The end result is a compelling podcast that amusingly explores the age-old question: what's it like to live as an LGBTQ family in a world built for the straights?

Recent Episodes

Trans Parenting, Polyamory and Redefining Family Narratives
DEC 16, 2024
Trans Parenting, Polyamory and Redefining Family Narratives

Jaimie chats with Aiden, a trans dad, about embracing differences, self-discovery, and building his family—first as a solo parent and later in a polyamorous relationship. They dive into sperm donation with a known donor, IVF, pregnancy loss, and the importance of connection, community, and representation. Aiden also shares his dream of starting a podcast for trans parents.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Aiden emphasizes the importance and beauty of living authentically, illustrating how one's unique perspective can positively influence and transform society.
  • Sharing personal experiences, Aiden debunks myths around transitioning and fertility, highlighting key aspects of parenthood after testosterone.
  • Through nuanced storytelling, the episode sheds light on the significance of finding community support and the value of chosen family in navigating queer parenting.
  • The episode addresses the emotional complexities of miscarriage, emphasizing resilience and the healing journey amid loss.
  • Aiden advocates for trans-inclusive birth work and comm


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • Aiden (he/him) is a trans dad, neurodivergent individual, and a queer community advocate. He embarked on a journey of becoming a solo parent and later transitioned into a polyamorous family structure with his partner. Aiden is passionate about creating awareness and representation for trans parents and is currently venturing into becoming a labor doula while sharing his rich experiences through a podcast aimed at supporting trans families.


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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

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Exploring Queer Parenting and Gender Fluidity with Lamia
DEC 9, 2024
Exploring Queer Parenting and Gender Fluidity with Lamia

Jaimie welcomes Lamia to the to discuss zir journey of embracing gender fluidity and using Ze/Zem pronouns. They explore Lamia's experiences navigating parenthood as both a biological and non-biological parent within a queer and multi-ethnic context. Lamia shares personal stories, including the challenges and joys of raising children with known donors, the importance of energetic healing through acupuncture, and the impact of losing close relatives. This episode offers an intimate look into queer family dynamics, gender identity, and community support.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Lamia Gibson shares an authentic narrative of embracing genderfluidity and utilizing the pronouns Ze/Zem to represent zem true self.
  • The discussion highlights the significance of representation and understanding diverse gender experiences within the LGBTQIA+ community.
  • Lamia elaborates on the complexities and joys of queer family building, such as using known donors and navigating non-biological parenting challenges.
  • The episode underscores the pivotal role of holistic health practices, like acupuncture and Chinese medicine, in enhancing fertility and overall well-being.
  • Jaimie and Lamia emphasize the 

🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • Lamia Gibson is a dynamic and insightful guest with a rich background in acupuncture, meditation, and gender advocacy. As a genderqueer, parent to three, Lamia offers a unique perspective on parenting and family dynamics. With 22 years of experience as an acupuncturist, Lamia is passionate about holistic health, energetic healing, and the profound impact these can have on fertility and general well-being.


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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

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The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!



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56 MIN
The Beautiful Chaos of Queer Foster Parenting and Self-Discovery
DEC 2, 2024
The Beautiful Chaos of Queer Foster Parenting and Self-Discovery

Katie tells Jaimie about how she went from not wanting kids to ending up with 10 of them. As a queer mom who built her family through fostering and adoption, Katie shares her journey of embracing a queer identity while married to a man, and navigating the unique challenges of parenting a big family. Together, they dive into themes of love, chosen family, and the deep connections that come with fostering and adoption. Katie also talks about her work with Camp Quest, a summer camp dedicated to critical thinking and inclusion. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about creating safe spaces and empowering young minds.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Katie Hladky-Grant's journey underscores the intersectionality of queer identity and foster care, highlighting how LGBTQIA individuals often excel in nurturing environments for adopted and fostered children.
  • The complexities of balancing personal identity, family dynamics, and the societal perceptions of queer relationships provide enriching perspectives on modern family structures.
  • Camp Quest serves as a beacon for encouraging critical thinking and individuality among children, standing in opposition to traditional gender and heteronormative segregation.
  • This episode intricately discusses the role of foster care within the LGBTQIA community, advocating for more inclusive and expansive definitions of family and parental roles.
  • Jaimie and Katie’s dialogue illustrates the broader implications of chosen family and community, emphasizing the strength and resilience often found in non-traditional family settings.


