<description>&lt;p&gt;Danielle Winston is the co-founder of Seed Scout, a donor matchmaking agency reimagining how families connect with known sperm donors. A former lawyer who left the legal field after seeing firsthand the ethical challenges in the sperm bank industry, Danielle and her wife built Seed Scout to offer a more transparent, personal, and human-centered approach to donor conception. Since launching, they’ve helped hundreds of LGBTQ+ families, single parents by choice, and couples with male-factor infertility find donors who align with their values.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Listen as Danielle shares with Ellen and Jenn:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why Seed Scout&lt;/strong&gt;: Danielle’s own experience of a dehumanizing, “Tinder-style” bank experience lead her to build Seed Scout -- to provide a curated, relationship-based alternative.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What’s different&lt;/strong&gt;: Seed Scout has a majority LGBTQ+ donors; age 24+; background checks for donors &lt;em&gt;and&lt;/em&gt; intended parents; require yearly child updates; medical-history refreshes.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ethics over scale&lt;/strong&gt;: Hard cap of &lt;strong&gt;three families per donor&lt;/strong&gt;; no re-donation of sperm/embryos; families introduced to each other to avoid hidden half-siblings.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Transparency beats anonymity&lt;/strong&gt;: Real names, meetings before matching, and mutual approval replace one-way, anonymous selection.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;System frictions&lt;/strong&gt;: Legacy FDA rules, quarantine nuances, and clinic pushback—especially where clinic owners are tied to banks.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Future outlook&lt;/strong&gt;: More open-ID laws (e.g., Colorado), rising donor-conceived voices, and pressure for sensible U.S. oversight.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Want to share your story or ask a question? Call and leave us a message on our hotline: 303-997-1903.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more about Seed Scout: &lt;a href="http://www.theseedscout.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;www.theseedscout.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Follow Seed Scout on Instagram: @theseedscout.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more about our podcast: &lt;a href="https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more about our surrogacy agency: &lt;a href="https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Get your IWTPABIY merch here! &lt;a href="https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/merch" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/merch&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;	&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Learn more about Ellen’s law firm: &lt;a href="http://trachmanlawcenter.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;http://trachmanlawcenter.com/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

I Want to Put a Baby in You!

I Want To Put A Baby In You

Episode 223: Danielle Winston – Seed Scout

NOV 12, 202552 MIN
I Want to Put a Baby in You!

Episode 223: Danielle Winston – Seed Scout

NOV 12, 202552 MIN

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Danielle Winston is the co-founder of Seed Scout, a donor matchmaking agency reimagining how families connect with known sperm donors. A former lawyer who left the legal field after seeing firsthand the ethical challenges in the sperm bank industry, Danielle and her wife built Seed Scout to offer a more transparent, personal, and human-centered approach to donor conception. Since launching, they’ve helped hundreds of LGBTQ+ families, single parents by choice, and couples with male-factor infertility find donors who align with their values.Listen as Danielle shares with Ellen and Jenn:Why Seed Scout: Danielle’s own experience of a dehumanizing, “Tinder-style” bank experience lead her to build Seed Scout -- to provide a curated, relationship-based alternative.What’s different: Seed Scout has a majority LGBTQ+ donors; age 24+; background checks for donors and intended parents; require yearly child updates; medical-history refreshes.Ethics over scale: Hard cap of three families per donor; no re-donation of sperm/embryos; families introduced to each other to avoid hidden half-siblings.Transparency beats anonymity: Real names, meetings before matching, and mutual approval replace one-way, anonymous selection.System frictions: Legacy FDA rules, quarantine nuances, and clinic pushback—especially where clinic owners are tied to banks.Future outlook: More open-ID laws (e.g., Colorado), rising donor-conceived voices, and pressure for sensible U.S. oversight.Want to share your story or ask a question? Call and leave us a message on our hotline: 303-997-1903.Learn more about Seed Scout: www.theseedscout.com Follow Seed Scout on Instagram: @theseedscout.comLearn more about our podcast: https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/ Learn more about our surrogacy agency: https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/ Get your IWTPABIY merch here! https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/merch  Learn more about Ellen’s law firm: http://trachmanlawcenter.com/