In Episode 2 of the Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover, the youth advisory group continues their honest conversation about what life online really looks like — this time focusing on something every family has to navigate: boundaries and trust.Hosted again by Maria (15, Portadown), this episode features real discussions from Matylda, Theo, Ethan, Darragh, and youth worker Paula. Together, they explore what healthy online boundaries actually feel like from a young person’s perspective, and how parents can keep children safe without feeling overly strict or intrusive.The group talks openly about:<ul><li>When children should start learning about being online</li><li>Whether there should be age limits for phones, social media, and internet access</li><li>The role of parental controls — what helps and what feels like “too much”</li><li>How trust develops as young people grow</li><li>Why privacy becomes so important for teens</li><li>How parents and young people often see digital risks differently</li></ul>The result is a thoughtful, down-to-earth conversation that highlights the delicate balance every family tries to find: keeping young people safe while giving them space to grow, learn, and build independence.This episode is a practical, relatable listen for parents, carers, and professionals who want to better understand the realities of navigating online life together.

<description>&lt;p&gt;In Episode 2 of the &lt;b&gt;Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover&lt;/b&gt;, the youth advisory group continues their honest conversation about what life online really looks like — this time focusing on something every family has to navigate: &lt;b&gt;boundaries and trust&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hosted again by &lt;b&gt;Maria (15, Portadown)&lt;/b&gt;, this episode features real discussions from &lt;b&gt;Matylda, Theo, Ethan, Darragh&lt;/b&gt;, and youth worker &lt;b&gt;Paula&lt;/b&gt;. Together, they explore what healthy online boundaries actually feel like from a young person’s perspective, and how parents can keep children safe without feeling overly strict or intrusive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The group talks openly about:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;When children should start learning about being online&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Whether there should be age limits for phones, social media, and internet access&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The role of parental controls — what helps and what feels like “too much”&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How trust develops as young people grow&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why privacy becomes so important for teens&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How parents and young people often see digital risks differently&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;The result is a thoughtful, down-to-earth conversation that highlights the delicate balance every family tries to find: keeping young people safe while giving them space to grow, learn, and build independence.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is a practical, relatable listen for parents, carers, and professionals who want to better understand the realities of navigating online life &lt;em&gt;together&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In Episode 2 of the Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover, the youth advisory group continues their honest conversation about what life online really looks like — this time focusing on something every family has to navigate: boundaries and trust. Hosted again by Maria (15, Portadown), this episode features real discussions from Matylda, Theo, Ethan, Darragh, and youth worker Paula. Together, they explore what healthy online boundaries actually feel like from a young person’s perspective, and how parents ...

Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover: Ep 2 – Boundaries & Trust

This episode launches the Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover — a special three-part youth-led mini-series produced by Children in Northern Ireland (CiNI) in partnership with the NSPCC.Be Cyber Safe NI is a new advisory group of young people, aged 13–17, from across Northern Ireland. Working with CiNI and NSPCC, they explore issues like online privacy, harmful content, AI, and mental health, and share their views directly with parents, policymakers, and professionals.Through this takeover series, the group takes over the Parentline NI Podcast feed to share what life online really looks like from their side of the screen — honest, personal, and sometimes challenging conversations designed to help parents understand the digital world through young people’s eyes.In Episode 1 – “Speaking Up”, Maria (15, Portadown) hosts a conversation about why young people often find it difficult to tell parents when something goes wrong online. Featuring real conversations from Theo, Ethan, Matylda, Darragh, and youth worker Paula, the episode explores fear, embarrassment, and trust — and what actually helps when young people need support.It’s a thoughtful, down-to-earth discussion for parents, carers, and anyone who wants to build stronger communication around online life.

<description>&lt;p&gt;This episode launches the &lt;em&gt;Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover&lt;/em&gt; — a special three-part youth-led mini-series produced by &lt;b&gt;Children in Northern Ireland (CiNI)&lt;/b&gt; in partnership with the &lt;b&gt;NSPCC&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Be Cyber Safe NI is a new advisory group of young people, aged 13–17, from across Northern Ireland. Working with CiNI and NSPCC, they explore issues like online privacy, harmful content, AI, and mental health, and share their views directly with parents, policymakers, and professionals.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through this takeover series, the group takes over the &lt;b&gt;Parentline NI Podcast feed&lt;/b&gt; to share what life online really looks like from their side of the screen — honest, personal, and sometimes challenging conversations designed to help parents understand the digital world through young people’s eyes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In &lt;b&gt;Episode 1 – “Speaking Up”&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Maria&lt;/b&gt; (15, Portadown) hosts a conversation about why young people often find it difficult to tell parents when something goes wrong online.&lt;br/&gt; Featuring real conversations from &lt;b&gt;Theo, Ethan, Matylda, Darragh&lt;/b&gt;, and youth worker &lt;b&gt;Paula&lt;/b&gt;, the episode explores fear, embarrassment, and trust — and what actually helps when young people need support.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s a thoughtful, down-to-earth discussion for parents, carers, and anyone who wants to build stronger communication around online life.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

