Connected Families Podcast
Connected Families Podcast

Connected Families Podcast

Connected Families

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A Christ-centered parenting community that is grace-filled, science-based, and trauma-informed. Welcome!

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Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings
DEC 1, 2025
Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings
<div class="wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-de08974" data-block-id="de08974"><figure><span class="stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-62776" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1.png" width="1200" height="628" alt="Holiday Family Stress" title="Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings | Ep. 276 1" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1.png 1200w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-276-Stacy-Blog-Post-Holiday-Chaos-1-768x402.png 768w" sizes="(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px" /></span></figure></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-07b9503" data-block-id="07b9503"><p class="stk-block-text__text">The holidays are definitely a time when many families and children experience overstimulation, picky eating, chaos, and sibling bickering, which can lead to holiday family stress. What if we could experience God as Emmanuel (God With Us) even in the midst of the mess? Hear from Stacy Bellward as she reads one of the Connected Families blog posts, which will prepare you with a plan to set your kids up for success at your next holiday gathering!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-db12570" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="db12570"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Develop empathy for common behavior challenges for kids during the holidays</li> <li>Uncover the good news in all of the chaos</li> <li>Learn about the positive behavior and identity-building tool: ABCs of Affirmation</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holiday-family-stress-how-to-actually-enjoy-family/id1464953082?i=1000739074670"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-d7fcc3c" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="d7fcc3c"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/3-steps-prepare-kids-family-gatherings/#What_are_your_parenting_strengths">Blog Post &#8211; 3 Steps to Prepare Kids for Holiday Family Gatherings</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/what-to-do-when-relatives-criticize-your-parenting/">Blog Post &#8211; How to Handle Unsolicited Parenting Advice From Family</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/is-there-miracle-grow-for-good-behavior/">ABC’s of Affirmation</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-8ea7d9c" data-block-id="8ea7d9c"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-1e23160" data-block-id="1e23160"><p class="stk-block-text__text">This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-1957d80" data-block-id="1957d80"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-213ba3b" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="213ba3b"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-ed8ce31" data-block-id="ed8ce31"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents and caregivers. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-03d42dc" data-block-id="03d42dc"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignfull stk-block-hero stk-block stk-f2d3afc stk-block-background is-style-horizontal" data-v="2" data-block-id="f2d3afc"><style>.stk-f2d3afc-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important}.stk-f2d3afc{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important}.stk-f2d3afc:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important}.stk-f2d3afc-container{box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px rgba(30,63,82,0.2) !important}.stk-f2d3afc .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-f2d3afc-column alignfull stk-container stk-f2d3afc-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks has-text-align-center stk--column-flex stk-f2d3afc-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-columns alignfull stk-block-columns stk-block stk-003c800" data-block-id="003c800"><style>.stk-003c800{margin-bottom:0px !important}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-003c800-column alignfull"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-bdbb14f" data-v="4" data-block-id="bdbb14f"><style>.stk-bdbb14f-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-bdbb14f-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-bdbb14f-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-34c2a71" data-block-id="34c2a71"><style>.stk-34c2a71 .stk-img-wrapper{width:100% !important;height:500px !important}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-34c2a71 .