Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them. Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God? If not, you’re doing it wrong. Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land. In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:The emotional catharsis of squirtingHealing and alchemizing past trauma through sexMale G-Spot liberationOrgasm without ejaculation for him SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. it's the Anami Guarantee. I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers

A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1It went mega-viral. Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kable boy-children. What happened? Where did all the testosterone go? In this episode: The old Rat Pack vs. the new Rat Faces Who would you rather: Henry Cavill or twink Timothee Chalamet? Is hormonal birth control destroying women’s ability to choose masculine men? The only “toxic” masculinity is the LACK of itCasting directors can’t even find masculine looking young actors anymore Are we all being gay-frog boiled? How to avoid xenoestrogensBuilding dopamine and testosterone naturally Coming out of anti-masculine programming and the resurgence of the manly man Using sexual energy to increase your masculine power COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALONFor more on how to build your masculine smolder—and for your woman to cultivate her feminine surrender—check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon which opens in early April. We deep dive into all things masculine and feminine energies to create the hottest sexual polarity and chemistry. In the meantime, you can signup for my free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse.   Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally.Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include: ~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets~ Broken bed frames~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy~ Clearing of relationship blocks~ Stronger stamina~ Feelings of safety and security~ Sky-rocketing libidosSignup today. https://kimanami.com/lovers

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.”Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. I’ve got you. In this episode: Signs your woman is underf**ked Which orifice and when? Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. Throat-gasms for the win What to do when your woman nags and belittles you Ideal frequency of sex Ideal duration of sex What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each otherJunk food vs. gourmet sex The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn:How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energySexual reflexology maps of the genitalsMy sexual position prescription guideThe full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for womenSuperstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation.The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE 7-Day Sex Cleanse and to be notified when the salon opens for registration.https://kimanami.com/lovers

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problemsNavigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter Which private island to have your sex weeks at What to do when people keep throwing cash at you Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral and ethical responsibility to guide the underf**ked out of their morass and stupor of underf**ked blindness and into the light We can get through this. Together.  ***Signup for the free 7-Day Sex CleanseA weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: Ejaculate-soaked bed sheetsBroken bed framesBeing fully energized by each other's life force energyClearing of relationship blocksStronger staminaIncreasing trust, intimacy and opennessSky-rocketing libidosSignup here.https://kimanami.com/lovers

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: That I don’t take HRT. They came RUNNING. A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND JUST WAIT UNTIL MY VAGINA FALLS OFF. In true Anami-style, I took down each of these underf**ked orcs one-by-one. We even held a “Who wore it better/ who would you rather f**k” poll?” Frumpy HRT doctor or Hot asf no-HRT Kim Anami? In this episode: Whiners get bitch-slapped.Are menopause and perimenopause entirely Nocebo effect? The New Yorker columnist who “racismed” me Is simply “being a woman” a lifelong pathology that requires medicating from puberty until death? Is Serena Williams a great tennis player because she’s lucky?A crash course is standing your ground against mindless, NPC, underf**ked orcs A woman who knows how to live in a female body: me Victims vs. victors. Whining vs. winning Being well-f**ked makes you wittier, smarter and hotter. It’s just a fact. It also makes you not get menopause symptoms My original post that started all the controversy:https://www.instagram.com/p/DUQ41LgkQrd/?igsh=MWVmNDBzdzY3MThhdg==My responses to the underf**ked orcs: https://www.instagram.com/p/DUlnn2ejxmU/?igsh=MWl1MjR4ZDJyOXdtNg==https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUqqrIQEfrZ/?igsh=MW00MzJ5c3o3bzR6Zw==Check out my new Psychedelic Menopause Substack: https://psychedelicmenopause.substack.comSignup for my upcoming Psychedelic Menopause Salon waitlist: http://kimanami.com/psychedelic-menopause