Send a textAt what point does “loving your spouse for who they are” turn into “settling for who they refuse to become”?  Marriage isn’t just about love — it’s about growth, responsibility, and evolution. And this episode asks a question most married couples avoid because it hits too close to home.  We’ve all heard it: “You knew who I was when you married me.”  But what happens when:         •        effort stops         •        ambition fades         •        emotional growth stalls         •        accountability disappears         •        and “this is just how I am” becomes a shield against change?  On this episode of Marriage Material, we challenge the tension between acceptance and expectation:         •        Are vows about unconditional acceptance… or mutual growth?         •        When does patience become enabling?         •        How long do you wait on “in progress” before admitting nothing is changing?         •        Is staying loyal to the marriage costing you loyalty to yourself?  This isn’t about quitting on your spouse. It’s about confronting the difference between supporting growth and surviving stagnation.  Because real marriage isn’t loving someone despite who they are — it’s walking with someone who’s willing to become better with you.  ⚠️ If this topic makes you uncomfortable, it may be exposing a conversation you’ve been avoiding.Support the show