Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus
Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus

Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus

Ashlyn R. Watkins

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Spiced Wife is a bold, relatable podcast for wives who want to grow in biblical marriage, femininity, and confident, holy sexual intimacy. With practical tools, laughter, and convicting truth, get equipped to build an impactful life and marriage.

Recent Episodes

Ep. 250 Season Finale: How Will You Arise?
MAR 31, 2026
Ep. 250 Season Finale: How Will You Arise?
This season finale is both a closing and a calling. In this episode, I share that I will be stepping away for a while, and we center our hearts again on what God has been speaking all along: we are called to arise. Not by doing more, striving more, or filling our lives with busyness, but by finally becoming who He has already called us to be. Sometimes, the way forward begins by stopping. We stop the noise, the pressure, and the constant doing, so we can step into simply being, by God's grace. I also answer three important questions from wives: • How do I learn and grow in the things shared on this show? • What should a wife do when her husband won't stop drinking? • What is the difference between obedience and submission in marriage? This episode will leave you grounded, refocused, and reminded that your transformation is not earned through effort—but received through surrender. As this season comes to a close, let this be your reminder: You don't need to do more to arise; you just need to start being who God has already called you to be. Stop to Start. End to Begin. Arise. Note: See Episode 249 on YouTube called: The Cost and Blessings for Being a Biblical Wife! https://youtu.be/MlVOjC2qEsg Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband 3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢ https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Threads ⇢ https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about
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33 MIN
Ep. 248 Staying Aligned With God in a Busy Life
MAR 16, 2026
Ep. 248 Staying Aligned With God in a Busy Life
In this episode, you'll learn how to stay in agreement with God in every area of your life. We dive into Numbers 25 and explore God's perspective on wholehearted devotion and staying focused on Him. From there, we talk about what it practically looks like to remain aligned with God each day.... even in a life that feels full of tasks, responsibilities, and constant busyness. Join the Wife Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband 3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢ https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Threads ⇢ https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about
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28 MIN
Ep 247 (PART TWO) Answering 7 Questions from Wives
FEB 17, 2026
Ep 247 (PART TWO) Answering 7 Questions from Wives
This is a two-part episode. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven honest questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Questions about: Husband not leading and not good with spending; Not feeling close to your husband after pregnancy; Wanting to leave after adultery; Husband having prior sex experiences before marriage; When is the next retreat; and accepting your husband back after separation; submission questions. Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband 3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢ https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Threads ⇢ https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about
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74 MIN
Ep. 246 (PART ONE) God First, Not Tasks... and... Praying For Your Enemies
FEB 17, 2026
Ep. 246 (PART ONE) God First, Not Tasks... and... Praying For Your Enemies
This is a two-part episode designed to strengthen your faith and give practical guidance for your walk with God. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven vulnerable questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband 3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢ https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Threads ⇢ https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about
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30 MIN
Ep. 245 Should I Get a Divorce? Needed Steps in a Hard Marriage
FEB 2, 2026
Ep. 245 Should I Get a Divorce? Needed Steps in a Hard Marriage
In this episode, we answer a candid sex question from a wife and share a few laughs about arising in both comfort and confidence—embracing femininity and sex appeal without overthinking it. We then turn to the often-misunderstood story of Job's wife, a woman with a poor reputation whose words are frequently judged without grace. Together, we explore what it looks like to extend compassion instead of condemnation, especially when our husband is difficult to understand or walk with. This episode encourages wives to honor God, resist the temptation to give up too quickly, and learn how to endure marriage with faith—even in the hardest seasons. Videos on having an Ungodly Husband: ➡️Should you submit to an "ungodly" husband? https://youtu.be/PPIPTRrePBY ➡️Submit???… But what if I don't agree?!? https://youtu.be/vSNEsYggRb8 ➡️How to Submit to An Ungodly Husband (Part 1) https://youtu.be/lqDcK74-pNQ Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢ https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about
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41 MIN