Connected Families Podcast
Connected Families Podcast

Connected Families Podcast

Connected Families

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A Christ-centered parenting community that is grace-filled, science-based, and trauma-informed. Welcome!

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Blessed to Be a Blessing: Marriage, Parenting & Legacy
DEC 22, 2025
Blessed to Be a Blessing: Marriage, Parenting & Legacy
<figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-280-Jim-Lynne-2-1024x536.png" alt="Blessed to be a blessing" class="wp-image-63137" title="Blessed to Be a Blessing: Marriage, Parenting &amp; Legacy | Ep. 280 1" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-280-Jim-Lynne-2-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-280-Jim-Lynne-2-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-280-Jim-Lynne-2-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-280-Jim-Lynne-2.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-108deda" data-block-id="108deda"><p class="stk-block-text__text">What does it look like to live out the Connected Families Framework? What does it look like to live it out in your own heart and relationships? In this final episode of our 3-part series, Hope for the Long Haul, Jim and Lynne Jackson share how the Framework has shaped their lives over time: from finding their identity in Jesus, to marriage, to navigating the joys and challenges of parenting adult children. If you&#8217;re wondering whether this stuff really helps in the long term, this one&#8217;s for you.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-3bc09d7" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="3bc09d7"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>How and what the Connected Families Framework has looked like in their marriage</li> <li>Learning that Jesus is our “report card”</li> <li>What it looks like to keep the connection alive in marriage and in parenting</li> <li>How gifts gone awry and “Foundation” messages impacted their working careers</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/blessed-to-be-a-blessing-marriage-parenting-legacy/id1464953082?i=1000742269581"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-0d43d0a" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="0d43d0a"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=genesis%2012%3A%201-3&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Genesis 12:1-3</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/4j11ze5" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Book mentioned &#8211; Connecting: Healing Ourselves and Our Relationships by Dr. Larry Crabb</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/courses/entitlement/">The Entitlement Fix online course</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/">Donate to Connected Families</a></li> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt/?_gl=1*19zhro9*_gcl_au*MTE1MTI5MjQ0Mi4xNzYzNjU1NTczLjE4MTQ0NTU4MzYuMTc2NTM4Nzg1MS4xNzY1Mzg5NTMw*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjYwMzEyMTQkbzI1MyRnMSR0MTc2NjAzMTgyMyRqMzMkbDAkaDEzODcwMTIyMTY.">Trash, Truth, Treasure online mini-course</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/free-resources/4-messages-for-kids/">The Connected Families Framework</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/payoffs-accidental-rewards/">Podcast &#8211; Payoffs &amp; Accidental Rewards: How to Focus on the Right Stuff</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-87bf4b1" data-block-id="87bf4b1"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-b81d29d" data-block-id="b81d29d"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-115a068" data-block-id="115a068"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-020cc53" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="020cc53"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-245720a" data-block-id="245720a"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-983d9fc" data-block-id="983d9fc"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignwide stk-block-hero stk-block stk-14eb4a5 stk-block-background is-style-side-overlay stk--has-background-overlay" data-v="2" data-block-id="14eb4a5"><style>.stk-14eb4a5-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-14eb4a5 {background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-894693700-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important;}.stk-14eb4a5-container{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-14eb4a5-container:before{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-14eb4a5 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:300px !important;max-width:400px !important;min-width:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-14eb4a5 {background-position:center right !important;padding-top:30px !important;padding-right:30px !important;padding-bottom:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important;}}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-14eb4a5-column alignwide stk-container stk-14eb4a5-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk--column-flex stk-14eb4a5-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-a848eca" id="things-began-to-change-when" data-block-id="a848eca"><style>.stk-a848eca .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color has-white-color">&#8220;Things began to change when&#8230;&#8221;</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-945cf01" data-block-id="945cf01"><style>.stk-945cf01 .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text has-text-color has-white-color">Be part of the team that brings &#8220;aha&#8221; moments of grace to families. </p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-6b4031e" data-block-id="6b4031e"><style>.stk-6b4031e .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-6b4031e .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-6b4031e .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button stk-block stk-9906cf2" data-block-id="9906cf2"><style>.stk-9906cf2 .stk-button{background:#431c3b !important;}.stk-9906cf2 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#95848f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-9906cf2 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-9906cf2 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-9906cf2 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/end-of-year/"><span class="has-text-color stk-button__inner-text">DONATE TODAY</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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25 MIN