This episode launches the Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover — a special three-part youth-led mini-series produced by Children in Northern Ireland (CiNI) in partnership with the NSPCC. Be Cyber Safe NI is a new advisory group of young people, aged 13–17, from across Northern Ireland. Working with CiNI and NSPCC, they explore issues like online privacy, harmful content, AI, and mental health, and share their views directly with parents, policymakers, and professionals. Through this takeover series, the...

Be Cyber Safe NI Takeover: Ep 1 – Speaking Up

Smartphones are becoming part of children’s lives earlier than ever — and for many parents, it’s not an easy decision to make.  From staying in touch to keeping up with peers, there’s a lot to weigh up when thinking about the right time to hand over a phone.In this episode of the Parentline Podcast, we explore how families and schools are navigating these decisions — and what support is out there for parents trying to find the right balance between connection and protection.You’ll hear from three guests with unique perspectives:<ul><li>Rosalind McLean, from Smartphone Free Childhood – Northern Ireland, explains why so many parents feel stuck between peer pressure and their instincts — and how the movement is helping families delay smartphones with confidence and community.</li><li>Craig Johnson, Vice Principal at Lisneal College, shares how a phone-free school policy has changed student life and why their approach has had strong support from both parents and pupils.</li><li>Wayne Denner, online safety expert and parent, offers practical tools for setting boundaries at home and explains why families don’t need to be tech experts to manage smartphone use well.</li></ul>We explore:<ul><li>How smartphones are becoming more common in primary school — and the questions that raises for families</li><li>Concerns around screen time, online content, and social media</li><li>Ways to set age-appropriate boundaries around tech at home</li><li>What schools can do to support digital downtime</li><li>Alternatives to smartphones that still help children stay connected safely</li></ul>Whether your child already has a phone or you&apos;re still deciding, this episode offers calm, practical advice and real-world stories to help you make informed choices.📲 Links &amp; Resources:<ul><li><a href='https://www.smartphonefreechildhood.co.uk/'>Smartphone Free Childhood – Northern Ireland</a></li><li><a href='https://www.waynedenner.com/'>Wayne Denner – Online Safety &amp; Digital Wellbeing</a></li><li><a href='https://www.lisnealcollege.com/'>Lisneal College</a></li><li>Parentline NI: Free, confidential support for any parenting concern — call 0808 8020 400 or visit <a href='https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/'>https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/</a></li></ul>🔖 Tags:#ParentlinePodcast #SmartphonesAndChildhood #SmartphoneFreeChildhoodNI #DigitalParenting #OnlineSafety #WayneDenner #LisnealCollege #ParentingSupport #KidsAndScreens

<description>&lt;p&gt;Smartphones are becoming part of children’s lives earlier than ever — and for many parents, it’s not an easy decision to make.&lt;br/&gt; From staying in touch to keeping up with peers, there’s a lot to weigh up when thinking about the right time to hand over a phone.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode of the &lt;b&gt;Parentline Podcast&lt;/b&gt;, we explore how families and schools are navigating these decisions — and what support is out there for parents trying to find the right balance between connection and protection.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You’ll hear from three guests with unique perspectives:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Rosalind McLean&lt;/b&gt;, from &lt;em&gt;Smartphone Free Childhood – Northern Ireland&lt;/em&gt;, explains why so many parents feel stuck between peer pressure and their instincts — and how the movement is helping families delay smartphones with confidence and community.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Craig Johnson&lt;/b&gt;, Vice Principal at &lt;em&gt;Lisneal College&lt;/em&gt;, shares how a phone-free school policy has changed student life and why their approach has had strong support from both parents and pupils.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Wayne Denner&lt;/b&gt;, online safety expert and parent, offers practical tools for setting boundaries at home and explains why families don’t need to be tech experts to manage smartphone use well.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;We explore:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;How smartphones are becoming more common in primary school — and the questions that raises for families&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Concerns around screen time, online content, and social media&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ways to set age-appropriate boundaries around tech at home&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What schools can do to support digital downtime&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Alternatives to smartphones that still help children stay connected safely&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whether your child already has a phone or you&amp;apos;re still deciding, this episode offers calm, practical advice and real-world stories to help you make informed choices.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;📲 &lt;b&gt;Links &amp;amp; Resources:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.smartphonefreechildhood.co.uk/'&gt;Smartphone Free Childhood – Northern Ireland&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.waynedenner.com/'&gt;Wayne Denner – Online Safety &amp;amp; Digital Wellbeing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.lisnealcollege.com/'&gt;Lisneal College&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Parentline NI&lt;/b&gt;: Free, confidential support for any parenting concern — call 0808 8020 400 or visit &lt;a href='https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/'&gt;https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;🔖 &lt;b&gt;Tags:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#ParentlinePodcast #SmartphonesAndChildhood #SmartphoneFreeChildhoodNI #DigitalParenting #OnlineSafety #WayneDenner #LisnealCollege #ParentingSupport #KidsAndScreens&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Smartphones are becoming part of children’s lives earlier than ever — and for many parents, it’s not an easy decision to make.  From staying in touch to keeping up with peers, there’s a lot to weigh up when thinking about the right time to hand over a phone. In this episode of the Parentline Podcast, we explore how families and schools are navigating these decisions — and what support is out there for parents trying to find the right balance between connection and protection. You’ll hear...

