Stop fixing people and start empowering them! In this episode of The Coachable Podcast, we explore transformative insights on navigating codependent relationships, embracing personal growth, and unlocking true freedom. Learn the difference between healthy support and unhealthy patterns of fixing or saving, and discover practical advice to empower both yourself and others. Through personal stories and profound strategies, I share how to shift your mindset, prioritize self-love, and embrace your authentic self without overextending or abandoning your needs. Together, we’ll explore how to let go of control, respect boundaries, and create relationships rooted in mutual respect and empowerment. This is a conversation you need to hear if you're ready to stop sacrificing your well-being for the sake of others' growth and start focusing on your own transformation. Let’s break free from codependent patterns and lead with love, authenticity, and strength. Don't miss this powerful episode filled with actionable tips and life-changing strategies. Subscribe to The Coachable Podcast for more inspiring content on personal development, empowerment, and mindset shifts. Leave a comment sharing your biggest takeaway, and let’s continue the journey to personal liberation together!
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro 01:04 -
Falling in Love with Potential 11:49
Healthy Support Strategies 14:00
Distinction: Health vs. Helping 19:04
Fixing vs. Saving Dynamics 28:07
Understanding Fixing Behavior 31:55
The Impacts of Saving Others 38:29
Identifying Over-Functioning Traits 40:14
Transitioning to Healthy Support 47:10
Investing in Yourself vs. Others 48:30
Support the Show 49:24
Work with Tori 50:08
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Are you ready to spot the 🚩 10 signs of emotional unavailability and protect your heart in the dating world? In this episode of the Coachable Podcast, I’m breaking down transformative insights into recognizing emotionally unavailable partners and sharing practical advice to help you unlock true freedom in your relationships. Whether you're searching for your king, queen, or simply striving for personal liberation, this is the conversation you need to hear! We’ll explore why emotional unavailability happens, how past patterns shape our connections, and how to embrace your authentic self while setting empowered boundaries. If you’ve ever felt emotionally unfulfilled, confused by mixed signals, or caught in a cycle of “almost love,” this episode will guide you toward a mindset shift that prioritizes self-love and clarity. Join me as we dive into life-changing strategies to navigate dating with intention, avoid settling for less, and attract the healthy, reciprocal love you deserve. Remember, you are worthy of love that is present, open, and aligned with your values. Don’t miss this episode—it might just change the way you approach relationships forever!
#selfimprovement #attachmenttrauma #datinganemotionallyunavailableman #emotionallyunavailable #avoidantpersonalitydisorder
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Welcome back to the Coachable Podcast
00:38 - Understanding Emotional Unavailability
08:00 - Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
17:45 - Identifying Signs of Emotional Unavailability
20:11 - Inconsistent Communication Patterns
23:26 - Commitment Avoidance in Relationships
26:44 - Difficulty in Expressing Emotions
29:46 - Prioritizing Independence Over Partnership
30:55 - Unresolved Emotional Baggage Issues
34:25 - Responses During Emotional Hard Times
36:58 - Aligning Actions with Words
42:00 - Responding to Signs of Emotional Unavailability
43:11 - Deserving Present and Open Love
45:00 - Assessing Readiness for a Relationship
45:10 - Understanding Failed Relationships
45:20 - The Purpose of Life School
The Coachable Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachablepodcast/ Website: https://www.torigordon.com Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ToriGordon
Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4e62a5zpupdFpkErMiEimz?si=e7fb00845d874ac8 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coachable-podcast/id1475408897
Tori Gordon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon/