The Undecided Gen Z

and we’re backkk… hi, hello, it’s been awhile! let me divulge what i’ve learned while i’ve been away, between breakups, friends and self discovery, it’s been anything but smooth sailing!! intro/outro music by Good Nuuz https://on.soundcloud.com/t74hJ93Zag3CDpX99

It's been a while... while I've been away I've upgraded, evolved, levelled up...  basically I've just been spending all my time healing, working through trauma, started to love myself, been learning accept my self completely. It's been an intense journey, filled with pain, the love I've always dreamed of and shedding a life and a version of myself that had to go. I cant wait to tell you everything, the chaos, the experiences, the wildness that these past few months have been. I've missed this, I hope you've missed me.. we have so much to catch up on xx find me on  instagram @theundecidedgenz and @ally_malcolm  tiktok @theundecidedgenz

why have I always been so unsuccessful on my quest for love?  Recollecting myself after coming out a repeating scenario with my mum, I've been hit with finally acknowledging abandonment wounds and how those wounds have played a role in my behaviours when searching for a relationship and why I have so desperately wanted one. Not going to lie this felt like I was going to therapy with myself as the therapist but when is it not? If you connected, enjoyed or gained something from this episode, please let me know by leaving a rating and review or sharing your thoughts @theundecidedgenz or @ally_malcolm on instagram xx you can anonymously submit anything your heart desires at ----  https://forms.gle/yHED6PKGBZez5qkK7  or click the link in @theundecidedgenz bio 

Having come out of a hard place and putting the work into bettering myself, I feel blessed to share a conversation on all things healing with SOLCHLD. SOLCHLD/Aurora is a Singer, songwriter, poet, actor, a multidisciplinary artist. She is exudes heart and soul into everything she does and you can feel it by just listening to her song ‘Cancer Moon’. Having had similar experiences growing up as Black women in Australia and journey of healing, we thought it would be perfect to just chat and reflect. You can find SOLCHLD on instagram @aurora_solchld and you can find me on instagram @theundecidedgenz

coming off of a emotional breakdown, i talk about the confusion of what to do and who I want to be, the fear of choosing different programming, when is being alone healthy and necessary. really just me talking to myself about myself. If you enjoy please let me know, leave a review or send through a message to @theundecidedgenz or @ally_malcolm stay tuned for the episode where i talk about being fat:)