Have you ever been out to dinner with a group of friends and after a bunch of chit chat the table falls to a dead silence…
And as that awkward feeling starts creeping up your shoulders someone starts babbling again and relief washes over you?
What is it about silence that gets to people?
I think that we are so used to being bombarded by sound, that when silence arrives, it's so unfamiliar that we have an unconscious need to fill it back up.
Why?
Because nature abhors a vacuum.
We have an unconscious need to fill empty space.
What does this have to do with comedy?
Well, It's been said that "music happens in the silence between the notes".
This is also true for comedy.
Comedy happens in the pause.
And if we look at our job as being a conductor on stage, then we get to create magic between ourselves and the audience
And if you can master this one thing, it will make you a better comic in no time.
In fact, if you're new and you build this in to your set straight from the gate, you'll give off the essence of being a pro.
That's how powerful this is.
Today, we're joined by Bobbie Oliver, author of The Tao of Comedy – Embrace The Pause
And it was in her book, that I first read about the importance of pausing.
You'll hear first hand how pausing on and offstage will help you build confidence and a commanding stage presence.
Read Bobbie's book, The Tao of Comedy
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Standup comedy is a personal development course in action, according to our host, Linda Schwartz. Her comedy is a work in progress, as is she, but she's sharing her (cringeworthy) experiences to help you improve, too.
On the last episode of She Shed Comedy, we dissected Linda's tight five from her 2022 Pretty Funny Women show. Today, we're taking a look at her seven-minute set, so get ready for some laughs and a few lessons!
Perhaps one of the most important things to remember about crafting a set is that the time of a set isn't how much time you actually have. This is comedy, after all, so you'll need to pause to leave room for laughs.
From "trimming the fat" to adding new jokes, Linda was able to achieve more cohesion and expand her set from five minutes to seven minutes. She'll explain how she did it by deconstructing the changes she made, and why she made them.
Linda also discusses her favorite way to end a set, listening to the audience, and her fears sharing these sets. Hear all this and more on this episode!
Topics discussed in this episode:
Linda's tight five from the Pretty Funny Women show
Linda's seven-minute set expanded from the tight five
Linda explains what changes were made and why
The new jokes added to the seven-minute set
Paying attention to where people are laughing
Following the line of logic
Ending your set with a callback
The importance of not rushing your set
Sets are a work in progress
Reflecting on a Jim Carrey quote
Linda's self-care prompt, personal prompt, and comedy prompt for the week
Want to watch Linda bomb and see how far she has come? Take a look at her Stand Up Comedy Showcase Set (and prepare to cringe)!
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Every comic starts out with a five-minute set or what the industry refers to as a 'tight five'. This tight five will evolve over time and eventually expand into a seven-minute set, then a 15-minute set, then a 45-minute set, and so on.
Since Linda started performing, her set has evolved constantly, with minor tweaks from show to show. Today, we deconstruct her tight five and take a look at how she put her set together to get it as tight and structurally cohesive as possible.
This episode offers insight into the methodology behind crafting a set using Linda's performance from the Pretty Funny Women show in May 2022 as an example. We take a look at the essential elements of this tight five, from setups to callbacks, and share some tips for cutting the fat (and keeping the laughs coming!)
If you're in your head, you're not connecting with your audience. That's why we want to help you get so comfortable with preparation, precision, and timing that you don't even have to think about it in the moment. Tune in today for all this and more!
Topics discussed in this episode:
A cringe-worthy bombing experience (and what you can learn from it)
The methodology and intention that goes into crafting a set
Linda's tight five from the Pretty Funny Women show in May 2022
Benefits of recording your live performances
An understanding of word economy and sticky phrases
Tips for getting a laugh within the first three seconds
Creative context, setups, educational bits, and the rule of three
Why you should keep a running tab of funny observations
Deconstructing the set piece and the callback
How to play on the assumptions of your audience
A reminder that every set is a work in progress
Giving your audience permission to laugh
Your 2-in-1 self-care and personal development prompt
This week's recommended comedy prompt on Netflix
Want to watch Linda bomb and see how far she has come? Take a look at her Stand Up Comedy Showcase Set (and prepare to cringe!)
Recommended Resources: Brian Simpson on Season 3 of 'The Standups'
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