Sexy Biz Babe

Okay babes, we need to talk about something nobody is actually talking about — men's orgasms. Not the fake confidence. Not the performance. The real stuff happening behind closed doors that most men are too embarrassed to admit and most women are too polite to ask about.I brought in the big guns for this one. Caitlin V is a sexologist with 923K YouTube subscribers, the host of HBO's Good Sex, and the author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger. She has heard it all, fixed it all, and she came on Sexy Biz Babe to spill every last secret.This conversation got uncomfortable. It got real. And honestly? It might change your entire relationship.We got into:Most men have never actually had a real orgasm and have no idea what they're missingEjaculation and orgasm are not the same thing — and that gap is where everything falls apartWhy men secretly struggle with stamina way more than they let on and what is actually causing itThe mental vs physical breakdown of premature ejaculation — and why pills aren't the answerWhat stress is literally doing to his erection and his ability to feel pleasureThe truth about what porn consumption does to performance over timeHow men can train themselves to last longer naturally starting tonightHow to help your man level up in bed without making him feel like a failureThe one thing women would be genuinely shocked to learn about men sexuallyThis is the episode you send to your partner. Or listen to together. Or listen to alone and pretend you didn't.And babes — stay tuned. Next episode I am getting deeply, uncomfortably, deliciously personal. We are talking about my bisexual threesome. What happened, why it happened, and what it cracked open in me that I never saw coming. You have been warned.Follow Caitlin V: YouTube: @CaitlinV Instagram: instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousxBook: Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger - levelupwithtia.comFollow me on Instagram Instagram.com/sexybizbabepodcast and tag and share your favorite clips or episodes! 

Play Parties Aren’t What You Think: Dating Lessons & Emotional Intelligence with Stefanie with Broke girl therapy In this raw, honest conversation with Stephanie from Broke Girl Therapy, we unpack dating myths we once believed, toxic relationships we stayed in far too long, and the uncomfortable truth behind why so many women keep ending up in situationships.We talk about her first play party experience, sexual exploration, emotional safety, and the difference between being “chill” and emotionally avoidant. Plus, the green flags that actually led her to her fiancé and the one thing women need to stop doing immediately if they want a real partner.This episode is for the woman who’s tired of doing everything “right” and still not getting the love she wants.Follow me on Instagram Instagram.com/sexybizbabepodcast and tag and share your favorite clips or episodes! Wanna improve your confidence, sex life, break out of shame or learn how to be ENM or improve your relationship in monogamy, hit me up I take on the best clients that are ready to be challenged and looking to change! Hit me up on instagram.com/sexybizbabe

177: Female Orgasm Tips No One Taught You (Men take notes) with Abigail from Rat Girls PodcastFemale pleasure is rarely taught honestly. In this episode, we break down why so many women fake orgasms and how to have real, satisfying orgasms using practical pleasure tips, communication, and body awareness.What if the reason you’re not orgasming (or your partner isn’t) has nothing to do with your body being “broken”… and everything to do with what no one ever taught you?In this deliciously honest, funny, and wildly validating episode, I sit down with Rat Girl Podcast to talk about how to actually orgasm with a vulva — whether you’re solo, partnered, married, dating, ADHD, curious, or just tired of faking it.We’re talking real pleasure, not porn-based performance sex.We break down why:• “Jackhammering” isn’t doing what you think it’s doing• Faking orgasms keeps everyone stuck (and how to stop)• The so-called “tight V” myth is actually about arousal• Why vulvas literally grow, expand, and need warming up• The orgasm gap is real — and fixable• Vibrators don’t make partners “inferior” (they make sex better)• Most people orgasm more with clit stimulation and toys• There is MORE than one way to orgasm (and no, liquid isn’t required)• Smut books, fantasy, and erotic storytelling might be your secret weapon• ADHD sex struggles are normal — and there are simple ways to work with them• Scheduling sex doesn’t kill the spark — avoiding pleasure doesWe also cover:• How to ask for more foreplay without crushing your partner’s ego (the compliment sandwich 👀)• What to do if you have different sex drives• How to bring the spark back into long-term relationships or marriages• Taking your power back in your pleasure — unapologeticallyThis episode is packed with practical orgasm tips, laughter, truth bombs, and moments that will make you say,“Oh… THAT explains a lot.”If you have a vulva, love someone with a vulva, or want deeper, hotter, more connected sex — this episode is required listening. 💋🎧 Watch / Listen everywhere: YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & all streaming platforms.Follow our guest: @ratgirlspodcastFollow me on @sexybizbabepodcast + @sexybizbabe Check out levelupwithtia.com to work with Tia and get her courses

Episode 176: Exploring Non-Monogamy & Dating Apps with Öykü from Beyond Dating AppWhat if everything we were taught about love, sex, and relationships was designed to keep us playing small? 🔥 In this honest conversation, I'm sitting down with Öykü, the creator of Beyond—a dating app built for the ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous community (because we deserve better than those awkward "couple seeking unicorn" vibes). It's for all styles of dating.We're getting into what ENM really teaches us, why mainstream dating apps suck for anyone doing relationships differently, and how to stop apologizing for wanting what you want. We talk about the fear of being too MUCH —and why that shame is just old programming we get to delete.We talk compersion (getting turned on by your partner's joy with someone else—yes really), sexual liberation as rebellion, and the game-changing truth that the more you prioritize YOUR pleasure, the hotter and more present you become in all your relationships.If you're poly-curious, exploring non-monogamy, questioning the rules, or ready to do love and sex on your own terms—this one's for you. 💋LINK to join the app - https://beyond.app.link/join/sexybizbabeTopics: Beyond dating app • ENM & polyamory • exploring bisexuality • healing sexual shame • compersion • sexual liberation • authentic dating • pleasure as power

Episode 175: Pleasure, Pain and Creepy Fantasy's with Nicoletta Heidegger  In this juicy + deeply validating episode, I sit down with the incredible Nicoletta Heidegger — Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256), award-nominated Sexologist, and host of the hit podcast Sluts & Scholars. Nicoletta specializes in sex therapy and Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, offering virtual sessions and sessions at her unique ranch office in Los Angeles. She’s Stanford and Pepperdine educated, holds a Master’s in Human Sexuality from Widener University, and is known for her shame-free, sex-positive approach to healing and pleasure.We go all the way in on a topic so many women deal with silently:Pelvic floor pain and shame around sex.We unpack:• Why pain during sex is actually not normal (even though many of us were told it is)• How shame, fear, and survival responses show up physically in the pelvic floor• Where pelvic tension, pain, numbness, or tightness actually come from• How to begin healing through nervous system regulation + somatic release• How to find the right pelvic floor therapist or sex-positive specialist• What real embodied healing looks like — not just “relaxing”• The power of fantasy, desire expression, and permission to be a little wild• And yes… the unexpected serial killer fantasy conversation (you’re welcome 😈)There are also some very real, very funny, very human moments — because healing can be messy, sacred, and hilarious all at once.This episode is for you if you’ve ever felt:• Shame around your pleasure• Confused by your body• Disconnected during intimacy• Or like you were “broken”You’re not broken. You’re just holding more than your body knows how to process — and that can change.💜 Share this with someone who needs to know they’re not alone Your pleasure is not only allowed — it’s sacred.Follow me on Instagram Instagram.com/sexybizbabepodcast and tag and share your favorite clips or episodes! Feel free to share clips on social and tag @sexybizbabe Follow Nicoletta - @therapywithnicoletta or @slutsandscholars