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • Katie Hladky-Grant is a queer foster parent and Camp Quest leader from Ohio, dedicated to supporting vulnerable children and fostering critical thinking in youth education.


🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 

  • Camp Quest - an organization focused on promoting critical thinking and fostering an accepting environment for children. www.campquest.org 
  • The founding executive director of Camp Quest, Amanda Metskas, co-authored Raising Freethinkers, which includes a chapter about Camp Quest and reflects their secular humanist approach to youth development. You can explore the book here.


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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠

🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠website

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!



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61 MIN
BONUS - C-Sections, Epidurals and Destroyed Nipples: Jaimie Had A Baby
NOV 25, 2024
BONUS - C-Sections, Epidurals and Destroyed Nipples: Jaimie Had A Baby

Jaimie revisits her birth story, originally shared on the podcast when it was called "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Celebrating over seven years of normalizing LGBTQIA family narratives, Jamie reflects on how her expectations of an idyllic birth experience were upended, a metaphor she connects to the current socio-political climate and the Thanksgiving week. After years of unexplained infertility, Jaimie finally got pregnant. One would think that would mean she was due an easy birth. But one would be wrong for thinking that. From birth to busted boobs. Hear how her second child made his way into the world.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Jamie's birth story serves as a metaphor for dealing with unexpected life outcomes and finding hope despite challenges.
  • The experience highlights the unpredictability of childbirth and the pressures of preconceived expectations.
  • Jamie discusses the emotional and physical demands of new motherhood, emphasizing the uniqueness of each child and parental experience.
  • The episode sheds light on the societal pressures surrounding childbirth and breastfeeding, urging for understanding and support over judgment.
  • A call to build supportive communities around shared experiences, prioritizing authenticity and inclusivity.


🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 


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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

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🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠website

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!



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50 MIN
Building Our Family Against All Odds: Love, Disability, & Transition
NOV 18, 2024
Building Our Family Against All Odds: Love, Disability, & Transition

Megan and Greyson join Jaimie to talk about their journey to parenthood. They discuss using a known donor, at-home insemination with a Frida Fertility kit, and navigating family planning as an LGBTQIA couple in Florida’s challenging political climate. Megan highlights disability representation in parenting, while Grayson shares stories of his transition and military service, offering a powerful narrative of love, resilience, and identity.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Megan and Greyson are embarking on a new journey as expectant parents while tackling unique challenges posed by their backgrounds, including transgender identity and cerebral palsy.
  • Their story highlights the intricacies of family planning for LGBTQIA families, including the use of known donors and personal insemination kits like Frida Fertility.
  • Grayson’s transition in his 30s adds depth to discussions about representation, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for transgender rights in today's socio-political climate.
  • The couple shares their strategies for navigating a healthcare system not fully adapted to their needs, emphasizing the importance of personalized care.
  • Megan showcases resilience, advocating for visibility an


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • Megan and Grayson: Megan and Greyson are proud expectant parents hailing from Tallahassee, Florida. Megan is an inspiring advocate for people with disabilities, working full-time and studying simultaneously while managing cerebral palsy. Greyson is a transgender male who bravely transitioned in his 30s. He served as a veteran in the U.S. Military during "don't ask, don't tell" and currently works with the Florida Department of Corrections. Their journey together reflects resilience, love, and the power of family.

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 

  • Frida Fertility: An at-home insemination kit used by Megan and Grayson.
  • Mosie Baby: Another option for at-home insemination kits mentioned in the episode.
  • @heyginasena : Referenced as a social media influencer providing actionable steps for LGBTQIA rights advocacy.


🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!

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🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠

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🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠

🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠website

The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!



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58 MIN