<p>In this lively, reflective episode of The Forest School Podcast, Lewis, Wem, and guest Lily pick apart the famous “three look afters” and ask a bigger question: who’s allowed to fail at Forest School, and how do we help people fail well? From cartilage kneecaps and Mr Potato Head jokes to space holding, autonomy versus community, and that dreaded “shit spoon” moment, they explore boundaries, blame versus shame, and how to create conditions where struggle leads to learning rather than humiliation. Expect practical facilitation nuance, philosophical detours, and a few perfect tangents about tracksuits.</p><p><br></p><p>⏱ Chapter Timings</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 – Cold open: kneecaps, bandagraphs, and Mr Potato Heads</p><p>03:14 – Axing the “three look afters”: demands, agency, and who can fail</p><p>06:06 – Flattened hierarchies or hidden authority: responsibility in practice</p><p>10:38 – Boundaries, safety, and culture shift for new groups</p><p>14:49 – Space holding, low-demand setups, and modelling altruism</p><p>21:27 – Failing well: conditions for struggle without humiliation</p><p>25:22 – Nunchi: reading the room and tailoring support</p><p>28:56 – Relational failure, shame versus guilt, and belonging</p><p>49:22 – Process over product: the “shit spoon” and reframing success</p><p>1:05:00 – Lily’s trainings, FSA roadshows, and resources</p><p><br></p><p>🌲 Keywords</p><p><br></p><p>Forest School agreements, failing well, autonomy vs community, space holding, shame vs blame, boundaries and safety, facilitator judgement, process over product, reflective practice, learner agency</p><p><br></p><p>🔖 Hashtags</p><p><br></p><p>#ForestSchool #OutdoorEducation #ReflectivePractice #CommunityLearning #NaturePlay</p><p><br></p><p>🎧 Catch the full episode:</p><p><br></p><p>Spotify: https://shorturl.at/4WdyI</p><p><br></p><p>YouTube: https://shorturl.at/3qOUs</p><p><br></p><p>Apple: https://shorturl.at/FxfMF</p><p><br></p><p>RSS: https://shorturl.at/A0kx9</p><p><br></p><p>🌐 More Episodes &amp; Support</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to more and access resources at www.theforestschoolpodcast.com</p><p><br></p><p>Support the show and join our community at www.patreon.com/theforestschoolpodcast</p><p><br></p><p>For questions, feedback, or collaboration: [email protected]</p><p><br></p><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p>Animated “What is failure?” video discussed: https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1CVvtkueZU/?mibextid=wwXIfr</p>