Are you holding onto a breakup that’s draining your energy?
Do you ever catch yourself replaying old memories or struggling to move on after a breakup?
Today, Jay will break down a powerful 30-day No Contact Reinvention Challenge designed to help you heal, grow, and rebuild your confidence. If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, this episode is your guide to turning heartbreak into transformation.
Jay reveals practical steps to help you shift your focus, break emotional patterns, and create a new version of yourself—one that is stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled. From cutting out breakup songs and sad movies to replacing old habits with new adventures, this challenge is all about reclaiming your life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to Let Go of the Past and Reinvent Yourself.
The Five-Text Rule to Overcome the Urge to Reach Out.
Why Changing Your Routine Helps You Heal Faster.
How to Stop Overthinking and Find Closure Within Yourself.
A Simple 90-Day Reflection Strategy to See How Far You’ve Come.
Heartbreak is painful, but it doesn’t have to define you. It’s time to take control of your healing journey and create the life you truly deserve.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What we discuss:
00:00 Intro
03:18 30-Day No Contact Re-Invention Challenge
04:34 Day 1-5: Break Patterns From the Relationship
07:32 Day 6-1: Body Reset, Break Your Own Patterns
09:07 Day 11-15: Social Reset, The 5 Text Rule
17:03 Day 16-20: Change Your Mind, The Reverse Bucket List
23:31 Day 21-25: Do Something You’ve Never Done Before
23:59 Day 26-30: Reflection Phase, Set a 90-Day Reminder
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Do you track your spending?
What’s your biggest money mistake?
In today’s episode, Jay welcomes Scott Galloway, one of the most insightful voices in personal finance and wealth creation. If you've been struggling to make ends meet, wondering why you're not earning enough, or seeking financial security, this conversation is a must-listen.
Jay and Scott kick off by exploring the surprising reasons why 30-year-olds are earning less than expected. They dive into the practical steps individuals can take to change their financial trajectory, discussing topics like saving, investing, and overcoming mental blocks to making money.
Scott emphasizes the importance of financial literacy, encouraging listeners to start conversations about money and investments. He also challenges conventional wisdom, suggesting that pursuing talent over passion might be the key to financial success.
In this interview, you'll learn:
Why 30-year-olds are earning less and how to break the cycle
Practical strategies for saving and investing
How to overcome mental blocks to making money
Why talent trumps passion in achieving financial success
How to rewire your stressful relationship with money
Effective communication strategies for discussing money in relationships
If you've felt frustrated, stuck, or uncertain about your financial future, remember this: taking control of your financial health is within your reach. With this conversation, you'll gain the insights and practical advice needed to transform your relationship with money.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty.
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What we discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:00 Why Are 30-year-olds Earning Less?
06:07 What Can They Do To Change This For Themselves?
10:52 How Do I Save?
16:19 What Blocks Us From Making Money?
22:39 Should Young People Aspire For The American Dream?
25:02 Financial Security: What To Pursue
31:35 Rewiring Your Stressful Relationship With Money
38:03 Communicate About Money In Healthy Relationships
41:03 Talent Over Passion
45:52 Finding Your Talent
49:26 Every Experience Is An Added Skill
55:22 Forgive Yourself
59:15 Prioritizing And Evaluating Your Efforts
01:03:23 Building A “Great” Mindset
01:08:29 The Financial Content
01:12:49 Summary
01:13:41 Scott on Final Five
Episode resources:
Scott Galloway| Website
Scott Galloway| Instagram
Scott Galloway| Tiktok
Scott Galloway| Linkedin
Scott Galloway| YouTube
Scott Galloway| X
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What qualities do you truly want in a partner?
Do you believe in manifestation when it comes to love?
Today, Jay explores how you can break free from insecurity and build lasting confidence using science-backed techniques and practical mindset shifts. Jay opens the episode by addressing the invisible forces that keep us stuck in self-doubt, such as fear of failure, scarcity mindset, and negative self-talk. He explains that our brains are wired for survival, not confidence, which means that many of our insecurities stem from a natural instinct to protect ourselves from perceived threats.
Jay introduces seven powerful strategies for retraining the brain for confidence. First, he explains the importance of stopping the brain’s “threat detection system”, which makes us perceive challenges as dangers rather than opportunities. He then highlights unconscious competence, where we often fail to recognize the skills we’ve already mastered. By tapping into this, we can use our existing strengths as a foundation for greater self-assurance.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Overcome the Fear of Being Judged
How to Let Go of What No Longer Serves You
How to Take Control of Your Confidence
How to Shift from Self-Doubt to Self-Belief
How to Train Your Brain to Build Lasting Confidence
Confidence is not about being perfect; it’s about showing up, learning, and giving yourself the grace to evolve. You have everything within you to shift from doubt to self-trust.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:48 How to Manifest Love this Year
05:35 The State of Desperation and Detachment
07:18 Desperation Leads to a Lot of Challenges
09:45 Desperation Leads to Overthinking
13:06 Desperation Leads to Toxic Situations
15:18 Things You Do When You Detach Yourself from Others
21:22 #1: Take Small Steps Toward Love
23:48 #2: Be Patient for Love
24:55 #3: Align What You Think, Say and Do
26:26 #4: Live as if You Already Have Love
28:09 #5: Find Healing Before Your Next Relationship
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Do you ever feel held back by body image?
