In this episode, Paul Bauer breaks down how men get stuck in the beta cycle, why “nice guy” behavior quietly kills desire, and how covert contracts sabotage attraction without men even realizing it. We get into the difference between being a good man versus a nice one, and how shifting your mindset, boundaries, and masculine leadership can radically change how you show up for yourself—and yes, how your wife starts wanting to fuck you again. This is raw and exactly the conversation most men need but rarely hear!