Surviving the "Helpful" Advice at Holiday Gatherings
DEC 18, 2025
Surviving the "Helpful" Advice at Holiday Gatherings
<figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-279-Audioblog-Unsolicited-Advice-1-1024x536.png" alt="Holiday gatherings" class="wp-image-62994" title="Surviving the &quot;Helpful&quot; Advice at Holiday Gatherings| Ep. 279 2" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-279-Audioblog-Unsolicited-Advice-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-279-Audioblog-Unsolicited-Advice-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-279-Audioblog-Unsolicited-Advice-1-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-279-Audioblog-Unsolicited-Advice-1.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-ed74c40" data-block-id="ed74c40"><p class="stk-block-text__text">In this audioblog, we take on a topic relevant to holiday gatherings: what to do when you receive unsolicited advice from well-meaning relatives? From preparing ahead of time to helping your kids navigate criticisms, today you’ll hear some practical strategies to help you continue to parent confidently in your grace-based approach.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-0e4ef8a" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="0e4ef8a"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>How to have empathetic responses with your family members before redirecting their approaches</li> <li>Confident responses to practice in advance</li> <li>How to equip your kids with truth before the gathering</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/surviving-the-helpful-advice-at-holiday-gatherings/id1464953082?i=1000741791699"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-e67b1ae" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="e67b1ae"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/unsolicited-parenting-advice-from-family/">Blog &#8211; How to Handle Unsolicited Parenting Advice from Family (4 Grace-Filled Tips)</a></li> <li><a href="https://connected-families.kit.com/28f6c3667a" target="_blank" rel="noopener">PDF &#8211; Scripts for Unsolicited Advice&nbsp;</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/holiday-family-stress-enjoying-gatherings/">Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings<strong> </strong>| Ep. 276</a></li> <li><a href="http://biblegateway.com/passage/?search=luke%201%3A17&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Luke 1:17</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/free-resources/4-messages-for-kids/">Free E-Book &#8211;&nbsp; What Kids Need: 4 Messages That Build Identity</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/table/">The Table Monthly Giving Program</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/">Give a Gift to Connected Families</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-0222a34" data-block-id="0222a34"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-d013fce" data-block-id="d013fce"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-09b4151" data-block-id="09b4151"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-48cc846" data-block-id="48cc846"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignwide stk-block-hero stk-block stk-ojerbyp stk-block-background is-style-side-overlay stk--has-background-overlay" data-v="2" data-block-id="ojerbyp"><style>.stk-ojerbyp-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-ojerbyp {background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-894693700-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important;}.stk-ojerbyp-container{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-ojerbyp-container:before{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-ojerbyp .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:300px !important;max-width:400px !important;min-width:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-ojerbyp {background-position:center right !important;padding-top:30px !important;padding-right:30px !important;padding-bottom:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important;}}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-ojerbyp-column alignwide stk-container stk-ojerbyp-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk--column-flex stk-ojerbyp-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-ilw3uh7" id="things-began-to-change-when" data-block-id="ilw3uh7"><style>.stk-ilw3uh7 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color has-white-color">&#8220;Things began to change when&#8230;&#8221;</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-n237th4" data-block-id="n237th4"><style>.stk-n237th4 .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text has-text-color has-white-color">Be part of the team that brings &#8220;aha&#8221; moments of grace to families. </p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-qzllipb" data-block-id="qzllipb"><style>.stk-qzllipb .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-qzllipb .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-qzllipb .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button stk-block stk-28yfkij" data-block-id="28yfkij"><style>.stk-28yfkij .stk-button{background:#431c3b !important;}.stk-28yfkij .stk-button:hover:after{background:#95848f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-28yfkij .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-28yfkij .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-28yfkij .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/end-of-year/"><span class="has-text-color stk-button__inner-text">DONATE TODAY</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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14 MIN