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important}}</style><figure class="stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-45725" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419.jpg" width="1280" height="1920" alt="overwhelmed mom" title="Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings | Ep. 276 2" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419.jpg 1280w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419-200x300.jpg 200w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419-683x1024.jpg 683w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419-768x1152.jpg 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/pexels-gustavo-fring-4017419-1024x1536.jpg 1024w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px" /></figure></div> </div></div></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-3de77b7" data-v="4" data-block-id="3de77b7"><style>.stk-3de77b7{align-self:center !important}.stk-3de77b7-container{max-width:450px !important}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-3de77b7-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="has-text-align-left stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-3de77b7-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-43c1b4c" id="know-your-strengths" data-block-id="43c1b4c"><style>.stk-43c1b4c .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4,#1e3f52) !important}</style><h1 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color stk-block-heading--use-theme-margins">Know your strengths.</h1></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-95ef88f" data-block-id="95ef88f"><p class="stk-block-text__text"> Your best mom or dad instincts are&nbsp;<em>exactly</em>&nbsp;what your kids need. So identify them. <strong>Take the <em>free</em> Parenting Strengths Assessment.</strong></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-d0fedc6" data-block-id="d0fedc6"><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button has-text-align-center stk-block stk-c7e9046" data-block-id="c7e9046"><style>.stk-c7e9046 .stk-button{background:var(--theme-palette-color-1,#ee6c4d) !important}.stk-c7e9046 .stk-button:hover:after{background:var(--theme-palette-color-2,#98c1d9) !important;opacity:1 !important}.stk-c7e9046 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;color:var(--theme-palette-color-8,#ffffff) !important;font-weight:600 !important}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-c7e9046 .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://connectedfamilies.org/resources/parenting-strengths-assessment/"><span class="has-text-color stk-button__inner-text">FREE PARENTING STRENGTHS ASSESSMENT</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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Teaching Kids Their True Identity in Christ with Hosanna Wong
NOV 24, 2025
Teaching Kids Their True Identity in Christ with Hosanna Wong
<figure class="wp-block-image aligncenter size-large"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-275-Hosanna-Wong-1-1024x536.png" alt="identity in Christ" class="wp-image-62466" title="Teaching Kids Their True Identity in Christ with Hosanna Wong | Ep. 275 5" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-275-Hosanna-Wong-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-275-Hosanna-Wong-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-275-Hosanna-Wong-1-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/ep-275-Hosanna-Wong-1.png 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-fa4f98c" data-block-id="fa4f98c"><p class="stk-block-text__text">There are identity-forming lies all around your kids, at school, on screens, even in their own thoughts. In this powerful episode on identity in Christ, host Stacy Bellward sits down with spoken-word artist and author <a href="https://www.hosannawong.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Hosanna Wong</a>. They discuss her viral poem, &#8220;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeCZaE0vSMGzVRjcBrDWLlA" target="_blank" rel="noopener">I Have a New Name</a>,&#8221; with over 11 million views, and her new children&#8217;s book, <a href="https://amzn.to/4o75lnm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">What God Says About You</a>. The book helps parents equip their children to reject lies and embrace their God-given identity.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-bfa3dd5" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="bfa3dd5"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>How the importance of identity starts at a young age</li> <li>Learn how recentering on our identity in Christ is central to the Connected Families tool, Trash, Truth, or Treasure</li> <li>Learn nine biblical names to replace the lies kids (and adults) hear every day about themselves</li> </ul> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/teaching-kids-their-true-identity-in-christ-with/id1464953082?i=1000738069688"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-cf41d0b" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="cf41d0b"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt/?_gl=1*9kkipf*_gcl_au*MTMyNzUzMjkxMy4xNzU1NzkzMTYzLjE5MjM0NTA4MDguMTc2MTI0OTkzNC4xNzYxMjQ5OTM0*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjI0NDg0MTEkbzIwMiRnMSR0MTc2MjQ0ODU2OCRqNTgkbDAkaDgyMjQ4OTc5MA..">Mean Words Hurt! Are they Trash, Truth, or Treasure? Online Mini Course</a></li> <li><a href="https://connected-families.kit.com/69b715fd7b" target="_blank" rel="noopener">FREE Download: Trash, Truth, &amp; Treasure</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/What-God-Says-About-You-Audiobook/B0DPR6N66B?srsltid=AfmBOoouJ6L3kB0TO3bLA3RdXRBW5lBg4jCeOsjJCOfQoSHA4TvSHqVK" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">What God Says About You &#8211; Audiobook</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/4o75lnm" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">What God Says About You &#8211; Book</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/table/">Connected Families Monthly Giving Program &#8211; The Table</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0A_uXO3CgwY&amp;list=RD0A_uXO3CgwY&amp;start_radio=1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I Have a New Name &#8211; Spoken Word Poem</a></li> <li><a href="https://btgthriveconference.