Gratitude is not a holiday mood; it’s a way of seeing that rewires what we value and how we give. We open with 2 Corinthians 9 to reframe resources as seeds, not trophies, and walk through the simple pattern that Jesus models again and again: give thanks, then act. That single move challenges the myth of scarcity and turns generosity into a predictable harvest. Along the way, we talk frankly about prayer—what it means to trust that the Father hears—and how the Spirit intercedes when words fail. From there we turn to the work of a renewed mind. Too often we carry the gifts of the Spirit like an old VCR blinking 12:00—present but unused. We explore how to learn the controls, practice new habits, and “robe” ourselves with mercy, humility, patience, and forgiveness until they feel natural. We name love as the true mark of maturity and describe how unity in Christ dismantles hierarchies built on status, nationality, education, or wealth. The measure is simple and searching: how we treat the least among us. The stories are the heart of this conversation. A grandmother thanking God for a car she’d just locked her keys inside reframes inconvenience into safety and faith for the children watching. A home that pulls doors off their hinges to make more tables becomes a living parable of abundance: when love is the host, there’s always room. We connect those moments to practical steps—setting aside resources to give, holding thankful thoughts long enough to change the brain, and building homes and churches that welcome without fear. If this speaks to you, share it with a friend and help us spread a grateful, generous way of life. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us where you’re making more room at your table this week.<a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282">Support the show</a>This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at <a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'>https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving</a> In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

<description>&lt;p&gt;Gratitude is not a holiday mood; it’s a way of seeing that rewires what we value and how we give. We open with 2 Corinthians 9 to reframe resources as seeds, not trophies, and walk through the simple pattern that Jesus models again and again: give thanks, then act. That single move challenges the myth of scarcity and turns generosity into a predictable harvest. Along the way, we talk frankly about prayer—what it means to trust that the Father hears—and how the Spirit intercedes when words fail.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;From there we turn to the work of a renewed mind. Too often we carry the gifts of the Spirit like an old VCR blinking 12:00—present but unused. We explore how to learn the controls, practice new habits, and “robe” ourselves with mercy, humility, patience, and forgiveness until they feel natural. We name love as the true mark of maturity and describe how unity in Christ dismantles hierarchies built on status, nationality, education, or wealth. The measure is simple and searching: how we treat the least among us.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The stories are the heart of this conversation. A grandmother thanking God for a car she’d just locked her keys inside reframes inconvenience into safety and faith for the children watching. A home that pulls doors off their hinges to make more tables becomes a living parable of abundance: when love is the host, there’s always room. We connect those moments to practical steps—setting aside resources to give, holding thankful thoughts long enough to change the brain, and building homes and churches that welcome without fear.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If this speaks to you, share it with a friend and help us spread a grateful, generous way of life. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us where you’re making more room at your table this week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282"&gt;Support the show&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at &lt;a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'&gt;https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In the service of LOVE,&lt;br/&gt;Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Gratitude is not a holiday mood; it’s a way of seeing that rewires what we value and how we give. We open with 2 Corinthians 9 to reframe resources as seeds, not trophies, and walk through the simple pattern that Jesus models again and again: give thanks, then act. That single move challenges the myth of scarcity and turns generosity into a predictable harvest. Along the way, we talk frankly about prayer—what it means to trust that the Father hears—and how the Spirit intercedes when words fai...

Thankfulness Shapes Our Minds, Our Money, And Our Mercy

What if love isn’t just a feeling but a frequency you can choose? We dive into a Spirit-led way of living where mercy displaces judgment, forgiveness breaks cycles of harm, and courage sets wise boundaries. Grounded in 1 John’s claim that God is love and Jesus’ teaching in Luke 6, we rethink what it means to be “blessed,” moving beyond applause and accumulation toward a life that is lighter, freer, and truer. We talk about consent to the Holy Spirit as the turning point—Mary’s yes as the pattern for our yes. From there, the hard commands of Jesus stop sounding impossible and start sounding like the only sane way to live: love your enemies, pray for those who mistreat you, give without keeping score, and refuse tit for tat. We share raw stories—the phone-drop flash of anger, the zipper-merge awakening, the parent on edge with a bored child—to show how the Golden Rule becomes real in the pressure of daily life. Mercy for all isn’t naivety; it’s spiritual maturity that protects dignity and refuses to weaponize strength against the vulnerable. Forgiveness here is not permission for abuse. We name the difference between releasing a debt and remaining in danger, and we explore how trauma lingers until we hand it to God and choose freedom. Along the way, simple graces steady us: rest, a meal, and the reminder that we’re not alone. The communion table holds that promise—there is enough, your sins are forgiven, and you can live a different story. If you’re hungry for a faith that heals, a community that includes, and a practice that actually changes people, this conversation will help you re-tune your life to love’s frequency. If this speaks to you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find the hope.<a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282">Support the show</a>This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at <a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'>https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving</a> In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

