You can communicate calmly, clearly, and thoughtfully — and still feel unheard, misunderstood, or stuck.In this episode, Dr. Dar Hawks explains why communication breaks down in relationships when core relationship needs feel threatened, and why talking more often makes things worse instead of better.You’ll learn:Why communication works for logistics but fails when something emotional is at stakeHow unmet needs — not poor communication skills — drive conflictThe five core (sovereign) relationship needs and how each one disrupts communication differentlyWhy you keep repeating yourself even when you’re being clearWhat actually helps communication soften and shiftThis episode goes deeper than communication tips and offers a framework to finally understand what’s really happening underneath the words.✨ Take the Relationship Needs Quiz Discover which needs are most active for you and why communication keeps breaking down: 👉 https://drdarhawks.com/relationship-needs-quiz✨ Explore the Better Relationships Communication Toolkit Learn how to communicate from clarity, safety, and self-trust — not exhaustion: 👉 https://toolkit.drdarhawks.com🧾 Episode Show Notes (Short + Skimmable)Why communication breaks down when something important is at stakeHow unmet relationship needs shape conversationsThe 5 Sovereign Relationship Needs explainedWhy repeating yourself is a sign of unmet needs, not poor communicationHow clarity changes communication naturally👉 Take the Relationship Needs Quiz: https://drdarhawks.com/relationship-needs-quiz👉 Better Relationships Communication Toolkit: https://toolkit.drdarhawks.comSend a text Support the showIf you’re here because you care deeply, but feel confused, unseen, or like you’re carrying more of the emotional weight, you’re in the right place. This podcast is for women who are thoughtful, self-aware, and trying to understand what’s actually happening in their relationship before making big decisions. Start with clarity: Understand what you need to feel safe and supported → https://needs.drdarhawks.com Learn tools to steady communication and restore emotional safety → https://toolkit.drdarhawks.com Explore private sessions with Dr. Dar → https://drdarhawks.com/work-with-me New episodes are released roughly every other week. And if something resonated - or didn’t - you’re welcome to reach out.You can leave a comment on your favorite podcast platform, or better yet, contact me through my website https://drdarhawks.com. Your questions and reflections matter here.