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Thrive Women’s Conference &#8211; MN</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20corinthians%203%3A16&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">1 Corinthians 3:16</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ephesians%202%3A10&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ephesians 2:10</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20corinthians%206%3A19&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">1 Corinthians 6:19</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=acts%201%3A8&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Acts 1:8</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=galatians%203%3A26&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Galatians 3:26</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=romans%205%3A8&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Romans 5:8</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=john%208%3A36&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">John 8:36</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20corinthians%205%3A17&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2 Corinthians 5:17</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-a05f826" data-block-id="a05f826"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-0809ce5" data-block-id="0809ce5"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-78fda91" data-block-id="78fda91"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-14fefee" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="14fefee"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-6577fee" data-block-id="6577fee"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><a href="https://www.hosannawong.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Hosanna Wong</a> is an international speaker, best-selling author, and spoken word artist helping everyday people know Jesus for real. Widely known for her spoken-word piece, “<a href="https://youtu.be/0A_uXO3CgwY?si=z2mzioD9DaHrPeKZ" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">I Have A New Name</a>,” Hosanna shares her message in churches, conferences, prisons, and other events around the world, reaching across various denominations, backgrounds, and cultures. Born and raised in an urban ministry on the streets of San Francisco, Hosanna later packed her life into suitcases and traveled to churches and other ministries throughout the United States to share about Jesus through spoken word poetry. Hosanna currently travels and speaks year-round, serving on teaching teams at churches throughout the United States. She and her husband, Guy, serve together in various ministries equipping people with tools to share the gospel of Jesus in today’s world. Hosanna is the best-selling author of <a href="https://amzn.to/4igSuOa" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>How (Not) to Save the World</em></a>, <a href="https://amzn.to/48ccCw5" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>You Are More Than You’ve Been Told</em></a>, and her new book, <a href="https://amzn.to/4o75lnm" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>What God Says About You</em></a>, is her first children’s book.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-fc325d7" data-block-id="fc325d7"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignfull stk-block-hero stk-block stk-z54l93z stk-block-background is-style-horizontal" data-v="2" data-block-id="z54l93z"><style>.stk-z54l93z-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-z54l93z {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px 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stk-image--shape-stretch"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-61573" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png" width="1080" height="1080" alt="overwhelmed mom" title="Teaching Kids Their True Identity in Christ with Hosanna Wong | Ep. 275 6" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png 1080w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-300x300.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-150x150.png 150w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-768x768.png 768w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px" /></span></figure></div> </div></div></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-usv7cdf" data-v="4" data-block-id="usv7cdf"><style>.stk-usv7cdf {align-self:center !important;}.stk-usv7cdf-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-usv7cdf-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="has-text-align-left stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-usv7cdf-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-p3ji1vs" id="transform-hurtful-words-into-life-changing-lessons" data-block-id="p3ji1vs"><style>.stk-p3ji1vs .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color stk-block-heading--use-theme-margins">Transform hurtful words into life-changing lessons</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-q8mo613" data-block-id="q8mo613"><style>.stk-q8mo613 {margin-bottom:12px !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text">When harsh words hurt your child, what do you say?