Episode #29: What It Is Really Like to Move to Italy, Especially Milan
Moving to Milan from San Francisco is one thing. Doing it with a German Shepherd born in Tehran to enter a photography Master's degree program is another story entirely. Michael TenBrink spent 17 years in San Francisco before relocating to Milan in 2022 with his husband Andrew, an architect and polyglot who had been studying Italian for over 20 years. In this Dream of Italy Podcast Episode with Host Kathy McCabe, Michael walks through how a vision session with giant Post-it notes on the sliding glass doors of their Berkeley, CA home turned into a full commitment to move, why they originally planned to move to Verona and what redirected them to Milan, and how they found their apartment in the Isola neighborhood on the very first viewing, six months before they actually moved in. Michael offers an honest account of what living in Milan looks like day to day, from navigating healthcare through a hospitalization where he did not speak the language to spending three and a half years working toward an A1 Italian level despite classes, tutors and a year-long course through the city's Comune. He covers the air quality in the Po Valley, why he came to love Milan winters after years in California, and how joining a 70-person LGBT choir became his strategy for meeting people after his photography program ended. The conversation also covers their purchase of a lakeside apartment on the northeast shore of Lake Como, well past the crowds of Varenna and Bellagio, and how they reach it by direct train without a car. For those researching moving to Milan, buying property in northern Italy or wondering what it actually takes to ship a large dog to Europe, Michael's account covers the details most relocation content leaves out. Find show notes for this podcast episode at https://dreamofitaly.com/29