What’s one thing that instantly boosts your confidence?
Today, Jay welcomes Claudia Oshry, a comedian, podcaster, and social media personality. Claudia is the co-host of the extremely popular podcast "The Toast" and has gained a large following on Instagram for her relatable and often self-deprecating posts. Claudia has been open about her personal life, including her struggles with body image and her journey to motherhood.
Claudia opens up about the misconceptions surrounding her online persona, her journey with Ozempic, and her decision to embrace motherhood. She discusses the challenges of vulnerability on social media and the importance of self-acceptance and living life on your own terms and finding fulfillment.
Jay and Claudia share their personal experiences with weight and body image, revealing the societal pressures and internal struggles they have faced. They explore the complexities of Claudia's weight loss journey and decide to use Ozempic openly in the public eye. Claudia shares her personal transformation and the newfound confidence she gained through her weight loss journey.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Overcome Misconceptions
How to Embrace Vulnerability
How to Deal with Weight Stigma
How to Build Confidence
How to Find the Right Partner
Remember, it's okay to seek support and share your struggles. Embrace your true self, live life on your own terms, and never stop pursuing your dreams.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:27 How It Feels to Be Misunderstood
04:57 Protect Your Own Peace
06:56 What is Fat Camp?
08:34 The Struggle of Losing Weight
12:38 Responsible Use of Ozempic
16:20 Struggle with Self Image and Confidence
19:36 How Does Getting Pregnant Feel?
24:18 Getting Ready to Start a Family
30:46 Friends Change Throughout Your Life
33:08 Choosing What to Share About Your Life
39:45 Becoming a Content Creator
42:45 Learnings from the Corporate Life
46:16 Building a Brand as a One-Man Team
49:26 Smart Advice for Content Creators
52:49 Just Get Started
55:08 Stability is Beneficial in Running a Business
58:04 Running a Business with Family
01:01:44 How to Record a Good Episode
01:03:27 Know When to Listen
01:07:11 The Worst Type of Humor
01:10:46 Greatest Lesson from Grief
01:14:50 The Girl with a Dead Dad
01:18:37 The Dangers of Exposing Children Online
01:21:30 Claudia on Final Five
Episode Resources:
Claudia Oshry | Website
Claudia Oshry | TikTok
Claudia Oshry | Instagram
Claudia Oshry | Youtube
Girl With No Job: The Crazy Beautiful Life of an Instagram Thirst Monster
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Do you think your “type” limits you?
What’s one unrealistic dating expectation you’ve had?
Today, Jay welcomes back one of the most insightful voices in modern dating and relationships, Stephan Speaks. If you’ve been searching for clarity in love, struggling with self-worth in dating, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners, this conversation is a must-listen.
Jay and Stephan kick off by breaking down one of the biggest struggles in today’s dating world—the negative perception of men and women. They explore how sensationalized online narratives and personal biases shape our beliefs about relationships, often distorting reality. Stephan explains how social media and exaggerated dating horror stories create unnecessary fear and distrust, making it harder for people to embrace love.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of failed relationships, Stephan reveals that understanding yourself first is the key to finding the right partner. He emphasizes three critical factors: first, accepting the differences between men and women instead of resisting them; second, knowing yourself before entering a relationship, as many people struggle because they aren’t even clear on what they truly need; and third, prioritizing healing, because unresolved pain from past experiences will continue to affect every new connection.
In this interview, you'll learn:
How to Stop Letting Dating Myths Mislead You
How to Attract the Right Partner by Knowing Yourself
How to Heal Before Your Next Relationship
How to Communicate With a Closed-Off Partner
How to Break the Cycle of Failed Relationships
If you’ve felt frustrated, discouraged, or like love just isn’t in the cards for you, remember this: the right relationship isn’t something you chase, it’s something you attract by becoming the best version of yourself.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:28 The Difference Between Average Men and Women
11:30 Why Men Often Don't Date Ambitious Women
17:28 Understand Who Your Partner Really Is
23:55 Negative Perception of Men When Dating
28:52 Coveting the Desirables
32:27 How to Not Love Bomb Your Partner
40:32 If He Wanted to He Could
43:59 Emotional Maturity in Relationships
48:28 Always Be Open to Connection
53:34 Insecurities and Jealousy
01:01:15 How Do You Initiate Open Communication?
01:09:56 All Is Not Lost in Breakups
01:17:35 The Right Person at the Wrong Time
01:22:43 Every Dating Relationship is a Process
Episode Resources:
Stephan Speaks | Website
Stephan Speaks | TikTok
Stephan Speaks | Instagram
Stephan Speaks | Youtube
Stephan Speaks | LinkedIn
Stephan Speaks | Books
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