Smartphones & Childhood — Striking the Balance

In this deeply insightful episode of the Parentline podcast, host Kerry McLean is joined by Tanya Strowger, a mother of three and counsellor at <a href='https://www.jigsawccc.co.uk/'>Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre</a>, and Rebecca McCullough from <a href='https://www.edenconsultancyni.com/'>Eden Consultancy NI</a>. Together, they explore what it’s like to support neurodiverse children—particularly autistic children—through life’s big transitions, including school changes, holidays, family events, and everyday routines.Tanya shares the powerful story of her son Silas, his early signs of autism, the diagnostic journey, and how their family has adapted to meet his needs at home, in school, and out in the world. From sensory challenges and visual schedules to social scripting and emotional regulation, her lived experience offers empathy and practical guidance.Rebecca adds her expertise in neuro-affirming practice, offering thoughtful, real-world strategies to make transitions smoother, support emotional wellbeing, and embrace the child’s unique way of experiencing the world. Whether it’s navigating the school day, Christmas traditions, or going on holiday, this episode is packed with compassion, insight, and useful takeaways for any parent or professional.In this episode, we explore:<ul><li>Recognising early signs of neurodivergence and making sense of a diagnosis</li><li>Why small changes (like Sports Day or a different teacher) can be just as hard as big life events</li><li>Using visual aids, timers, and exit strategies to reduce anxiety</li><li>Preparing for transitions: from holidays and school changes to daily routines</li><li>Helping neurodiverse children manage emotions, especially during moments of overwhelm</li><li>Letting go of expectations and embracing what brings your child real happiness</li></ul>Memorable Moments:<blockquote>“Ditch all expectation and tune in to the happiness of the child.” – Tanya “You don’t know until you know. And when you know, you can do things differently.” – Rebecca</blockquote> Resources Mentioned:<ul><li><a href='https://www.edenconsultancyni.com/'>Eden Consultancy NI</a> – Training and consultancy for professionals and families supporting neurodivergent children</li><li><a href='https://www.jigsawccc.co.uk/'>Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre</a> – Mental health support for children, young people, and families in North Belfast</li><li><a href='https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/'>Parentline NI</a> – Free, confidential support for parents and carers across Northern Ireland</li></ul>Need Parenting Support? 📞 Call Parentline NI on 0808 8020 400 A free, confidential service offering a listening ear and practical guidance.Subscribe &amp; Share If you found this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to the podcast and sharing it with a friend, family member, or colleague. 🔗 <a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/861409'>https://www.buzzsprout.com/861409</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this deeply insightful episode of the Parentline podcast, host &lt;b&gt;Kerry McLean&lt;/b&gt; is joined by &lt;b&gt;Tanya Strowger&lt;/b&gt;, a mother of three and counsellor at &lt;a href='https://www.jigsawccc.co.uk/'&gt;Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;b&gt;Rebecca McCullough&lt;/b&gt; from &lt;a href='https://www.edenconsultancyni.com/'&gt;Eden Consultancy NI&lt;/a&gt;. Together, they explore what it’s like to support &lt;b&gt;neurodiverse children&lt;/b&gt;—particularly autistic children—through &lt;b&gt;life’s big transitions&lt;/b&gt;, including school changes, holidays, family events, and everyday routines.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tanya shares the powerful story of her son &lt;b&gt;Silas&lt;/b&gt;, his early signs of autism, the diagnostic journey, and how their family has adapted to meet his needs at home, in school, and out in the world. From sensory challenges and visual schedules to social scripting and emotional regulation, her lived experience offers empathy and practical guidance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Rebecca adds her expertise in neuro-affirming practice, offering thoughtful, real-world strategies to make transitions smoother, support emotional wellbeing, and embrace the child’s unique way of experiencing the world. Whether it’s navigating the school day, Christmas traditions, or going on holiday, this episode is packed with compassion, insight, and useful takeaways for any parent or professional.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;In this episode, we explore:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Recognising early signs of neurodivergence and making sense of a diagnosis&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why small changes (like Sports Day or a different teacher) can be just as hard as big life events&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Using &lt;b&gt;visual aids&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;timers&lt;/b&gt;, and &lt;b&gt;exit strategies&lt;/b&gt; to reduce anxiety&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Preparing for transitions: from holidays and school changes to daily routines&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Helping neurodiverse children manage emotions, especially during moments of overwhelm&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Letting go of expectations and embracing what brings your child &lt;em&gt;real happiness&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Memorable Moments:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Ditch all expectation and tune in to the happiness of the child.”&lt;/em&gt; – Tanya&lt;br/&gt; &lt;em&gt;“You don’t know until you know. And when you know, you can do things differently.”&lt;/em&gt; – Rebecca&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Resources Mentioned:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.edenconsultancyni.com/'&gt;Eden Consultancy NI&lt;/a&gt; – Training and consultancy for professionals and families supporting neurodivergent children&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.jigsawccc.co.uk/'&gt;Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre&lt;/a&gt; – Mental health support for children, young people, and families in North Belfast&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/'&gt;Parentline NI&lt;/a&gt; – Free, confidential support for parents and carers across Northern Ireland&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Need Parenting Support?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; 📞 Call &lt;b&gt;Parentline NI&lt;/b&gt; on &lt;b&gt;0808 8020 400&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; A free, confidential service offering a listening ear and practical guidance.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Subscribe &amp;amp; Share&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; If you found this episode helpful, please consider &lt;b&gt;subscribing&lt;/b&gt; to the podcast and &lt;b&gt;sharing&lt;/b&gt; it with a friend, family member, or colleague.&lt;br/&gt; 🔗 &lt;a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/861409'&gt;https://www.buzzsprout.com/861409&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this deeply insightful episode of the Parentline podcast, host Kerry McLean is joined by Tanya Strowger, a mother of three and counsellor at Jigsaw Community Counselling Centre, and Rebecca McCullough from Eden Consultancy NI. Together, they explore what it’s like to support neurodiverse children—particularly autistic children—through life’s big transitions, including school changes, holidays, family events, and everyday routines. Tanya shares the powerful story of her son Silas, his early...