</p></div> <p>This mini-course gives you practical tools to turn these everyday moments into powerful opportunities for spiritual and relational growth. Your kids will learn to discard hurtful lies, discern helpful truth, and anchor themselves in God&#8217;s love when things get hard.</p> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-g4nchr6" data-block-id="g4nchr6"><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button has-text-align-center stk-block stk-qxds8un" data-block-id="qxds8un"><style>.stk-qxds8un , .stk-qxds8un .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-qxds8un {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-qxds8un .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;border-top-left-radius:13px !important;border-top-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:13px !important;}.stk-qxds8un .stk-button:before{border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-qxds8un .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-qxds8un .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:#c24827 !important;}.stk-qxds8un .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-qxds8un .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt"><span class="stk-button__inner-text">LEARN MORE</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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26 MIN
Handling Criticism In A God Honoring Way: A Game-Changing Tool
NOV 17, 2025
Handling Criticism In A God Honoring Way: A Game-Changing Tool
<figure class="wp-block-image aligncenter size-large"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-274-TTT-Katrina-1-1024x536.png" alt="Handling criticism" class="wp-image-62229" title="Handling Criticism In A God Honoring Way: A Game-Changing Tool | Ep. 274 7" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-274-TTT-Katrina-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-274-TTT-Katrina-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-274-TTT-Katrina-1-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-274-TTT-Katrina-1.png 1200w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-55017ee" data-block-id="55017ee"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Join Stacy Bellward and Lynne Jackson as they chat with Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Kartina Baros about using the &#8220;Trash, Truth, or Treasure&#8221; tool to help kids process hurtful words and build skills for handling criticism. Katrina shares how she turned this concept into a fun basket-shooting game with her four boys, making it their family&#8217;s common language for evaluating words they hear and speak. This conversation highlights how asking thoughtful questions and modeling vulnerability helps kids transform harsh statements into grace-filled responses.</p></div> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/handling-criticism-in-a-god-honoring-way-a/id1464953082?i=1000737046827"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-60e4642" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="60e4642"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Hear how Katrina used basketball to teach Trash, Truth, Treasure, with no lectures, just fun!</li> <li>Teaching kids to find the kernel of truth in criticism, without shame, builds humility and resilience.</li> <li>Discover how this tool gives kids an instant filter to process what they hear and choose what they believe.</li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-bb7e86b" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="bb7e86b"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt/?_gl=1*9kkipf*_gcl_au*MTMyNzUzMjkxMy4xNzU1NzkzMTYzLjE5MjM0NTA4MDguMTc2MTI0OTkzNC4xNzYxMjQ5OTM0*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjI0NDg0MTEkbzIwMiRnMSR0MTc2MjQ0ODU2OCRqNTgkbDAkaDgyMjQ4OTc5MA..">Mean Words Hurt! Are they Trash, Truth, or Treasure? Online Mini Course</a></li> <li><a href="https://connected-families.kit.com/69b715fd7b" target="_blank" rel="noopener">FREE Download: Trash, Truth, &amp; Treasure</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%203%3A17&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Proverbs 3:17</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/table/">Connected Families Monthly Giving Program &#8211; The Table</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-74cf9bd" data-block-id="74cf9bd"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-cf9ec2b" data-block-id="cf9ec2b"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-8c450f2" data-block-id="8c450f2"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-a728723" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="a728723"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-da09b9f" data-block-id="da09b9f"><p class="stk-block-text__text">As a mom of four boys, <a href="https://katrinabaros.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Katrina Baros</a> discovered the transformative power of grace-based parenting through her own coaching journey. Now, as a certified Connected Families parent coach with 13 years of parenting experience and a degree in early and elementary childhood education, she helps families shift from behavior modification to heart transformation. She walks alongside parents through their challenges, pointing them toward the grace that changes everything.