What We Said

Whether it’s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said listeners submitted their biggest warning signs that someone might deserve a little side-eye — from the universally annoying “never takes responsibility” type to more subtle debates like whether not having long-term friends is a reason to think twice before inviting someone to a girls night. Some are obvious, some are controversial, and all of them spark discussion. Tune in to see where Jaci + Chelsey land, and whether you agree with their takes! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 STORIES: 32:58 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at rocketmoney.com/WHATWESAID.  Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market with my link thrivemarket.com/WHATWESAID for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift!!  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What’s not clocking with these men? This week, Jaci and Chelsey are stepping in to help untangle your toughest relationship dilemmas. Should this listener drop the guy who refuses to leave his hometown with her? Need help with navigating a boyfriend’s suspiciously mysterious past (and wondering if honesty will actually help)? They’ll also get into the chaos of a friend group being shaken up by the dreaded performative male — because no relationship advice episode would be complete without one. This episode will leave you feeling enriched with that girly guidance you’d want from the group chat. XOXO The Valley Girls!! !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 ADVICE: 33:20 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Tubi: Watch Kissing is the Easy Part streaming free February 13 only on Tubi.  Leesa: Go to leesa.com for 30% off mattresses PLUS get an extra $50 off with promo code. NOCD: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/WHATWESAID.   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Cover up — your desperation is showing! This week, the girls are exposing your thirstiest confessions after recapping their very polar-opposite vacations. Listeners wrote in with stories that range from unhinged to downright impressive: stalking a love interest, flying across the world just to “accidentally” run into someone, faking sleepwalking for a late-night peek, and even staging serious health scares that end with ambulances being called. If this episode proves one thing, it’s that Valley girls will truly stop at nothing to get what they want <3 !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 STORIES: 48:48 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  O Positiv: Head to opositiv.com/WHATWESAID or enter WHATWESAID at checkout for 25% off your first purchase.  Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at www.skims.com/whatwesaid. After you place your order, be sure to let them know we sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. Covergirl: Go the distance with COVERGIRL’s new Eye Enhancer Wrap Tubing Mascara for a lash extension effect. Shop now at your nearest retailer. Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/whatwesaid.  Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to Chewy.com/whatwesaid.  Tubi: Watch Kissing is the Easy Part streaming free February 13 only on Tubi.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

After a quick catch-up, Jaci and Chelsey dive into the theme, mantra, anthem — whatever you want to call it — for 2026: the Year of the Horse. Known for bold, fast-moving energy, this year is all about confidence and momentum. The girls go even deeper into the fire element of the Horse, a combo famous for turning up the heat and pushing big risks, career pivots, and undeniable main-character decisions. Translation: trust your instincts, move with intention, and stop apologizing for wanting more. In true What We Said fashion, they’ll break down what all of this actually looks like in real life (like ruthless screen time regiments) and how to ride the energy instead of fighting it. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 TOPIC: 27:15 // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month. Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.  Covergirl: Go the distance with COVERGIRL’s new Eye Enhancer Wrap Tubing Mascara for a lash extension effect. Shop now at your nearest retailer. Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/livjpll3 #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Introducing the What We Said Podcast’s newest episode theme: Monthly Favorites. Jaci and Chelsey are spilling all the tea on what they’ve been wearing, watching, consuming, and critiquing lately. Topics include the habit that’s had the biggest impact on their daily lives, a nighttime ritual that completely changed Chelsey’s sleep, a deep dive into Europe’s quick and elevated cooking tips, and a movie-of-the-month pick that lived up to the hype. Tune in for those + many more, and see which favorites you might want to steal and apply to your own life. !!! TIMECODES !!! CATCH UP: 0:08 OUR FAVS: 14:19    // WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING //  https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast  SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said  !!! FOLLOW US !!! INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTIS TIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITH YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE // SPONSORS //  Covergirl: Go the distance with COVERGIRL’s new Eye Enhancer Wrap Tubing Mascara for a lash extension effect. Shop now at your nearest retailer. Square: Get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/whatwesaid.  DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code whatwesaid for 20% off your first order.  HelloFresh: Go to hellofresh.com/whatwesaid10fm to Get 10 free meals + a FREE Zwilling Knife (a $144.99 value) on your third box. Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.