<p>Autistic people are often told they lack social skills. That is wrong. In this episode, I break down the one skill autistic people are actually missing, and why it is not your fault.</p><p>I explain how this skill is supposed to be learned, why many autistic people never get taught it, and how that gap causes constant misunderstandings with other people. I share real examples from my own life, at work, in friendships, and in everyday conversations.</p><p>You will hear why people say things like “you should just know,” why guessing social rules is exhausting, and why masking feels like the only option. I also explain how this missing skill links to anxiety, shutdowns, burnout, and low confidence over time.</p><p>Most importantly, I explain what you can do instead of blaming yourself. You can build clarity. You can reduce confusion. You can stop assuming you are broken.</p><p>If you have ever felt behind, confused by people, or tired of pretending, this episode will help you understand what is really going on.</p>