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c51f43f" data-block-id="c51f43f"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignfull stk-block-hero stk-block stk-oh2gy4a stk-block-background is-style-horizontal" data-v="2" data-block-id="oh2gy4a"><style>.stk-oh2gy4a-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-oh2gy4a {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-oh2gy4a:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-oh2gy4a-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-6, #e4eff5) !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-oh2gy4a-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-6, #e4eff5) !important;}.stk-oh2gy4a .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-oh2gy4a-column alignfull stk-container stk-oh2gy4a-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks has-text-align-center stk--column-flex stk-oh2gy4a-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-columns alignfull stk-block-columns stk-block stk-s4ymjwz" data-block-id="s4ymjwz"><style>.stk-s4ymjwz {margin-bottom:0px !important;}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-s4ymjwz-column alignfull"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-w6wrdza" data-v="4" data-block-id="w6wrdza"><style>.stk-w6wrdza-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-w6wrdza-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-w6wrdza-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-7drz0vl" data-block-id="7drz0vl"><style>.stk-7drz0vl .stk-img-wrapper{aspect-ratio:1/1 !important;width:95% !important;height:auto !important;}.stk-7drz0vl .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-7drz0vl .stk-img-wrapper{height:auto !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-7drz0vl .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}}</style><figure><span class="stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-61573" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png" width="1080" height="1080" alt="overwhelmed mom" title="Handling Criticism In A God Honoring Way: A Game-Changing Tool | Ep. 274 8" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png 1080w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-300x300.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-150x150.png 150w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-768x768.png 768w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px" /></span></figure></div> </div></div></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-2xwcg3v" data-v="4" data-block-id="2xwcg3v"><style>.stk-2xwcg3v {align-self:center !important;}.stk-2xwcg3v-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-2xwcg3v-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="has-text-align-left stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-2xwcg3v-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-e40ohmh" id="transform-hurtful-words-into-life-changing-lessons" data-block-id="e40ohmh"><style>.stk-e40ohmh .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color stk-block-heading--use-theme-margins">Transform hurtful words into life-changing lessons</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-muw0301" data-block-id="muw0301"><style>.stk-muw0301 {margin-bottom:12px !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text">When harsh words hurt your child, what do you say?</p></div> <p>This mini-course gives you practical tools to turn these everyday moments into powerful opportunities for spiritual and relational growth. Your kids will learn to discard hurtful lies, discern helpful truth, and anchor themselves in God&#8217;s love when things get hard.</p> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-tcoh160" data-block-id="tcoh160"><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button has-text-align-center stk-block stk-q9htw6o" data-block-id="q9htw6o"><style>.stk-q9htw6o , .stk-q9htw6o .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-q9htw6o {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-q9htw6o .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;border-top-left-radius:13px !important;border-top-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:13px !important;}.stk-q9htw6o .stk-button:before{border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-q9htw6o .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-q9htw6o .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:#c24827 !important;}.stk-q9htw6o .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-q9htw6o .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt"><span class="stk-button__inner-text">LEARN MORE</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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Teaching Kids to Deal with Mean Words and Hurtful Comments
NOV 10, 2025
Teaching Kids to Deal with Mean Words and Hurtful Comments
<figure class="wp-block-image aligncenter size-large"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-273-TTT-Vicky-and-Marlee-1-1024x536.png" alt="Deal with mean words" class="wp-image-62124" title="Teaching Kids to Deal with Mean Words and Hurtful Comments | Ep. 273 9" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-273-TTT-Vicky-and-Marlee-1-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-273-TTT-Vicky-and-Marlee-1-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-273-TTT-Vicky-and-Marlee-1-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-273-TTT-Vicky-and-Marlee-1.png 1200w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-5825da4" data-block-id="5825da4"><p class="stk-block-text__text">When your child hears something unkind, those words can stick: shaping how they see themselves and the world around them.