00:00 Introduction00:56 Yaakov’s fear and his tefillah01:23 Katonti I don’t deserve anything03:14 Ramban Hashem’s chesed isn’t earned03:29 How to daven notice every gift05:00 In marriage drop entitlement06:32 Zohar say every detail in tefillah08:04 Clear words in marriage08:47 Em al banim Shechinah protects10:09 Shalom bayis brings the Shechinah12:26 Bishvili nivra haolam responsibility18:13 Rabbi Levi bar Sisi ego blinds23:06 Be a king at home without ego25:00 See wife and children as gifts27:17 Closing brachah 
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This episode is in English.

Hilchos / Hashkafah for Marriage – Parshas Vayishlach, “Katonti”

In this episode, we learn how Yaakov Avinu’s tefillah “קָטֹנְתִּי מִכָּל הַחֲסָדִים” becomes a full roadmap for your marriage.

We go through:
- Ramban, Yaakov knows he doesn’t “deserve” anything; everything is pure chesed.
- Zohar, why real tefillah has to be spoken out in detail, not just “Hashem knows.”
- Degel Machane Ephraim, when the Shechinah spreads Her wings “אם על בנים,” nothing bad can touch you and “bishvili nivra ha’olam”.
- Midrash on the story of Rabbi Levi bar Sisi, who forgot his Torah when they put him on a high platform.

Then we bring it all straight into marriage:
• How to stop feeling “I deserve” and start seeing your wife as a gift.
• How to ask from Hashem and from your wife, without score-keeping or pressure.
• Why clear, detailed communication prevents fights and builds trust.
• How to be the “only one” responsible in your home without ego, with deep humility.

Listen and learn how counting your blessings, speaking clearly, and staying humble can bring the Shechinah into your home and turn your marriage into the place you and your children love to be most.

Weekly Halacha & Marriage Insights with Rabbi Eisenberger

Katonti – Yaakov’s Tefillah And A Grateful Marriage (Parshas Vayishlach) | English Ep. #91

Katonti – Yaakov’s Tefillah And A Grateful Marriage (Parshas Vayishlach) | English Ep. #91

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