Hearts Entwined Podcast

Lyn examines how best to approach first dates and the common mistakes people make when evaluating potential partners, focussing upon the importance of not dismissing someone after just one meeting, especially if overall there was a feel good vibe. KEY TAKEAWAYS Initial chemistry or attraction may not be present on a first date, but that doesn't mean a potential relationship should be dismissed. It's important to give people a chance to reveal their true selves over time. After a first date, reflect on how you felt about yourself rather than solely on the other person. If you had a good time and felt comfortable, it's definitely worth considering a second date. Studies show that many couples who eventually form strong, healthy long term relationships did not feel an immediate spark on their first date. Getting to know someone better can certainly lead to a deeper connection. It's easy to dismiss someone based on initial impressions or lack of chemistry. However, taking the time to explore a relationship can reveal attractive traits that were not initially apparent on a first date. BEST MOMENTS "Sometimes on first dates, people are very nervous... there might not automatically be chemistry and sparks flying to start with." "If you've had a good time... it doesn't mean that it can't happen further down the line." "What do you feel about yourself after that date? If there's loads of negatives and red flags, fair enough, no second date." "It does take more than a first date to get to know somebody properly, doesn't it?" ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale. Contact Method [email protected] This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

Lyn welcomes special guest Chelsea Ann, author of "The Feminine Effect." Chelsea shares her transformative journey of self-discovery and the importance of returning to our feminine nature. Drawing from her personal experiences, including her marriage and subsequent divorce, she discusses the societal pressures that lead women to adopt more masculine traits, often at the expense of their emotional and spiritual well-being. KEY TAKEAWAYS The journey to fulfilment for women involves reconnecting with their feminine nature, which leads to healing mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Relationships serve as a mirror for personal growth and healing. Underlying issues relating to past trauma and familial dysfunction will affect the dynamics within our relationships. Recognising and appreciating the contributions of our man is essential. Respect and appreciation promotes a healthier relationship dynamic and allows us to be embraced and cherished for our femininity. Women often feel pressured to define their worth through external achievements, such as financial success, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and disconnection, rather than through our inherent value and vulnerability which leads to more fulfillment & connection. BEST MOMENTS "You're not in your nature as a woman. That's what you're missing." "If we were just more in our authentic nature... we can then heal mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually." "We don't need to keep ruining our lives to try to touch into that." "We don't appreciate them. We don't say, thank you. We're always looking for lack." ABOUT THE GUEST - Chelsea Ann - Women's Health Practitioner/ Author Chelsea Ann, MSN, FNP, a Board-Certified Nurse Practitioner, integrative medicine and women’s health practitioner, modern healer, and podcast host. Chelsea Ann’s mission is to take women back to their authenticity—to who they really are—she does this by asking women to feel and see her life as she did: a life that has taken her from the extremes of poverty and wealth, of great fear and power, of divorce and death, and finally into laughter and joy and unconditional love. ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale. Contact Method [email protected] This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

Lyn looks at the complex and controversial topic of trans and self-identification. Drawing from her personal experiences and extensive research, Lyn expresses her concerns about gender dysphoria and what's been offered as a one treatment fits all 'trans' pathway (transition to look/ identify as the opposite sex) solution, and the harrowing implications, particularly on young children and adolescents.  She discusses the potential risks associated with transitioning, including mental health issues, irreversible sexual function, sterilisation and the permanent removal of healthy body parts. Lyn also raises the alarm on predetory male perpetrators who are exploiting self identity/ trans to gain accessibility to women/ girls private spaces and sports. KEY TAKEAWAYS Many individuals diagnosed with gender dysphoria may have underlying issues such as trauma, abuse, be on the neurodivergent spectrum or have confusion over their sexual orientation during adolescence, which could be treated with safe therapeutic options, rather than them automatically being pushed down a potentiall harmful trans pathway. The discussion highlights the probable long-term consequences of medical interventions like puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones and irreversible proceedures/ surgeries, particularly for children who are not emotionally/ mentally mature enough and do not fully understand the lifetime implications of their decisions. Huge concerns are being born out, allowing men to self-identify as women has opened the door for predatory male perpetrators to exploit being able to gain access to women’s and girl's safe spaces, endangering women and girls in areas where they should feel secure and protected. The conversation distinguishes between two main categories of men who identify as transwomen: 1. Homosexual transsexuals, who may transition due to gender dysphoria or traumatic childhood experiences, and 2. Autogenophiles, men who have a sexual fetish related to seeing themselves as female. BEST MOMENTS "I think this is an area in our lives at the minute which is leaving the door open for predatory men to be able to access vulnerable women and girls." "There are lots of reasons why people and children in particular, might suffer from gender dysphoria, especially through their vulnerable years of adolescence and puberty." "What comes after that? Certainly, possibly surgeries, where for boys that can lead to them having their genitals removed." ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale. Contact Method [email protected] This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