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-9c08327" data-block-id="9c08327"><p class="stk-block-text__text">In this episode, we&#8217;re launching a three-part series on a simple but powerful Connected Families tool: <strong>Trash, Truth, &amp; Treasure</strong>. This tool helps kids (and adults!) deal with mean words, hurtful thoughts, anger, and anxiety by rooting their identity in God&#8217;s truth rather than the lies they hear.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-1cec75b" data-block-id="1cec75b"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Join Connected Families Co-Founder Lynne Jackson, along with therapists and Certified Parent Coaches Vicky Wieben and Marlee Thomsen, as they share the story behind this tool and offer practical ways to use it in your everyday life.</p></div> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/teaching-kids-to-deal-with-mean-words-and-hurtful-comments/id1464953082?i=1000736048070"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-e0597af" id="key-takeaways" data-block-id="e0597af"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Takeaways:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>How a simple Bible verse about &#8220;fluttering sparrows&#8221; became a framework helping thousands of families combat lies and anxiety</li> <li>Why brain science and biblical truth work together to help kids discern what&#8217;s true</li> <li>Practical ways to teach your child to recognize Hurtful Trash, Helpful Truth, and Heart-Filling Treasure</li> <li>Real stories from counselors using this tool with families every day</li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-63074f4" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="63074f4"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt/?_gl=1*9kkipf*_gcl_au*MTMyNzUzMjkxMy4xNzU1NzkzMTYzLjE5MjM0NTA4MDguMTc2MTI0OTkzNC4xNzYxMjQ5OTM0*_ga*MTI0ODIwOTI1MC4xNzQ3NjgyMzg3*_ga_0DHR2MLFYS*czE3NjI0NDg0MTEkbzIwMiRnMSR0MTc2MjQ0ODU2OCRqNTgkbDAkaDgyMjQ4OTc5MA..">Mean Words Hurt! Are they Trash, Truth, or Treasure? Online Mini Course</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%2026%3A2&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Proverbs 26:2</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=james%203%3A17&amp;version=NIV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">James 3:17</a></li> <li><a href="https://connected-families.kit.com/69b715fd7b" target="_blank" rel="noopener">FREE PDF Download: Trash, Truth, &amp; Treasure</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-3fb9dc4" data-block-id="3fb9dc4"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-4add671" data-block-id="4add671"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-b6c8244" data-block-id="b6c8244"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-67b9899" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="67b9899"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-f7169a4" data-block-id="f7169a4"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><strong>Marlee Thomsen </strong>&#8211; Marlee Thomsen is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach at Cornerstone Counseling and Wellness. She specializes in helping children, adolescents, and adults navigate anxiety and other disorders. She uses a variety of therapies and other evidence-based approaches. Marlee is passionate about involving parents in their child&#8217;s healing journey and offers parenting support using the Connected Families Framework to equip families for lasting transformation. Connect with Marlee <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/coaches/cornerstone-counseling-and-wellness/">here</a>. </p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-134e70c" data-block-id="134e70c"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><strong>Vicky Wieben</strong> &#8211; Vicky Wieben is a Licensed Independent Social Worker, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor, and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach who brings 20 years of social services experience to her work with children, adolescents, and families. She co-founded Bright Light Counseling with her husband Matt in 2020, where she uses a compassionate, holistic approach that incorporates multiple therapies. When she&#8217;s not in the therapy office, Vicky enjoys spending time with her husband and two young children, reading, and connecting with nature. Connect with Vicky on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/wiebenblc" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Facebook</a>.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c475d13" data-block-id="c475d13"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/> <div class="wp-block-stackable-hero alignfull stk-block-hero stk-block stk-segr5i3 stk-block-background is-style-horizontal" data-v="2" data-block-id="segr5i3"><style>.stk-segr5i3-inner-blocks{justify-content:center !important;}.stk-segr5i3 {background-color:#FFFFFF !important;padding-top:0px !important;padding-right:0px !important;padding-bottom:0px !important;padding-left:0px !important;}.stk-segr5i3:before{background-color:#FFFFFF !important;}.stk-segr5i3-container{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-6, #e4eff5) !important;box-shadow:0px 2px 20px 0px #1e3f5233 !important;}.stk-segr5i3-container:before{background-color:var(--theme-palette-color-6, #e4eff5) !important;}.stk-segr5i3 .stk-block-hero__content{min-height:500px !important;}</style><div class="stk-block-hero__content stk-content-align stk-segr5i3-column