<p>In this episode of the Addict IIAthlete podcast, Coach Blu Robinson speaks with Sathiya Sam about the complexities of pornography addiction, its impact on individuals and relationships, and the importance of open conversations about sexuality. Sathiya shares his personal journey of overcoming a 15-year addiction and discusses the significance of community support, self-awareness, and shifting one's identity in the recovery process. The conversation also touches on the emotional and relational ramifications of addiction, the role of faith, and practical steps for recognizing and addressing problematic behaviors.</p> <p><strong>Take Aways </strong></p> <ul class="css-h4c1sf"> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Sathiya Sam shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">The average age of first exposure to pornography is between eight and twelve years old.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Open conversations about sex and intimacy are crucial for healthy development.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Pornography addiction is often linked to intimacy issues rather than sexual gratification.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Betrayal trauma can significantly impact relationships when one partner struggles with addiction.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Behavioral addictions operate differently than substance addictions, requiring unique approaches to recovery.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Recognizing signs of addiction includes changes in viewing patterns and social commitments.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Emotional withdrawal can be a significant indicator of dependency on pornography.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">The relationship bank account concept emphasizes the importance of honesty and integrity in relationships.</span></li> <li><span class= "MuiTypography-root MuiTypography-bodyMedium css-9y6kil">Finding purpose beyond addiction can aid in recovery and personal growth.</span></li> </ul> <p>Chapters</p> <p>00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest<br /> 01:24 Sathiya's Journey with Pornography Addiction<br /> 02:45 The Impact of Early Exposure to Pornography<br /> 05:51 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex<br /> 07:29 Understanding the Stigma Around Pornography Addiction<br /> 10:08 The Ripple Effect of Pornography Addiction on Relationships<br /> 11:34 Intimacy Issues Behind Pornography Addiction<br /> 14:44 The Complexity of Behavioral Addictions<br /> 16:55 Recognizing Signs of Pornography Addiction<br /> 20:38 How to Approach the Topic of Addiction<br /> 21:48 The Three Pillars of Recovery<br /> 22:31 The Emotional Roller Coaster of Performance Thinking<br /> 23:41 Finding Freedom Through Identity Shift<br /> 24:50 The Power of Community in Recovery<br /> 26:52 Navigating Disclosure in Relationships<br /> 30:05 The Relationship Bank Account Concept<br /> 34:40 Purpose Beyond Addiction<br /> 38:35 The Deep Clean Coaching Program</p> <p class="p1">For more infromation: <a href= "https://www.sathiyasam.com/">https://www.sathiyasam.com/</a></p> <p class="p2">Please join Addict to Athlete's Patreon support page and help us turn the mess of addiction into the message of sobriety!</p> <p class="p2"><a href= "https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete">https://www.patreon.com/addicttoathlete</a></p> <p class="p1"> </p> <p class="p2">Please visit our website for more information on Team Addict to Athlete and Addiction Recovery Podcasts.</p> <p class="p2"><a href= "https://www.AddictToAthlete.org">https://www.AddictToAthlete.org</a></p>