In this classic episode, we complete the &quot;Your Last Argument&quot; questionnaire from The Gottman Institute.   Using the questionnaire as a tool, we explore the feelings we each experienced during the disagreement, the factors that led us to approach the argument in that manner, deep rooted issues behind the argument, and what steps we each can take to avoid such conflict in the future.  Join us as we get real with each other (and with you!) and learn how to maybe stop an argument before it happens.Links Mentioned In This Week&apos;s Episode<ul><li><a href='https://www.gottman.com/couples/'>The Gottman Institute</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/45Fyvkp'>Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work</a></li><li><a href='https://payhip.com/b/sTQqC'>Jenni&apos;s Understanding Your Grief Series</a></li><li><a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community</a></li></ul>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this classic episode, we complete the &amp;quot;Your Last Argument&amp;quot; questionnaire from The Gottman Institute.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Using the questionnaire as a tool, we explore the feelings we each experienced during the disagreement, the factors that led us to approach the argument in that manner, deep rooted issues behind the argument, and what steps we each can take to avoid such conflict in the future. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Join us as we get real with each other (and with you!) and learn how to maybe stop an argument before it happens.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Links Mentioned In This Week&amp;apos;s Episode&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.gottman.com/couples/'&gt;The Gottman Institute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/45Fyvkp'&gt;Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://payhip.com/b/sTQqC'&gt;Jenni&amp;apos;s Understanding Your Grief Series&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Classic Perspectives: Your Last Argument

Are you grieving and your friends have gone silent? Were your friends great at the beginning of your loss but now it seems like they don&apos;t understand you at all? Do you have feelings of anger or resentment about your friends right now because of how they are responding to your grief? Join us as we explore why friends often stop showing up in grief and what to do about it. Links Mentioned In This Week&apos;s Episode<ul><li><a href='http://www.paulastephens.net/why-we-lose-friends-after-a-loved-one-dies/'>Why We Lose Friends After A Loved One Dies</a></li><li><a href='https://www.joincake.com/blog/unsupportive-friend-after-a-death/#:~:text=Grief%20tends%20to%20end%20friendships,with%20someone%20after%20a%20death.'>Unsupportive Friends After A Death</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/3saDOKp'>How To Break Up With Your Friends</a></li><li><a href='https://payhip.com/b/sTQqC'>Jenni&apos;s Understanding Your Grief Series</a></li><li><a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community</a></li></ul>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Are you grieving and your friends have gone silent? Were your friends great at the beginning of your loss but now it seems like they don&amp;apos;t understand you at all? Do you have feelings of anger or resentment about your friends right now because of how they are responding to your grief? &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Join us as we explore why friends often stop showing up in grief and what to do about it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Links Mentioned In This Week&amp;apos;s Episode&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='http://www.paulastephens.net/why-we-lose-friends-after-a-loved-one-dies/'&gt;Why We Lose Friends After A Loved One Dies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.joincake.com/blog/unsupportive-friend-after-a-death/#:~:text=Grief%20tends%20to%20end%20friendships,with%20someone%20after%20a%20death.'&gt;Unsupportive Friends After A Death&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/3saDOKp'&gt;How To Break Up With Your Friends&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://payhip.com/b/sTQqC'&gt;Jenni&amp;apos;s Understanding Your Grief Series&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Episode 118: When Friends Don't Show Up For Your Grief

Join us as we explore some of the most common traits found in couples that still have a spark in their relationship even after years of being together. Links Mentioned In This Week&apos;s Episode<ul><li><a href='https://www.bustle.com/p/couples-who-still-crush-on-each-other-after-10-years-have-these-7-things-in-common-17012320'>Couples Who Still Crush On Each Other After 10 Years Have These 7 Things In Common</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/478t8vF'>Base Hits and Home Run Relationships: What Women Wished Guys Knew</a></li><li><a href='https://payhip.com/b/KsQ0d'>Changing Perspectives on Your Anxiety: A 5 Step Guide To Calming An Anxious Mind</a></li><li><a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community</a></li></ul>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Join us as we explore some of the most common traits found in couples that still have a spark in their relationship even after years of being together.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Links Mentioned In This Week&amp;apos;s Episode&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.bustle.com/p/couples-who-still-crush-on-each-other-after-10-years-have-these-7-things-in-common-17012320'&gt;Couples Who Still Crush On Each Other After 10 Years Have These 7 Things In Common&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/478t8vF'&gt;Base Hits and Home Run Relationships: What Women Wished Guys Knew&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://payhip.com/b/KsQ0d'&gt;Changing Perspectives on Your Anxiety: A 5 Step Guide To Calming An Anxious Mind&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;The Changing Perspectives Podcast Patreon Community&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Episode 117:Keeping the Spark Alive