alignfull stk-container stk-segr5i3-container stk-hover-parent"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks has-text-align-center stk--column-flex stk-segr5i3-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-columns alignfull stk-block-columns stk-block stk-lzmcnjg" data-block-id="lzmcnjg"><style>.stk-lzmcnjg {margin-bottom:0px !important;}</style><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-content-align stk-lzmcnjg-column alignfull"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-nhx5if4" data-v="4" data-block-id="nhx5if4"><style>.stk-nhx5if4-container{margin-top:0px !important;margin-right:0px !important;margin-bottom:0px !important;margin-left:0px !important;}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-nhx5if4-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-nhx5if4-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-image stk-block-image stk-block stk-x6xu7ir" data-block-id="x6xu7ir"><style>.stk-x6xu7ir .stk-img-wrapper{aspect-ratio:1/1 !important;width:95% !important;height:auto !important;}.stk-x6xu7ir .stk-img-wrapper img{object-position:20% 44% !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-x6xu7ir .stk-img-wrapper{height:auto !important;}}@media screen and (max-width:689px){.stk-x6xu7ir .stk-img-wrapper{height:300px !important;}}</style><figure><span class="stk-img-wrapper stk-image--shape-stretch"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="stk-img wp-image-61573" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png" width="1080" height="1080" alt="overwhelmed mom" title="Teaching Kids to Deal with Mean Words and Hurtful Comments | Ep. 273 10" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail.png 1080w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-300x300.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-1024x1024.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-150x150.png 150w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Mean-Words-Hurt-Thumbnail-768x768.png 768w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px" /></span></figure></div> </div></div></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-column stk-block-column stk-column stk-block stk-q3y1jlq" data-v="4" data-block-id="q3y1jlq"><style>.stk-q3y1jlq {align-self:center !important;}.stk-q3y1jlq-container{max-width:450px !important;min-width:auto !important;}</style><div class="stk-column-wrapper stk-block-column__content stk-container stk-q3y1jlq-container stk--no-background stk--no-padding"><div class="has-text-align-left stk-block-content stk-inner-blocks stk-q3y1jlq-inner-blocks"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-1uivaq0" id="transform-hurtful-words-into-life-changing-lessons" data-block-id="1uivaq0"><style>.stk-1uivaq0 .stk-block-heading__text{color:var(--theme-palette-color-4, #1e3f52) !important;}</style><h2 class="stk-block-heading__text has-text-color stk-block-heading--use-theme-margins">Transform hurtful words into life-changing lessons</h2></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-rew5y04" data-block-id="rew5y04"><style>.stk-rew5y04 {margin-bottom:12px !important;}</style><p class="stk-block-text__text">When harsh words hurt your child, what do you say?</p></div> <p>This mini-course gives you practical tools to turn these everyday moments into powerful opportunities for spiritual and relational growth. Your kids will learn to discard hurtful lies, discern helpful truth, and anchor themselves in God&#8217;s love when things get hard.</p> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button-group stk-block-button-group stk-block stk-uq84ptn" data-block-id="uq84ptn"><div class="stk-row stk-inner-blocks stk-block-content stk-button-group"> <div class="wp-block-stackable-button stk-block-button has-text-align-center stk-block stk-eibcjko" data-block-id="eibcjko"><style>.stk-eibcjko , .stk-eibcjko .stk-button{width:100% !important;}.stk-eibcjko {flex:1 0 var(--stk-button-group-flex-wrap, 0) !important;}.stk-eibcjko .stk-button{min-height:0px !important;padding-top:9px !important;padding-right:9px !important;padding-bottom:9px !important;padding-left:9px !important;background:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;border-top-left-radius:13px !important;border-top-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-right-radius:13px !important;border-bottom-left-radius:13px !important;}.stk-eibcjko .stk-button:before{border-color:var(--theme-palette-color-1, #ee6c4d) !important;}.stk-eibcjko .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child, .stk-eibcjko .stk-button .stk--inner-svg svg:last-child :is(g, path, rect, polygon, ellipse){fill:#c24827 !important;}.stk-eibcjko .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;font-weight:600 !important;}@media screen and (max-width:999px){.stk-eibcjko .stk-button__inner-text{font-size:21px !important;}}</style><a class="stk-link stk-button stk--hover-effect-darken" href="https://community.connectedfamilies.org/product/mean-words-hurt"><span class="stk-button__inner-text">LEARN MORE</span></a></div> </div></div> </div></div></div> </div></div> </div></div></div>
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Parenting Adopted Children: Building Safety and Connection After Trauma
NOV 3, 2025
Parenting Adopted Children: Building Safety and Connection After Trauma