Lyn talks to Jeffrey Nuziard, a sexual health and wellness expert and the developer of the patented RegenMax treatment.  Jeffrey shares his personal, devastating experience with erectile dysfunction (ED) that began in his 40s, which ultimately led him on a 15-year quest to find a genuine cure. He explains the root cause of physical ED is not poor blood flow (as conventional medicine suggests), but rather the degeneration of collagen in the penile tissue due to dropping testosterone levels as men and women age KEY TAKEAWAYS Contrary to popular belief, the primary cause of physical erectile dysfunction is not simply poor blood flow, but the breakdown of collagen that holds together the spongy tissues (corpora cavernosa) inside the penis Dropping testosterone levels, which begin to decline by an average of 2% per year in our 20s, activate the body's ageing process, causing the body to shut down non-essential functions like collagen production The RegenMax treatment focuses on regenerative medicine by using a combination of techniques, including heat and acoustic sources, to cause micro-tears in the tissue Women also experience atrophy due to collagen and hormone loss, leading to issues like clitoral atrophy and vaginal relaxation syndrome BEST MOMENTS "I discovered that everybody says [poor] blood flow is the cause of erectile dysfunction, but it’s not." "Losing testosterone activates the ageing process." "The first thing that your body shuts down is our production of collagen." "Our bodies are able to regenerate themselves... that’s how we were designed." ABOUT THE GUEST - Jeffrey Nuziard - Sexual Health & Wellness Expert Jeff Nuziard is the founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America and the innovator of REGENmax®, the only patented protocol proven to cure and prevent erectile and vaginal dysfunction. More than 3,000 patients have completed the program, with outcomes that consistently reflect the remarkable 97.2% success rate first demonstrated in his clinical trial. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/regenmax_ed/?igsh=MTRhdHZuZThmYzFwbQ%3D%3D Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/REGENmax/61557429745690/ Website - https://regenmax.com/ ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale. Contact Method [email protected] This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

This deeply personal episode explores the phases of emotional detachment within a relationship, specifically from a woman's perspective, using a powerful analogy of an emotional "bank account."  Lyn shares her own experiences across two long-term relationships, detailing five stages—from the initial unconscious observation of negative feelings to the final, total emotional and physical withdrawal KEY TAKEAWAYS A relationship begins with a full "bank account" of emotional energy, but as issues arise, the account starts to become slowly and unconsciously depleted until a woman feels emotionally bankrupt. The initial phase involves silently observing and compounding feelings of disappointment and unfulfilment without understanding the root cause, which then progresses to a breakdown in communication and feeling unheard. As emotional energy decreases, a woman slowly withdraws her investment in the relationship, showing less spontaneity, affection, and initiation, and instead starts taking personal responsibility for her own happiness through external activities. The final stage is the "whip of indifference," where the emotional bank account reaches zero, and the woman has completely checked out—a state of emotional bankruptcy where there is no more energy left to invest, and she is out of the relationship both emotionally and physically. BEST MOMENTS "Neither relationship was a toxic relationship... but it just got to the stage where we were on different paths and the relationships had run their course." "What I noticed is that, first and foremost, I was observing myself, but not actually consciously at the time... that I was silently observing, certain feelings... like disappointment, feeling unfulfilled." "Unconsciously, you start to stop communicating, and this can have a draining effect, it can really be a phase where you're feeling exhausted and frustrated." "I suppose in hindsight, I realise now that these things were going on, but I felt powerless to actually stop the train now that it was pulling out the station, so to speak." ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now feeling safe, fulfilled, alive, full of passion and having inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert/ Trainer/ Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale. Contact Method [email protected] This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/