The most precious commodity in your life, right now ... is you! You now are alone. You have no dates. You may not even have a Girls' Night Out or hang with the boys. You probably don't want to hang with anybody else. You may not want to spoil yourself.<br /><br />That's why you should! Make it a circle of one night and enjoy yourself. It is allowed.<br /><br />You need to find happiness right now. Enjoying your own space forces you to find things about yourself that you probably didn't know existed. Don't pay attention to the others. Only fill yourself with the joy you so richly deserve. Love on yourself!<br /><br />Cole mentions when just a simple trip to the movies and dinner by himself filled him up in ways that, quite frankly, his marriage never did. More than having the freedom to do whatever he wanted, Cole learned to enjoy life again - and not be trapped in his house while his conscience would be busy convincing him of his false unworthiness. Just being among those living their lives made him feel worthy.<br /><br />Many thanks to the following resources for aiding in the production of this episode:<br /><br />OFF THE TOP ... ARTICLES<br /><br />Being alone after divorce: (Why it’s okay) <br />Self-care strategies for how to deal with divorce<br />When dating after divorce, start with yourself<br />SPIRITUAL CONNECTION LITERATURE<br /><br />Heal first, date later<br />How to find hope in God in the loneliness after divorce<br />God has a purpose for your painful divorce<br />EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Psalm 32:7<br /><br />Download your copy of the FREE audio How To Heal From Heartbreak now!<br /><br />Get your T-Shirt @ The Christian T-Shirt Company today!<br /><br />All music by - Cxdy