Ep 62: From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward with Brian Pughsley
Summary of the episode
This episode of noseyAF centers around disappointment and reflection following the 2024 election results, highlighting the importance of community, faith, and resilience. Host Stephanie Graham expresses her pride in the efforts made by individuals who supported Vice President Harris, emphasizing that their hard work should not feel wasted. Reverend Brian Pughsley joins the conversation, offering a powerful message about faith and perseverance during challenging times. He encourages listeners to strengthen their convictions and unite in their causes, reminding everyone that the fight for rights and justice continues. Together, they inspire a sense of hope and determination to push forward, regardless of the obstacles ahead.
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About Rev Brian C. Pughsley:
Rev. Brian C. Pughsley is a multifaceted preacher, actor, rapper, writer, and podcaster dedicated to connecting with people through faith and creativity. Baptized at an early age, he answered his call to ministry on July 4, 2001, and was licensed and ordained on November 21, 2004, at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church in Hammond, Indiana, under Rev. Dr. Homer Walker, Jr.
Throughout his ministry, Rev. Brian has served in various pastoral roles, including Associate Pastor for Youth and Media Ministries at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church and Pioneer Missionary Baptist Church in South Holland, IL. His involvement has extended to youth leadership roles at Covenant United Church of Christ and New Faith Baptist Church International, where he supported ministries in prayer, media, and men’s fellowship.
Currently, Rev. Brian serves as Associate Pastor at Trinity United Church of Christ-Gary, where he also contributes as a digital pastor. In early 2023, he joined Immanuel Church Unusual in Chicago as a Digital Pastor, assisting the church's digital outreach as they launched in the area.
In 2018, Rev. Brian started a podcast, which evolved during the pandemic from entertainment-focused content to a ministry without walls, reaching people with messages of hope. A trained actor, violinist, rapper, and singer, he brings his diverse talents to each endeavor, blending artistry and ministry in meaningful ways. In his spare time, he enjoys writing, drawing, and inspiring others.
Currently, he resides in the suburbs of Chicago, IL.
Resources mentioned in this episode
Check out Brian’s podcast, Safe Haven
Organ music Terry Brandford Walk with Me performed by Gregg ”Happy Guitar” Hayes” check out the full performance here
Worship Music: Peace - Deep Instrumental Worship full video here
Connect with Brian
Instagram: @revbrianpughsley
Website: safehavenpodcast.org
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Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!)
Lyrics: Queen Lex
Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam
Buckle up, everyone! It’s Election Day 2024, and the energy is electric! The stakes are high, the tension is real, and all eyes are on the possibility of a new Madame President. In today’s episode, host Stephanie Graham is joined by her trusted battle buddy, Stephisha YCoy Walton, to break down what this pivotal election means for us all.
Join them as they dig into the importance of voter mobilization and civic engagement, sharing their own experiences in activism, from phone banking to grassroots organizing. With passion, humor, and a few personal stories, they explore how each vote shapes our collective future and why showing up to the polls matters more than ever. Get ready for an inspiring, motivating, and sometimes funny conversation about the power of our voices—and the responsibilities we hold as citizens.
About Stephisha:
Stephisha Ycoy Walton is a God-fearing individual who lives life in the gray area of most things, focused on community impact and social justice. Passionate about financial literacy, she is dedicated to coaching, teaching, and mentoring others to improve their financial skillsets. As a licensed financial advisor, member of Oakland's Budget Advisory Commission, and credentialed teacher, Stephisha walks her purpose on purpose. She believes that financial independence is a result of consistent choices and is committed to guiding others toward financial success.
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Episode Summary:
With the 2024 election looming on the horizon, Stephanie Graham and Stephisha Ekoy Walton engage listeners in an impassioned discussion about the power of voting and grassroots activism. The episode captures the palpable tension and excitement of election day as the hosts reflect on their experiences mobilizing voters in their communities. Stephanie shares her personal stakes and concerns, emphasizing how the election’s outcome could significantly impact the lives of marginalized individuals and families. Through their candid conversation, they highlight the urgency of civic engagement, encouraging listeners to recognize their roles within the democratic process and to take action.
The discussion broadens to encompass the significance of financial literacy as a tool for empowerment. Stephisha, with her background as a licensed financial advisor, emphasizes the importance of educating young people about personal finance as a means of breaking the cycle of poverty and fostering independence. The hosts share inspiring stories of their community initiatives aimed at teaching financial skills, and they discuss how these efforts can create a more informed electorate. This emphasis on financial literacy intertwines with their advocacy for social justice, illustrating how understanding economic systems can enhance one’s ability to navigate the political landscape effectively.