<description>&lt;p&gt;What if love isn’t just a feeling but a frequency you can choose? We dive into a Spirit-led way of living where mercy displaces judgment, forgiveness breaks cycles of harm, and courage sets wise boundaries. Grounded in 1 John’s claim that God is love and Jesus’ teaching in Luke 6, we rethink what it means to be “blessed,” moving beyond applause and accumulation toward a life that is lighter, freer, and truer.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We talk about consent to the Holy Spirit as the turning point—Mary’s yes as the pattern for our yes. From there, the hard commands of Jesus stop sounding impossible and start sounding like the only sane way to live: love your enemies, pray for those who mistreat you, give without keeping score, and refuse tit for tat. We share raw stories—the phone-drop flash of anger, the zipper-merge awakening, the parent on edge with a bored child—to show how the Golden Rule becomes real in the pressure of daily life. Mercy for all isn’t naivety; it’s spiritual maturity that protects dignity and refuses to weaponize strength against the vulnerable.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Forgiveness here is not permission for abuse. We name the difference between releasing a debt and remaining in danger, and we explore how trauma lingers until we hand it to God and choose freedom. Along the way, simple graces steady us: rest, a meal, and the reminder that we’re not alone. The communion table holds that promise—there is enough, your sins are forgiven, and you can live a different story. If you’re hungry for a faith that heals, a community that includes, and a practice that actually changes people, this conversation will help you re-tune your life to love’s frequency.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If this speaks to you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find the hope.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282"&gt;Support the show&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at &lt;a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'&gt;https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In the service of LOVE,&lt;br/&gt;Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What if love isn’t just a feeling but a frequency you can choose? We dive into a Spirit-led way of living where mercy displaces judgment, forgiveness breaks cycles of harm, and courage sets wise boundaries. Grounded in 1 John’s claim that God is love and Jesus’ teaching in Luke 6, we rethink what it means to be “blessed,” moving beyond applause and accumulation toward a life that is lighter, freer, and truer.  We talk about consent to the Holy Spirit as the turning point—Mary’s yes as the pat...

Love Is The Frequency

What if the prayer God always answers is the simplest one: “Be merciful to me”? We take a fresh look at Luke 18’s Pharisee and tax collector and discover a bigger, braver reading of mercy—one that refuses the lie of spiritual scorekeeping and invites us to live free from the need to earn love. We start by slowing down. As the season turns toward longer nights, we trade the tyranny of the clock for the attentiveness of the Spirit. That shift reframes everything: fasting and tithing become practices of humility, not proof of superiority; prayer becomes communion, not performance. From there, we press into the scandal of grace. The Pharisee’s devotion is real. The tax collector’s harm is real. And yet mercy meets both, not because they’ve balanced the ledger, but because love moves first. It’s the same shock in the story of the prodigal and the older brother—offensive generosity that pulls us into a party we didn’t plan. Forgiveness, though, is not denial. We name harm clearly, leave unsafe spaces, and get help when trauma sticks. A simple practice—letting some memories pass like white lines on the road—teaches us to stop feeding what doesn’t need to define us. When deeper wounds surface, therapy and the Holy Spirit work well together. Throughout, we return to surrender: choosing release over resentment, mercy over contempt, presence over hurry. And we ground it in action—stopping for the small needs in front of us, practicing interruptible love, and training our hearts to be ready to forgive. If this conversation stirred something in you, share it with a friend, subscribe for more, and leave a review so others can find it. Your words help us spread mercy’s good news.<a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282">Support the show</a>This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at <a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'>https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving</a> In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

<description>&lt;p&gt;What if the prayer God always answers is the simplest one: “Be merciful to me”? We take a fresh look at Luke 18’s Pharisee and tax collector and discover a bigger, braver reading of mercy—one that refuses the lie of spiritual scorekeeping and invites us to live free from the need to earn love.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We start by slowing down. As the season turns toward longer nights, we trade the tyranny of the clock for the attentiveness of the Spirit. That shift reframes everything: fasting and tithing become practices of humility, not proof of superiority; prayer becomes communion, not performance. From there, we press into the scandal of grace. The Pharisee’s devotion is real. The tax collector’s harm is real. And yet mercy meets both, not because they’ve balanced the ledger, but because love moves first. It’s the same shock in the story of the prodigal and the older brother—offensive generosity that pulls us into a party we didn’t plan.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Forgiveness, though, is not denial. We name harm clearly, leave unsafe spaces, and get help when trauma sticks. A simple practice—letting some memories pass like white lines on the road—teaches us to stop feeding what doesn’t need to define us. When deeper wounds surface, therapy and the Holy Spirit work well together. Throughout, we return to surrender: choosing release over resentment, mercy over contempt, presence over hurry. And we ground it in action—stopping for the small needs in front of us, practicing interruptible love, and training our hearts to be ready to forgive.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If this conversation stirred something in you, share it with a friend, subscribe for more, and leave a review so others can find it. Your words help us spread mercy’s good news.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282"&gt;Support the show&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at &lt;a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'&gt;https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In the service of LOVE,&lt;br/&gt;Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What if the prayer God always answers is the simplest one: “Be merciful to me”? We take a fresh look at Luke 18’s Pharisee and tax collector and discover a bigger, braver reading of mercy—one that refuses the lie of spiritual scorekeeping and invites us to live free from the need to earn love.  We start by slowing down. As the season turns toward longer nights, we trade the tyranny of the clock for the attentiveness of the Spirit. That shift reframes everything: fasting and tithing become pra...

