In this episode, Dave Glaser explores the Enneagram type 6, highlighting their loyalty, courage, and commitment in relationships. He discusses the challenges they face, particularly when operating from fear and anxiety, and how these can sabotage their connections. The conversation also delves into the darker aspects of type 6 behavior, including distrust and self-sabotage. Finally, practical relationship advice is offered for both Enneagram 6s and those in relationships with them, emphasizing the importance of trust and emotional safety. Takeaways Sixes bring unshakable loyalty and commitment. They make the world safer for their loved ones. When struggling, sixes operate from fear and anxiety. Small conflicts can escalate into larger issues for sixes. Sixes often test relationships for reassurance. They may struggle with trusting their own judgment. At their worst, sixes can become paranoid and distrustful. Fear can distort their perception of safety in relationships. Grounding techniques can help sixes manage anxiety. A regulated six is a devoted and loving partner. Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Enneagram 6: Loyalty and Commitment 02:22 Challenges Faced by Enneagram 6s in Relationships 04:16 The Dark Side of the Enneagram 6: Fear and Distrust 06:37 Relationship Advice for Enneagram 6s