<figure class="wp-block-image aligncenter size-large"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="1024" height="536" src="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-272-Parenting-adopted-kids-2-1024x536.png" alt="Ep 272 Parenting adopted kids 2" class="wp-image-61898" title="Parenting Adopted Children: Building Connection After Trauma | Ep. 272 11" srcset="https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-272-Parenting-adopted-kids-2-1024x536.png 1024w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-272-Parenting-adopted-kids-2-300x157.png 300w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-272-Parenting-adopted-kids-2-768x402.png 768w, https://connectedfamilies.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/Ep-272-Parenting-adopted-kids-2.png 1200w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></figure> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-0974945" data-block-id="0974945"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><strong>Welcome back to our usual podcast rhythm, listeners!</strong> November is National Adoption Month, and many Connected Families listeners have grown their families through adoption and foster care. Adoption often brings unique parenting challenges that prompt families to seek creative, compassionate solutions.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c0fb3bd" data-block-id="c0fb3bd"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Many adoptive and foster families have discovered that the Connected Families Framework provides exactly what they need to cultivate Christ-like love and deep connection in their homes. The Framework&#8217;s emphasis on helping parents grow in self-awareness while responding to their children&#8217;s needs with grace and truth has proven especially valuable for families navigating the complexities of adoption.</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c8b8126" data-block-id="c8b8126"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Join host Stacy Bellward as she chats with Cindy Wilson, Ministry Partnership &amp; Research Program Manager at Connected Families, and Sara Wilson Worley from <a href="https://lifelinechild.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Lifeline Children&#8217;s Services</a> about adoption, faith, and building Connected Families.</p></div> <iframe allow="autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write" frameborder="0" height="175" style="width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;border-radius:10px;" sandbox="allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation" src="https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-adopted-children-building-safety-and/id1464953082?i=1000734988219"></iframe> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-fb16249" id="key-points" data-block-id="fb16249"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Key Points:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Adopted/foster children&#8217;s brains are wired for hypervigilance due to early trauma</li> <li>Building attachment can take 1-2 years minimum</li> <li>Connected Families Framework helps us respond with confidence, even when we can&#8217;t pinpoint the exact cause of behaviors</li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-0bbf428" id="mentioned-in-this-podcast" data-block-id="0bbf428"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Mentioned in this Podcast:</h3></div> <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/game-changing-family-ministry-ideas/">Ep. 242 | Game-Changing Family Ministry Ideas for Churches of Any Size</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/how-to-help-your-angry-child/">Ep. 244 |What Works When “Calm Down!” Doesn’t: How to Help Your Angry Child</a></li> <li><a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/partnerships/">Connected Families Partnership Program</a></li> </ul> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-6e160f8" data-block-id="6e160f8"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Check out <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/">our website</a> for more resources to support your parenting!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-c91a0ca" data-block-id="c91a0ca"><p class="stk-block-text__text"><em>This podcast was made possible by members of <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at <a href="https://connectedfamilies.org/monthly-giving/">The Table</a>!</em></p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-73923ed" data-block-id="73923ed"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents discover the show!</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-heading stk-block-heading stk-block-heading--v2 stk-block stk-4495d7c" id="guest-bio" data-block-id="4495d7c"><h3 class="stk-block-heading__text">Guest Bio:</h3></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-7b1dea6" data-block-id="7b1dea6"><p class="stk-block-text__text">Sara Wilson Worley is originally from Florence, Alabama. She currently serves as the Regional Program Manager for the Asia Team at Lifeline Children’s Services. Sara attended the University of North Alabama and received her Bachelor’s in social work. She has two Master’s degrees in Church and Community Ministries and Social Work. Sara loves to read and has many hobbies (i.e., kayaking, antiquing, and watching soccer).</p></div> <div class="wp-block-stackable-text stk-block-text stk-block stk-91f6f91" data-block-id="91f6f91"><p class="stk-block-text__text">© 2025 Connected Families</p></div> <hr class="wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity"/>
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