Alli and Melisa discuss a topic relationship coach Sabrina Zohar touched on -- using your trauma as an excuse. It's ok to name your trauma, but it's your job to fix. <br /><br />Become a supporter of this podcast: <a href="https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss">https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support</a>.