Your partner promises to change — but nothing ever sticks.In this episode, Dr. Dar Hawks explains why change fails in relationships even when intentions are sincere, and why pressure, over-explaining, and “trying harder” often make things worse.You’ll learn:Why promises don’t equal capacityThe role emotional safety plays in lasting changeHow unmet relationship needs block follow-throughWhy this pattern isn’t your fault — and what actually helpsIf you’re exhausted from repeating the same conversations and wondering whether real change is possible, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and next steps.🎧 Take the Relationship Needs Quiz: https://needs.drdarhawks.com 🧰 Get the Better Relationships Communication Toolkit: https://toolkit.drdarhawks.comSend a text Support the showIf you’re here because you care deeply, but feel confused, unseen, or like you’re carrying more of the emotional weight, you’re in the right place. This podcast is for women who are thoughtful, self-aware, and trying to understand what’s actually happening in their relationship before making big decisions. Start with clarity: Understand what you need to feel safe and supported → https://needs.drdarhawks.com Learn tools to steady communication and restore emotional safety → https://toolkit.drdarhawks.com Explore private sessions with Dr. Dar → https://drdarhawks.com/work-with-me New episodes are released roughly every other week. And if something resonated - or didn’t - you’re welcome to reach out.You can leave a comment on your favorite podcast platform, or better yet, contact me through my website https://drdarhawks.com. Your questions and reflections matter here.