Supporting Neurodiverse Children Through Life’s Big Transitions

In this special episode, Kerry chats to three of the Parentline NI team - Kathy, Roisin and Julie. This episode focuses on the core ethos of the Parentline service. They discuss the importance of connection with callers, and the teams&apos; aim to provide a listening ear, and non judgemental support to parents and carers. Callers can use the service for any stage of parenting, from babies and toddlers, teenagers and even older children - we never stop being parents. They discuss issues that come up from parents and carers - mental health, neurodiversity, separation anxiety, school avoidance and emotional dysregulation. https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/ Parentline NI is a FREE confidential helpline for parents and carers throughout NI. If you need us, we’re here. Call 0808 8020 400

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this special episode, Kerry chats to three of the Parentline NI team - Kathy, Roisin and Julie. This episode focuses on the core ethos of the Parentline service.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;They discuss the importance of connection with callers, and the teams&amp;apos; aim to provide a listening ear, and non judgemental support to parents and carers.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Callers can use the service for any stage of parenting, from babies and toddlers, teenagers and even older children - we never stop being parents.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;They discuss issues that come up from parents and carers - mental health, neurodiversity, separation anxiety, school avoidance and emotional dysregulation.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;https://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline/&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Parentline NI is a FREE confidential helpline for parents and carers throughout NI.&lt;b&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If you need us, we’re here. Call 0808 8020 400&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this special episode, Kerry chats to three of the Parentline NI team - Kathy, Roisin and Julie. This episode focuses on the core ethos of the Parentline service.  They discuss the importance of connection with callers, and the teams' aim to provide a listening ear, and non judgemental support to parents and carers.  Callers can use the service for any stage of parenting, from babies and toddlers, teenagers and even older children - we never stop being parents.  They discuss issues that com...

Supporting Parents and Carers in NI: Kerry chats to the Parentline Team

To raise thriving children parents need better support. Parentline NI is here for all parents offering support, guidance or advice wherever you are on the parenting journey. We are a helpline for parents operated by Children in Northern Ireland. The Parentline podcasts will explore the ups and downs of parenting with honest and frank discussions to support parents to lay the strongest possible foundations for their children. Find out more information about Parentline NI at http://www.ci-ni.org.uk/parentline-ni

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