In this classic episode, Jenni and Josh explore 7 of the top needs of grieving children. Tips on how to best provide support to children and teens when they are grieving are reviewed and discussed. Show Notes:<ul><li><a href='https://www.dougy.org/'>National Center for Grieving Children &amp; Families</a></li><li><a href='https://childrengrieve.org/'>National Alliance for Grieving Children</a></li><li><a href='http://www.jennibrennan.com/resources.html'>Jenni Brennan Resources Page</a></li></ul> Support The Changing Perspectives Podcast<ul><li>Join us on <a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>Patreon</a> and try a 7-day trial for <a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>FREE</a></li><li>Try Jenni&apos;s newest grief course: <a href='https://mailchi.mp/changingperspectivesonline/griefseries'>Understanding Your Grief</a></li><li>Buy us a <a href='https://ko-fi.com/changingperspectives'>virtual coffee</a> to help support the podcast.</li></ul>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this classic episode, Jenni and Josh explore 7 of the top needs of grieving children. Tips on how to best provide support to children and teens when they are grieving are reviewed and discussed.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Show Notes:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.dougy.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;National Center for Grieving Children &amp;amp; Families&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://childrengrieve.org/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;National Alliance for Grieving Children&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='http://www.jennibrennan.com/resources.html'&gt;J&lt;b&gt;enni Brennan Resources Page&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Support The Changing Perspectives Podcast&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Join us on &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Patreon&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt; and try a 7-day trial for &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;&lt;b&gt;FREE&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Try Jenni&amp;apos;s newest grief course: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://mailchi.mp/changingperspectivesonline/griefseries'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Understanding Your Grief&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Buy us a &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://ko-fi.com/changingperspectives'&gt;&lt;b&gt;virtual coffee&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt; to help support the podcast.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Classic Perspectives: Exploring Children's Grief

We get a little real in this episode as we dive into the <a href='https://www.closercouples.com/PDF/Gottman%20Quiz.pdf'>Gottman Relationship Happiness Quiz</a> and explore the benefits and risks of using a quiz/tool like this to move your relationship forward. Come join us and see what happens... Links Mentioned In This Episode<ul><li><a href='https://www.closercouples.com/PDF/Gottman%20Quiz.pdf'>Relationship Happiness Quiz</a></li><li><a href='https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/'>The Sound Relationship House</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/433CK8v'>The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country&apos;s Foremost Relationship Expert </a></li></ul>Support The Changing Perspectives Podcast<ul><li>Join us on <a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>Patreon</a> and try a 7-day trial for <a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'>FREE</a></li><li>Try Jenni&apos;s newest grief course: <a href='https://mailchi.mp/changingperspectivesonline/griefseries'>Understanding Your Grief</a></li><li>Buy us a <a href='https://ko-fi.com/changingperspectives'>virtual coffee</a> to help support the podcast.</li></ul>

<description>&lt;p&gt;We get a little real in this episode as we dive into the &lt;a href='https://www.closercouples.com/PDF/Gottman%20Quiz.pdf'&gt;Gottman Relationship Happiness Quiz&lt;/a&gt; and explore the benefits and risks of using a quiz/tool like this to move your relationship forward.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Come join us and see what happens...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Links Mentioned In This Episode&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.closercouples.com/PDF/Gottman%20Quiz.pdf'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Relationship Happiness Quiz&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/'&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Sound Relationship House&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/433CK8v'&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country&amp;apos;s Foremost Relationship Expert &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Support The Changing Perspectives Podcast&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Join us on &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Patreon&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt; and try a 7-day trial for &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.patreon.com/thechangingperspectivespodcast'&gt;&lt;b&gt;FREE&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Try Jenni&amp;apos;s newest grief course: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://mailchi.mp/changingperspectivesonline/griefseries'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Understanding Your Grief&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Buy us a &lt;/b&gt;&lt;a href='https://ko-fi.com/changingperspectives'&gt;&lt;b&gt;virtual coffee&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt; to help support the podcast.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Episode 116: Are You Happy In Your Relationship?

Lean in to honest conversations about grief, mental heath, relationships, and parenting with your hosts, Jenni and Josh. As married high school sweethearts, Jenni and Josh blend their personal experiences with their professional experiences in the fields of counseling, hospice, bereavement, and education as they explore heavy topics through a lens of hopefulness and humor.

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