As the episode unfolds, Stephanie and Stephisha reflect on the narratives surrounding Vice President Kamala Harris and the importance of a nuanced understanding of her role in the political arena. They address the criticisms she has faced while emphasizing her commitment to the communities she serves. This dialogue encourages listeners to critically evaluate political narratives and to seek out candidates who prioritize equity and justice. Through their engaging and relatable conversation, this episode serves as both a motivational call to action and a reminder of the power of individual voices in shaping the future of our communities.
Chapters:
• 00:05 - Intro: Welcome to Nosy AF
• 00:35 - It's Election Day: Feeling Nervous
• 00:52 - Introducing Stephisha Ekoy Walton
• 01:06 - Mobilizing for the Election
• 00:27 - Understanding What's at Stake
• 03:31 - Getting Involved: Community Engagement
• 03:36 - The Importance of Voting
• 17:21 - Financial Literacy and Community Impact
• 34:20 - Taking Action: Teaching Youth Financial Skills
• 04:27 - Closing Thoughts: Celebrating Change
Connect with Stephisha
Instagram: @sycoywalton
Connect with Stephanie
Instagram: @stephaniegraham
Email: [email protected]
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Lyrics: Queen Lex
Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam
Special thanks this episode to Amanda McGrane, KO Meyers, and Dave Jackson
Ep 60: Doom-Scrolling and Daily Joys
Summary of this episode
In this episode of noseyAF, host Stephanie shares candid, one-take thoughts on navigating the emotional weight of the current election cycle. She opens up about being glued to the news and refreshing social media while dealing with the uncertainty that comes with it. Stephanie hopes these reflections will resonate with listeners and offer a bit of support during these overwhelming times.
She also gives a shoutout to her podcast bestie, Paulette Erato, and her incredible work organizing the Latinas in Podcasting Summit, an event that brought together both new and experienced podcasters.
Stephanie would love to hear from you, too—how are you holding up? Reach out and let her know!
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Paulette's Podcast La Vida Más Chévere
Mindful Marketing Podcast: pod.link/1390672198
Check Your Voter Registration Status
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Join Stephanie Graham as she talks about her enamel pins and shares exciting news about her upcoming debut as a vendor at a holiday market. With a passion for creativity and conversation, Stephanie reflects on her journey of making quirky, limited-edition pins that spark joy and connection. From her inspiration at a local artist gallery to her fun designs like the "Freedom Kahlo" and "I Need a Baker," she opens up about her artistic process and the stories behind her creations. Get ready for some fun insights, a catchy new beat for a podcast segment, and a heartfelt invitation to support local creatives. Tune in for a bright, engaging discussion that feels like chatting with your best friend!
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Ep 58: Hosting with Heart: Breaking the Rules of Traditional Entertaining
“The heart of hospitality isn’t about impressing others but making them feel welcome.”
— Saanya Ali
Welcome back to episode 58 of nosyAF!
In this episode of nosyAF: Conversations About Art, Activism, and Social Change, host Stephanie sits down with Saanya Ali, founder of Soiree, to discuss how she is hosting with heart and redefining hospitality through her creative and joyful approach to gatherings. Saanya shares how hosting can move beyond stress and formality, focusing instead on connection and generosity. From her international upbringing to her passion for food and community, Saanya highlights how hospitality can be as simple as pizza on the floor with friends, emphasizing that the experience is about people, not perfection.
🍜Hosting with heart means prioritizing connection over perfection and making everyone feel valued and at home.
🍕A dinner party doesn’t have to be elaborate. It can be pizza on the floor—the connection matters," says Saanya.
🍽️ By breaking down the barriers to hosting, Saanya shows everyone can create memorable experiences, no matter the setting.
🥂Hospitality is about generosity and bringing people together, whether at a lavish event or a casual get-together.
Saanya Ali is a storyteller, writer, self-trained chef, and community-builder. She founded SOIRÉE, a platform that simplifies hosting for a new generation of entertainers. Born in Switzerland to South Asian parents and having traveled to over 65 countries, Saanya is fascinated by how food connects people across cultures and traditions. For her, a shared meal is more than just food—it's a way to break down barriers, tell stories, and bring people closer to their roots and communities.
After graduating from NYU's Gallatin School with a focus on Mixed Media Storytelling and Human Rights, Saanya worked at Well+Good before leaving in 2022 to focus full-time on SOIRÉE. The platform offers playful, practical solutions for Gen Z hosts, prioritizing authenticity, creativity, and accessibility over perfection.
At heart, Saanya is a curious third-culture kid who passionately believes in the power of food and connection. Her journey, from her multicultural upbringing to her extensive travels, has reinforced her belief that food is a universal language that can bridge cultural gaps and foster meaningful connection.
“We dont need a run of show!”
"Food is a universal language—it brings people together, and that's what hospitality is all about."
"The heart of hospitality isn’t about impressing others but making them feel welcome.”
Connect with Saanya
Instagram: @justsoiree
Website: https://www.justsoiree.com/
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Instagram: @stephaniegraham
Email: [email protected]
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Lyrics: Queen Lex
Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam