What We Said
What We Said

What We Said

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Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.

Recent Episodes

THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME
DEC 12, 2025
THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME
This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season — the gifts — until they’re not so great anymore. They dive into your submissions about the worst presents you’ve ever received, and we’re not just talking about a $5 gift card to a store you’d never step foot in. There are gag gifts gone wrong, destroyed family heirlooms, and even stories involving dead pets… yes, you read that right. This episode will make you feel genuinely grateful if all Santa brings you this year is coal. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Nurture Life: head to NurtureLife.com/WWS and use code WWS for 55% off your first order PLUS free shipping Storyworth: Right now, save $15 or more during their Holiday sale when you go to storyworth.com/whatwesaid. Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket for the holidays—they’re tough on cold, soft on you. Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your orde Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home for the holidays. Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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64 MIN
WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?
DEC 9, 2025
WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?
The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing’s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item.  Aura Frames: $35 off with code WHATWESAID at auraframes.com  Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Download the Rocket Money app and enter my show name What We Said in the survey so they know we sent you!  Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket for the holidays—they’re tough on cold, soft on you. Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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82 MIN
SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA
DEC 2, 2025
SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA
This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else’s big moment to blowing through their husband’s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all… sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Aura Frames: Go to auraframes.com and get $35 off with code WHATWESAID.  Squarespace: Go to Squarespace. com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com. Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping.  DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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73 MIN
MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME
NOV 28, 2025
MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME
It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of “wait… how do I handle this?” conversations. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item.  Tia Health: Book an appointment today at asktia.com/wws.   Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order.  Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free steak in every box for a year PLUS $20 off your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid.   Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Laundry Sauce: During our Black Friday/Cyber Monday Signature Sale, you’ll save up to 40%, get $75 in free gifts, and free shipping at LaundrySauce.com.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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66 MIN
THE NICEST THING EVER
NOV 25, 2025
THE NICEST THING EVER
Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “the sweetest thing someone’s ever done for you,” and honestly, we’re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It’s a much-needed reminder that kindness is alive and well — and if the Valley girls teach you one thing this week, it’s to never lose hope in humanity. // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Fabletics:  Go to Fabletics.com/WHATWESAID and sign up as a VIP and get 80% off everything.  Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com. Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket—they’re tough on cold, soft on you. Clean Simple Eats:  Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for 20% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping.  Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to Chewy.com/whatwesaid.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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56 MIN