Loving (and Liking) My Kids for a Lifetime
DEC 15, 2025
Loving (and Liking) My Kids for a Lifetime
<figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-278-Dave-Scouler-1024x536.png" alt="Loving my kids" class="wp-image-62981" title="Loving My Kids (and Liking them) for a Lifetime | Ep. 278 3" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-278-Dave-Scouler-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-278-Dave-Scouler-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-278-Dave-Scouler-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/ep-278-Dave-Scouler.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-3240480" data-block-id="3240480"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Keeping &#8220;like&#8221; alive is what an enduring connection is all about! This week, Connected Families Co-Founders Jim and Lynne Jackson share more about the importance and benefits of lasting connection over time and why it&#8217;s the cornerstone of lasting family relationships. Hear from a long-time friend and Connected Families board member on how the framework has impacted his relationships over time, like a compass redirecting him back to loving his kids well and what&#8217;s most important when life gets off center. Learn how connection becomes the pathway toward true discipleship and godly influence.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-38957e7" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="38957e7"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Staying light even in hard times can transform your love into enduring like</li> <li>Discover how parents turning their hearts to their children influences generations</li> <li>How connection grew from an idea to taking root in Dave Scouler’s family over time</li> <li>Connection is the springboard into authentic discipleship</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/loving-and-liking-my-kids-for-a-lifetime/id1464953082?i=1000741408106"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-d149dab" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="d149dab"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/when-parenting-styles-differ-strong-willed-child/">When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child<strong> </strong>| Ep. 277</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=john%2017&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noopener">John 17</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/table/">The Table Monthly Giving Program</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/">Give a Gift to Connected Families</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=luke%201%3A17&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Luke 1:17</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/build-a-connected-familyep-84/">Want to Build a Connected Family? Be Intentional | Ep. 84</a></li> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/htgcf-book/?_gl=1*1uchrv*_gcl_au*MTE1MTI5MjQ0Mi4xNzYzNjU1NTczLjE4MTQ0NTU4MzYuMTc2NTM4Nzg1MS4xNzY1Mzg3ODUx*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjUzODc3MDkkbzI0NCRnMSR0MTc2NTM4OTQzNCRqNTkkbDAkaDk3NDI4NTkzOQ..">How to Build a Connected Family &#8211; Book</a></li> </ul> <figure class="wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="766" height="920" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Dave-Scouler-Family.jpg" alt="Dave Scouler Family" class="wp-image-63051" style="aspect-ratio:0.8326105810928014;width:323px;height:auto" title="Loving My Kids (and Liking them) for a Lifetime | Ep. 278 4" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Dave-Scouler-Family.jpg 766w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Dave-Scouler-Family-250x300.jpg 250w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 766px) 100vw, 766px" /><figcaption class="wp-element-caption">The Scouler Family</figcaption></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-86fbf2b" data-block-id="86fbf2b"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-3507a17" data-block-id="3507a17"><p class="stk-block-text__text">This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-d8472a0" data-block-id="d8472a0"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-8c73704" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="8c73704"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-8317fdd" data-block-id="8317fdd"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Dave Scouler has been married for over 30 years and has two amazing boys who joined their family through adoption from Russia. He has been a champion of Connected Families since its founding. Dave has worked in a diverse set of consulting environments and has over 40 years of experience helping clients respond to changing realities. He has served on multiple non-profit Boards and gets excited when given the chance to think strategically. When he is not working, he enjoys working on projects with his boys, being with his four dogs, swimming, and sailing.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-fd28e4a" data-block-id="fd28e4a"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignwide stk-block-hero stk-block stk-3zj1rb9 stk-block-background is-style-side-overlay stk--has-background-overlay" data-v="2" data-block-id="3zj1rb9"><style>.stk-3zj1rb9-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-3zj1rb9 {background-image:url(https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-894693700-scaled.jpg) !important;padding-top:64px !important;padding-right:64px !important;padding-bottom:64px !important;padding-left:64px !important;}.stk-3zj1rb9-container{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-3zj1rb9-container:before{background-color:#00000096 !important;}.stk-3zj1rb9 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:300px !important;max-width:400px !important;min-width:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-left:0px !important;}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-3zj1rb9 {background-position:center right !important;padding-top:30px !important;padding-right:30px !important;padding-bottom:30px !important;padding-left:30px !important;}}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-3zj1rb9-column alignwide stk-container stk-3zj1rb9-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk--column-flex stk-3zj1rb9-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-mld9in0" id="things-began-to-change-when" data-block-id="mld9in0"><style>.stk-mld9in0 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color has-white-color">&#8220;Things began to change when&#8230;&#8221;</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-om83thu" data-block-id="om83thu"><style>.stk-om83thu .stk-block-text__text{color:#FFFFFF !