Two Prayers, One Merciful God

<a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282">Support the show</a>This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at <a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'>https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving</a> In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282"&gt;Support the show&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at &lt;a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'&gt;https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In the service of LOVE,&lt;br/&gt;Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Support the show This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving  In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake 

Guided Prayer- Your Sacred Choice

What if most of our daily conflict could be diffused by one hard choice: dropping judgment and choosing forgiveness? We open with Jesus’s words from Matthew 7 and move into the real places where accusation takes root—traffic, politics, and even the kitchen sink at home. The challenge is blunt and freeing: the measure you use will be used on you. Lay down the habit of judging, and you’ll recover the clarity to see your own blind spots and the courage to forgive. From there we lean into a better operating system: life in the Spirit. Jesus didn’t leave a rulebook; he promised his Spirit. We talk about prayer that listens as much as it asks, how silence becomes a doorway to guidance, and why hope matters when change feels slow. The persistent widow reframes perseverance, not as nagging a reluctant God but as staying focused on the only One who can help. Justice, in Jesus’s vision, looks like mercy embodied and cruelty rejected—and it arrives with the outpouring of the Holy Spirit. We also wrestle with the tension between zeal and doctrine. Tithing and study matter, but not at the expense of the weightier matters: justice, mercy, and faith. A vivid story shows how stubborn love can turn outrage into connection, revealing a revolution that doesn’t wait on better leaders or systems. It starts with us, at the table and in our neighborhoods, where communion trains us to be known by love. If God is love, then our faithfulness is measured by how we love our enemies, our neighbors, and ourselves. Listen for practical ways to forgive quickly, pray with attention, and act justly without cruelty. Share this with someone who needs hope today, and if it speaks to you, subscribe, leave a review, and pass it on so others can find their way home to love.<a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282">Support the show</a>This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at <a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'>https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving</a> In the service of LOVE, Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake

<description>&lt;p&gt;What if most of our daily conflict could be diffused by one hard choice: dropping judgment and choosing forgiveness? We open with Jesus’s words from Matthew 7 and move into the real places where accusation takes root—traffic, politics, and even the kitchen sink at home. The challenge is blunt and freeing: the measure you use will be used on you. Lay down the habit of judging, and you’ll recover the clarity to see your own blind spots and the courage to forgive.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;From there we lean into a better operating system: life in the Spirit. Jesus didn’t leave a rulebook; he promised his Spirit. We talk about prayer that listens as much as it asks, how silence becomes a doorway to guidance, and why hope matters when change feels slow. The persistent widow reframes perseverance, not as nagging a reluctant God but as staying focused on the only One who can help. Justice, in Jesus’s vision, looks like mercy embodied and cruelty rejected—and it arrives with the outpouring of the Holy Spirit.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We also wrestle with the tension between zeal and doctrine. Tithing and study matter, but not at the expense of the weightier matters: justice, mercy, and faith. A vivid story shows how stubborn love can turn outrage into connection, revealing a revolution that doesn’t wait on better leaders or systems. It starts with us, at the table and in our neighborhoods, where communion trains us to be known by love. If God is love, then our faithfulness is measured by how we love our enemies, our neighbors, and ourselves.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Listen for practical ways to forgive quickly, pray with attention, and act justly without cruelty. Share this with someone who needs hope today, and if it speaks to you, subscribe, leave a review, and pass it on so others can find their way home to love.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="payment" href="https://tithe.ly/give_new/www/#/tithely/give-one-time/825282"&gt;Support the show&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This podcast is made possible, thanks to the generosity of our donors. If you would like to support the ongoing work of First Love Church you can donate at &lt;a href='https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving'&gt;https://www.firstlovechurch.org/giving&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In the service of LOVE,&lt;br/&gt;Pastors Dennis and Heather Drake&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What if most of our daily conflict could be diffused by one hard choice: dropping judgment and choosing forgiveness? We open with Jesus’s words from Matthew 7 and move into the real places where accusation takes root—traffic, politics, and even the kitchen sink at home. The challenge is blunt and freeing: the measure you use will be used on you. Lay down the habit of judging, and you’ll recover the clarity to see your own blind spots and the courage to forgive.  From there we lean into a bett...

What Happens When We Stop Judging And Start Forgiving

These podcasts are messages that were preached at First Love Church in Ocala, Florida. We hope that you are encouraged and inspired by what you hear. We are a non denominational, egalitarian church that practices a generous orthodoxy. Find out more about our local congregation online at firstlovechurch.org. #firstlovechurchocala #firstlovechurch #ocalaflorida #egalitarian #Jesuschrist #jesus #nondenominational #pastor #spirituality #christian #eucharist #opentable #tableofthelord #communion #community #spirit #divine #femininedivine #creeds #orthodoxy #equality #welcome #followers #disciple #love #faith #hope #help #recovery #newlife #peopleofpresence #holy #holyspirit #sacred #Sophia #wisdom&nbsp;

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