<description>&lt;p class="p1"&gt;Last year I found myself in the middle of a shitstorm for daring to expose a community leader's abusive behavior. Today I tell the whole story.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="p1"&gt;The backlash was immediate and intense, with DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactics used to paint &lt;em&gt;me&lt;/em&gt; as the problem. Suddenly, I was not just standing as a representative of this man’s abuse, but also receiving harassment and ostracization from those I once considered my community. Sharing this story isn't just about telling you what’s going on; it's about shining a light on the dark corners of abuse and systemic failure. It's a call to action for change, support, and understanding for those who have had their voices silenced.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="p1"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;ALSO&lt;/strong&gt;: I clarify my &lt;a href= "https://www.leahcarey.com/relationship-intimacy-sex-coach/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;pricing structure for coaching&lt;/a&gt; and how I serve people with financial challenges.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class="p1"&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;BEYOND PERMISSION classes:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.beyondpermission.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener"&gt;www.beyondpermission.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Apply for a free coaching session:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/session" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;www.goodgirlstalk.com/session&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Become a client:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.leahcarey.com/coaching" target="_blank" rel= "noopener"&gt;www.leahcarey.com/coaching&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Support the show:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex" target= "_blank" rel= "noopener"&gt;www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Full show notes: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/consent-darvo" target="_blank" rel= "noopener"&gt;www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/consent-darvo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Good Girls Talk About Sex

Leah Carey

When the man teaching consent is the one violating you

FEB 29, 202452 MIN
Good Girls Talk About Sex

When the man teaching consent is the one violating you

FEB 29, 202452 MIN

Description

Last year I found myself in the middle of a shitstorm for daring to expose a community leader's abusive behavior. Today I tell the whole story.

The backlash was immediate and intense, with DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactics used to paint me as the problem. Suddenly, I was not just standing as a representative of this man’s abuse, but also receiving harassment and ostracization from those I once considered my community. Sharing this story isn't just about telling you what’s going on; it's about shining a light on the dark corners of abuse and systemic failure. It's a call to action for change, support, and understanding for those who have had their voices silenced.

ALSO: I clarify my pricing structure for coaching and how I serve people with financial challenges.

 

BEYOND PERMISSION classes: www.beyondpermission.com

Apply for a free coaching session: www.goodgirlstalk.com/session 

Become a client: www.leahcarey.com/coaching

Support the show: www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex

Full show notes:  www.goodgirlstalk.com/posts/podcast/consent-darvo