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text has-text-color has-white-color">Be part of the team that brings &#8220;aha&#8221; moments of grace to families. </p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-81clk71" data-block-id="81clk71"><style>.stk-81clk71 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-81clk71 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-81clk71 .stk-button-group{flex-direction:row !important;}}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button stk-block stk-7tih8fb" data-block-id="7tih8fb"><style>.stk-7tih8fb .stk-button{background:#431c3b !important;}.stk-7tih8fb .stk-button:hover:after{background:#95848f !important;opacity:1 !important;}.stk-7tih8fb .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important;}.stk-7tih8fb .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8, #ffffff) !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-7tih8fb .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/end-of-year/"><span class="has-text-color stk-button__inner-text">DONATE TODAY</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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28 MIN
When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child
DEC 8, 2025
When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child
<figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Ep-277-The-Allsups-1-1-1024x536.png" alt="Strong-willed child" class="wp-image-62895" title="When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child | Ep. 277 5" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Ep-277-The-Allsups-1-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Ep-277-The-Allsups-1-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Ep-277-The-Allsups-1-1-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Ep-277-The-Allsups-1-1.png 1200w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-7c3ed32" data-block-id="7c3ed32"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Whether you&#8217;re just starting your parenting journey or you’ve hit a rough spot, today’s episode is a reminder that God’s grace is sufficient through it all. Seeing God’s mercy toward us in the midst of challenging family messes (like disagreeing about how to approach parenting a “strong-willed” child) is the hope of the Gospel! Connected Families Co-Founders, Jim and Lynne Jackson, sit down with longtime friends of Connected Families, Jay and Debi Allsup, to encourage families with their experience with their own adult daughters. They remind us that our kids’ biggest challenges now can become their greatest assets when they are older! Yes… even the “strong-willed” child!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-718b779" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="718b779"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>What it initially looked like for Jay and Debi to approach parenting with two completely different styles</li> <li>Learn how Connected Families tools help parents to develop a common parenting language and a path forward to model reconciliation after they have had an imperfect parenting moment</li> <li>Impact on their daughters in the present</li> <li>God’s grace grows with your family</li> </ul> <iframe data-testid="embed-iframe" style="border-radius:12px" src="https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/2eZbH4zfkOXKfnDqM0PZ1H?utm_source=generator" width="100%" height="352" frameBorder="0" allowfullscreen="" allow="autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture" loading="lazy"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-8c69362" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="8c69362"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/framework-magnet/?_gl=1*1nosk16*_gcl_au*MTE1MTI5MjQ0Mi4xNzYzNjU1NTcz*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjQ2MDk5NjIkbzIyOSRnMSR0MTc2NDYxMDI5OSRqNTkkbDAkaDE4OTAxNTAxNzc.">Connected Families Framework Magnet</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ezekiel%2047%3A%208-9&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ezekiel 47:8-9 NIV</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-b1e66df" data-block-id="b1e66df"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-8e05eae" data-block-id="8e05eae"><p class="stk-block-text__text">This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c0eaafb" data-block-id="c0eaafb"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-9ac5d84" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="9ac5d84"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-81b8d21" id="jay-and-debi-allsup-are-long-time-friends-of-connected-families-and-were-part-of-the-original-board-jay-serves-business-leaders-with-his-financial-acumen-and-deep-biblical-insights-providing-a-unique-perspective-to-companies-and-nonprofit-organizations-that-leads-them-to-fiscally-responsible-decisions-and-managed-growth-debi-works-as-a-director-of-hr-at-a-national-community-based-support-services-company" data-block-id="81b8d21"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Jay and Debi Allsup are long-time friends of Connected Families and were part of the original board. Jay serves business leaders with his financial acumen and deep Biblical insights, providing a unique perspective to companies and nonprofit organizations that leads them to fiscally responsible decisions and managed growth. Debi works as a Director of HR at a national community-based support services company.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-3724066" data-block-id="3724066"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-card stk-block-card stk-block stk-d5b7427 is-style-horizontal" data-v="2" data-block-id="d5b7427"><style>.stk-d5b7427-container{background-color:#431c3b !important}.stk-d5b7427-container:before{background-color:#431c3b !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-d5b7427 .stk-block-card__image{width:100% !important;height:250px !important}}</style><div class="stk--no-padding stk-container stk-d5b7427-container stk-hover-parent"><figure class="stk-block-card__image stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-51833" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-scaled.jpg" width="1365" height="2048" alt="boy in the snow at night" title="When Parenting Styles Differ: Finding Unity with Your Strong-Willed Child | Ep. 277 6" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-scaled.jpg 1365w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-200x300.jpg 200w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-683x1024.jpg 683w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-768x1152.jpg 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/iStock-1051310110-1024x1536.jpg 1024w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1365px) 100vw, 1365px" /></figure><div class="stk-container-padding stk-block-card__content"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-d5b7427-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-7262dee" id="give-change-to-others" data-block-id="7262dee"><style>.stk-7262dee .stk-block-heading__text{color:#ede5ea !important}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color">Give &#8220;change&#8221; to others</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-91b0ce6" data-block-id="91b0ce6"><style>.stk-91b0ce6 .stk-block-text__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text has-text-color">Connected Families relies on your generosity so more families can experience &#8220;aha&#8221; moments of grace.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-6a34e07" data-block-id="6a34e07"><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button has-text-align-center stk-block stk-7a834f2" data-block-id="7a834f2"><style>.stk-7a834f2 .stk-button{background:#ede5ea !important}.stk-7a834f2 .stk-button:hover:after{background:#95848f !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-7a834f2 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:#160e0d !important;font-weight:600 !important}.stk-7a834f2 .stk-button:hover .stk-button__inner-text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-7a834f2 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://connectedfamilies.org/donate/end-of-year/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><span class="has-text-color stk-button__inner-text">DONATE &amp; MAKE CHANGE TODAY!</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div></div>
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30 MIN
Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings
DEC 1, 2025
Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings
<div class="wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-de08974" data-block-id="de08974"><figure><span class="stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-62776" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1.png" width="1200" height="628" alt="Holiday Family Stress" title="Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings | Ep. 276 7" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1.png 1200w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-768x402.png 768w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></span></figure></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-07b9503" data-block-id="07b9503"><p class="stk-block-text__text">The holidays are definitely a time when many families and children experience overstimulation, picky eating, chaos, and sibling bickering, which can lead to holiday family stress. What if we could experience God as Emmanuel (God With Us) even in the midst of the mess? Hear from Stacy Bellward as she reads one of the Connected Families blog posts, which will prepare you with a plan to set your kids up for success at your next holiday gathering!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-db12570" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="db12570"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Develop empathy for common behavior challenges for kids during the holidays</li> <li>Uncover the good news in all of the chaos</li> <li>Learn about the positive behavior and identity-building tool: ABCs of Affirmation</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holiday-family-stress-how-to-actually-enjoy-family/id1464953082?i=1000739074670"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-d7fcc3c" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="d7fcc3c"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/3-steps-prepare-kids-family-gatherings/#What_are_your_parenting_strengths">Blog Post &#8211; 3 Steps to Prepare Kids for Holiday Family Gatherings</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/what-to-do-when-relatives-criticize-your-parenting/">Blog Post &#8211; How to Handle Unsolicited Parenting Advice From Family</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/is-there-miracle-grow-for-good-behavior/">ABC’s of Affirmation</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-8ea7d9c" data-block-id="8ea7d9c"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-1e23160" data-block-id="1e23160"><p class="stk-block-text__text">This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-1957d80" data-block-id="1957d80"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-213ba3b" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="213ba3b"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-ed8ce31" data-block-id="ed8ce31"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents and caregivers. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-03d42dc" data-block-id="03d42dc"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/>
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13 MIN